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  2. raritchie

    Ranting on about women

    Maybe not pointless you could make some guesses through conversation. Underlying anger possibly could be detected. I would be surprised if women want to hurt your feelings unless they are angry at you or in general against men. But you are right that wouldn't reveal size preferences unless explicitly expressed. But the way I reacted to his small penis was tied-up in my reaction to abuse. My main focus was that he was not abusive or even aggressive.
  3. raritchie

    Adult Imaginary Friend

    Interesting that I had a totally different reaction to being raped. No blaming of myself even though I was reckless. Total blaming of ALL aggressive men.
  4. raritchie

    how to cure femdom fetish?

    The world has more dangerous people inhabiting it than we might imagine.
  5. Last week
  6. lifelongvirgin

    Ranting on about women

    To be honest when I asked " I wonder what percentage of women would react the way you did? " I meant how you reacted to the fact he had a small penis not about the abuse. I guess it's a pointless question because women will all have their own priorities and desires when it comes to penis size so asking just one woman doesn't really tell you much. That's what makes it so hard for us guys because obviously when you meet a woman you have absolutely no idea what her priorities and desires are. You won't find out either until you get undressed for the first time and you are at your most vulnerable.
  7. raritchie

    how to cure femdom fetish?

    I have seen cruel barbs about lesser endowed men, but what you are describing is far more severe, not just a passing emotional reaction. Probably a reaction to suffering abuse I would guess!
  8. lbaker

    Ranting on about women

    But apparently you wanted to boycott them, not hurt them.
  9. It interest me that you miss large penises eventhough you didn't orgasm with them (some or all?). I was recently introduced to the concept of social-sexual hierarchy at this site when someone linked https://youtu.be/1Ua2XnYlm-o Before I got married I had sex with quite a few large and small guys. Now, I realize that I like the confidence and self esteem of so called alpha guys for sex. That was what I missed most with my husband, not orgasms, though those were different also. Alpha guys usually have a big penis, but not always.
  10. Yes, real surgery to enlarge the penis is a long way off. Stretching exercises and pumps seem to work for some people, but usually only for guys that are pretty large already. I suspect some people have much more elastic connective tissues than others, but stretching can have permanent results only if tissue growth is stimulated by stretching. Not everyone can be a contortionist. I think you need very elastic tendons and ligaments to even get started. Google contortionist if you want to be amazed. I tried a recommended program of careful manual stretching "religiously" years ago with no results at all. Is it documented that tissue can actually be induced to grow after puberty? Could all be a fraud, but some seemingly disinterested people claim it does work for some. Yeah, stay away from enlargement surgery. Some famous person just died from it!
  11. From what I've read, hormones would have to augmented in the womb at critical growth periods and during puberty as well to ensure that the penis reached its genetic potential.
  12. Easier to connect the finite number of nerves, tendons, etc to transplant a head. Take a look at the diagram of the penis. Far more complicated. Akin to lengthening the neck at the same time, but much much more complicated.
  13. The penis is quite complicated. A lot of nerve connections, complicated erectile tissue, subtle blood valves, root, tendons, complicated connective tissue mesh to enclose erectile tissue, and on and on: see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis#Parts Transexual surgical procedures to create a penis for a biological woman seem very unsuccessful to me. Of course, I really know little about it except for some pictures I saw some time ago. The surgeons seem a lot more successful in removing most of the penis and creating a vagina. I have communicated with guys who have had what they claimed was great sex with a surgically created vagina. The article says the human penis cannot be withdrawn into the groin. No doubt this generally true, but an over generalizaton, as mine does at times!
  14. raritchie

    Submissive feelings to a larger penis

    OMG you sound like my husband, but I know you aren't from reading your slew of posts. You have allowed yourself to go too far down into a bad place. No doubt, your wife, like me, would be totally disgusted if she knew. I could better understand adopting the gay lifestyle, having gay affairs. Somehow, you have to dig your way out of this hole. At least I can sympathize with you. My husband is too close. Most women judge the man. His penis is a side issue.
  15. This merits its own 'thread / topic' https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/what-can-stop-the-loneliness/
  16. All my inferiority feelings were confirmed when I finally had oral sex with the dominant Asian guy. I was totally under the power of his big thick cock. The contrast with girls effortlessly engulfing my little erection was stunning. Yes, I felt afterwards that my wives and every woman I'd ever had sex with, just like the poster above, deserved to experience a bigger one just like I had just done. He enjoyed making me gag, chastising me until I learned to serve him. He enjoyed dominating me and I was thrilled. I lost interest in sex with my wife almost completely. I couldn't fathom why she wanted to have sex with me because she had experience large ones in her past. Anyway, sex with women humiliated me because of their mild reaction.
  17. lbaker

    Thy Enemy.....Small Penis

    I only have 1/2" on you. I found an inexperienced woman and we got married, but due inferiority neurosis, I thought she wasn't responsive and was unfaithful. You had a far superior approach.
  18. raritchie

    Ranting on about women

    I was angry, very angry at any man who appeared in the slightest abusive.or even normally aggressive, I guess.
  19. raritchie

    Thy Enemy.....Small Penis

    According to Wikipedia you are well above a micropenis, but somewhat smaller than average.
  20. lbaker

    how to cure femdom fetish?

    I really enjoyed being dominated by the woman I referenced above, I interpreted it as a special secret gift I was giving and she appreciated. No, she was just building her ego by progressively tearing down mind in elaborate irreversible orgasmic rituals for her only.
  21. lbaker

    Ranting on about women

    I think the more common reaction, rather than raritchie's is anger at the particular man or anger at all men. Rather than take the blame for her behavior that provided the occasion for abuse many women last out at men for the rest of their life. Of course, it strikes me that both reactions, are over reactions, but understandable. A balanced reaction would be more appropriate, that's not the way of the world.
  22. I'm a guy, so can't say I know what you're going through. But . . . except for age, I could be your hubby. (see my new member submission ) Perspective on Micro-Penis My wife and I were married over 50 years, had 4 kids, and NO - she didn't orgasm every time. But both of us had a lot of fun trying. As I said in "Perspective" she quite often took the initiative and was not bashful in wanting 'little guy'. In her 70's (2 weeks before she died) she bluntly said " I want you - I want you to Fxxk me". Over the years we both learned some things from Porn - some good, some yuck. I surmise that your apprehension might well be as a result of the Porn exposure. Keep reminding yourself that the participants in porn are ACTORS. Sure, some guys have a longer, fatter member and some girls have DD breasts and a longer clit. But unless you're making videos to supplement income, don't let size matter. I am sorry that my wife isn't here to tell you about the important things in life. I do miss her (yes, the dicky-dunkin too). I never dreamt that at my age I would miss licking her clean afterwards. We focused on what was rather than what some porn producer wanted us to believe. I do pray that you will be able to overcome your concerns, find true happiness, and live each day as if it were your last. 'Smallbeans' above said it nicely - and in fewer words.
  23. LittleMan4

    Small penis

    hey man me too i'm fucking tiny
  24. lbaker

    females views etc (Trigger Warning!)

    Here is Miley's the whole public rant at a performance at a gay club, I guess: Before launching into the emotional power ballad “Wrecking Ball,” Cyrus unloaded on Liam Hemsworth, telling the crowd 2013: Cyrus was in a break-up with Hemsworth at the time, but denied the rant was about him. She and Hemsworth got married in 2018. She said the rant wasn't about Hemsworth and was just to rile up the guys at the gay club where she was performing. Hmmm? She seemed to have keen insight into the "confidence" issue.
  25. retr0john

    My so called life

    Small, it's interesting you say your nephew stances right but is a left paw. My oldest boy is right handed in everything, but when he played baseball he batted left, and wore his glove on his right hand and threw with his left. I guess it's whatever they learn and are comfortable with. I helped with kids starting out boxing, but when I was helping out I certainly wasn't an advanced coach or anything, I was just helping kids with the basics. Yes, I own my own guns. I have two .45s, a 9mm, a .357, a .25 and a couple .22s to plink with. I also have three long guns and an antique .36 caliber black powder rifle. My boys own 2 or three guns apiece. I do shoot for pleasure, but I also take my practice time very seriously. I take professional class time refresher training at least once a year and practice often. I firmly believe if a person isn't going to take gun ownership seriously, they have no business owning or carrying a firearm. I used to hunt, and took the boys occasionally. Among the things I taught the kids was that they never shoot and kill anything that they're not going to eat, and never take more than you can eat. Don't waste anything. Hunting isn't for pleasure, it's for putting food on the table. Oh well, time to jump down off my soap box. I envy you having tried pasties before. I'm definitely going to make that the first thing new that I try to cook. No, the gym I'm looking at doesn't have any type of boxing set up. It's more of a modern weight training place with treadmills, not an old, comfortable sparring gym like Sarges in Louisville. Heck, Sarge probably isn't there anymore. Take care Small. P.S. Hi Victim. I seen you were reading along. I hope your cutting down on the beer is still going well. Take care too!
  26. raritchie

    females views etc (Trigger Warning!)

    Yeah, angry women put men down about their penises. Foolish to take the details what they say seriously when they are angry. Men abuse women. The main thing that makes women angry.
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