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  2. Victimorthecrime

    Nearly end of month

    Plan the work, work the plan. Good job.
  3. Yesterday
  4. Daveuk

    Nearly end of month

    Monday. Went out for some shopping. Tuesday. Stayed in to do house work Wednesday. Went to Saintsburys had safeguarding come around at 12 noon . Thursday. Had Probation and CR group Today. Had a meeting at 11am then back home
  5. lifelongvirgin

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    I've never understood why people correlate the whole penis size thing with breasts size and butt size. Neither of those two are required to satisfy a man sexually. A man is never going to reject a woman for having small breasts or the size of her ass. Not to her face anyway. Women with small breasts aren't mocked and ridiculed in the media the way small penises are. I don't get it. Don't get me wrong, I can understand why so many girls and women have insecurities in these areas but I feel they are more general body dysmorphic issues. Women don't reject small penises because of the way they look. Well it's not the main reason. There really is no equivalent of the penis when it comes to women's bodies.
  6. Last week
  7. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    will you get off my case? jeez.
  8. FloridaDood898

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    was it one of those self reporting studies? we all know how reliable those are.
  9. TheDane

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    None of the figures in the first picture are correct. Still doesnt change the unwelcome truth.
  10. YOTH

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    It might be worth going into anorexia forums and telling them to think about us. Or is that stupid idea?
  11. FloridaDood898

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    ROFL this chart is hilarious! average Denmark size close to 8 inches! LOLOLOL
  12. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    I see. Horrible.
  13. jazz

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    One of his forum friends broke the news.
  14. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    woah ok sorry. How did you know something happened to them? did a family member contact this forum with the news?
  15. lifelongvirgin

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    That is the most ridiculous BS I've ever seen. We're supposed to believe that average size in Denmark is almost 8 inches? Of course it is LOL. The fact that the average Danish penis is 7.6" on the first graph and only 6.26" on the second tells you all you need to know.
  16. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    was 'Resolute' a member here who killed himself?
  17. jazz

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    It really saddens me that Resolute did what he did because of the way he thought he wasn't a success. A bit political but maybe if there had been a more robust financial safety net available to him he'd still be here.
  18. lol I had written something only to realize it was idiotic as it was offensive. Listen man, good luck to ya. Enjoy the Florida sunshine and all that goes w it.
  19. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    K it just doesn't hurt to have someone say something to at least TRY and make someone see things a little more level headed even if for a few moments. I'm not expecting what I said to be what someone with this problem needs to hear to make them have a lightbulb moment to snap out of it but I know when I was seriously messed up with this stuff It'd help me out at least if only temporarily to see even just a little smidgen of rationality. You are right in it isn't really something thats taken as serious as it should be but I think a big reason for this is so many men not wanting to admit it. I am betting if a lot more men were honest and came forward about their legit small or tiny size or percieved small or tiny size the whole thing would gain some serious momentum and would simply have to be taken more serious from a mental health concern standpoint. As it stands now its still in the minority because besides us people being anonyomous on these types of forums it isn't talked about. It isn't just guys who are humiliated with this type of thing I mean a lot of women are brought down and humiliated about their lack of chest size/ass size growing up even into adulthood. I've heard stories of suicides linked to girls growing up with only slightly smaller than average chest sizes yet end up killing themselves. While they can have boob jobs done etc but people will still know they are a boobjob. How many girls across the world right now are suffering and dieng through anorexia simply because of their paranoia to be even half a pound overweight to them qualify as fat? anyone can look at some of these anorexia horror stories online and all this seems like a walk in the park by comparison. Some need to realise we aren't the only ones suffering believe me.
  20. YOTH

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    @FloridaDood898 There is no chill pill. All of the men who come here suffer from phallic psychosis. It should be treated the same as every other form of psychosis. You wouldn't tell an anorexic to "take a chill pill and eat" because you know that it wouldn't work, so do the doctors who have been studying anorexia for years. Our condition has been ignored by mainstream psychologists and might as well be a stubbed toe when speaking to GP's and doctors. Motion in the ocean is their favourite prescription. I beat this condition for the most part through mind training and obsessively watching my thoughts instead of obsessing over my insecurities, but it took me years. I'm also still overcoming it on a day to day basis. I'm assuming you are too because why are you in here to begin with? I've seen it eat men from the inside out and watched as they slowly lose their sanity and take their own and others lives. It's not only different to other conditions, it's extremely unique. The torture of men over size is widely considered acceptable in every crevice of life. Work, home, social media. You can't escape. This isn't something that will be undone with one cheerleading pep rally comment, it runs deeper than anything else in our culture as it's built into to our very evolution and survival. But we're not apes in the trees, we've evolved enough to recognise that this treatment of men is unacceptable. I know myself that it doesn't have to be this way, but that means nothing to people in the storm, this needs to be treated by specifically trained psychologists, not some shitty magazine agony aunt. It isn't even about acceptance, at its core it's about compassion. To not torture another human being for something completely out of their control. But the reality is that we continue to be treated like plague victims and that won't change any time soon. I have faith in Klingsor. No matter what he does in life, no matter what he chooses to do, where he chooses to work and live. I have faith in him. But he's gonna do and feel and think about things that I can't change, I have no control, I can only be there as a pal without the judgement. But I have my own reasons as well. I need people in my life who understand what I go through, someone I can talk to without them making a comment that makes me want to ground to swallow me up. I'm grateful for that. This place is a mausoleum for the thoughts, worries and tribulations of the first man who ever suffered from this condition. But he had nobody. We have eachother. Don't give up, don't suffer alone, reach out. People can reach out to me whenever they want. To me size is irrelevant, the physical form isn't what matters, it's the content I care about. The person behind the defences, the annoyed, tired, angry, vicious lunatic that this condition turned us towards. So we can get past it and find the normal people we really are behind the desperate posts and faceless rants. I'm not having a go Florida Dood. It's just not as straight forward as you think it is. And even if in truth it is that straight forward, the reversal of this thought system definitely isn't.
  21. FloridaDood898

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    Klingsor you need to take a chillpill and stop analyzing this constantly I think its clear you've become OBSESSED with this problem. I've been where you are and became consumed by this issue (obsessions with feeling small) to the point any slight triggering hint of anything negative relating to my size or my size not being enough sexually would had driven me into a deep dark despair in a major way or even self harm in some instances. I wasted YEARS of my life being this consumed and obsessed with my size concern. There's countless things that can trigger it if your mind is primed in this mindset and these things will be blown way out of proportion in this dangerous psyche mode. I'm not saying this isn't bad for you and affects you strongly but just TRY to put things in perspective yes it sucks but It isn't THAT serious.
  22. FloridaDood898

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    Thx for putting me off my lunch.
  23. TheDane

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    Easy now Victimorthecrime. It is always nice to get a 2nd or even 3rd opinion or at least converse with other SPS guys. The reason why I didnt give any specifics was that I didnt wanted "to brag" about 6 inches. I was recently banned from reddit because of it too.(not bragging obviously) and as we all know average=small. Also where I live people have the biggest penises in all of Europe. Which is just fantastic news for me....
  24. Klingsor

    “Finally, A New Emoji...”

    Victim, this is an important point and a valid one. I don’t disagree at all. In fact I think this is a key to understanding the issue. “Where your treasure is, there your heart is also”. I’ll give 3 examples: Small copes with SPS fairly successfully. It doesn’t consume him like it does me, he’s able to carry on a fairly normal life. I’ve made no secret about my obsessions with sex and sexuality since I was a kid which makes having a small dick torture. I don’t know how much is due to cultural and environmental factors, but I’ve speculated about it in my private writings. Resolute did not suffer from SPS but killed himself because of a general perceived lack of success. This translated into a feeling of EMASCULATION. So even though he didn’t have dick problems, he still felt “small”. So yes, what you say plays a critical role in how men cope differently with this.
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