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  1. 4 points
    Victimorthecrime

    My pathetic stump

    @Fedupwithlife sorry to hear you are feeling this bad about things. You are right about the jokes but take it for what it is worth. Anyone that peddles is such fare is a talentless hack seeking attention. Our culture is extremely course and nasty. I try to tune it out. Sounds like your relationship w your wife is less than great and maybe you could work on that. I have never been married so not in a position to comment beyond that. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy. Many of us are not happy about our appearance and capabilities in life. But we get one shot at life and then we disappear forever so I vote for making the best of it.
  2. 3 points
    YOTH

    New Here, but Longtime Struggler

    @itsSmaller I know what you're saying, it's daft that there's a cut off point for suffering over size issues, but anyone is welcome here. I think, if you're in pain because of this and looking for a place to feel at home, this is the place. There are sub-sub-sub genres of SPS, but there are no cornered markets on pain and suffering. On a happier note, where are you from roughly, USA?
  3. 3 points
    itsSmaller

    New Here, but Longtime Struggler

    Thanks YOTH, and thank you too PDX. I don't want to cause other people frustration. I really am struggling and going through pain. My non bone-pressed is 5 on a really good day, and my semi erections are smaller after the peyronies injury. YOTH, I told her about my injury. She didn't say much. Once when I mentioned it in bed after sex she asked, "how did it happen again"? Other than that she never commented when I told the story. She just listened. I think the relationship is done, but we never called it anything special. We partied together at 6 parties last year and got closer and closer till we had a fling last year. I couldn't get fully hard, but enough to penetrate. She came with oral before trying intercourse. These past two weekends were dinner dates, then sleeping over at my place. I've built a small house that I haven't completed and it is messier than it should be. I think that factored in.....and she probably had another interesting opportunity open up with someone else around Valentines Day. That day is treacherous! I really would like to be a part of the community here. I walk on eggshells at r/smalldickproblems because it isn't a syndrome inclusive community.
  4. 3 points
    I actually haven't measured in about 15 or 20 years, but I'm about 4 inches. I would like to be around 7 or 8. Don't know about girth.
  5. 3 points
    PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero

    My pathetic stump

    It goes good man. Still taking these blackjack dealing classes (now we're learning Spanish 21, a cool variant of blackjack where the 10s are removed but you always win when you get 21 and you can double down whenever you want, as well as many other little twists like being paid 3:2 on a 6-7-8 or 7-7-7 (2:1 if they're suited, and 3:1 if they are spaded). I spent last weekend at my girlfriend's house (which is an hour south of where I live) and I had a good time. However on Monday, her mom Googled my real name and found out about how I lost my assistant-nursing license due to a failed drug test (they even said which drugs were in my system which is fucked up, I'm still working on getting my name cleared on there because that's fucked up). I was upset but the more I think about it, fuck her mom anyways, she's a dumb 38 year old who has two (would have three if she could have kids with her current husband) baby daddies (had my girlfriend at age 15) and is probably one of the biggest reasons my girlfriend is as fucked up (and used/abused, highschool dropout, who still has so much to learn like the fact that New Orleans is not in Florida and what an Anglophile is). I was just discussing this with this married female friend of mine (who was asking if we had talked about marriage and I mentioned how she has brought it up but I told her it was way too early to even be taking about it and how we should at least live together for a while first). Anyways, I was telling her how I love my girlfriend but she is not the intellectual film/music "art fag" girl I always imagined I would end up with. She is not dumb either, fortunately. In fact, when she shows me some of her writing, I am often surprised at how sneaky good she is at writing despite not being an intellectual (or even coming close to being one). But I would gladly trade my girlfriend having bad tastes in music/film and being un-intelligent for the heart/soul she has. She is the most beautiful, loving, trusting, caring person I have ever known. I am so lucky to have her. I think SPS guys need to be with girls like her. Girls that couldn't care less about superficial shit like penis size and are loving/caring girls who would prefer cuddling for hours over fucking for minutes. I am picking her up this weekend and I am going to take her to where I grew up (which is only 15 or 20 minutes drive northeast of where I live now) and we are going to spend Saturday night there and then probably go to this Super Bowl party (where we will hopefully watch New England go down in epic defeat).
  6. 2 points
    Griz

    Girl of My Dreams

    So, when I was married, my buddy and I used to go for wing Wednesday every week. We had been going for a while and then he mentioned that a friend of his was coming with us, which I said fine, it ended up being a really good looking girl. And because I had a wife, I didn’t care and just talked to her normally. We got along great. We talked mostly instant of her and then buddy. The next day at work, he said that she had told him that if I didn’t have a wife that she would totally go on a date with me. She loved how normal I was. I tell that story because could it have been that subconsciously you knew you have a great girl with you right now, so therefore you could actually be yourself around her? I had never been good with chicks that I had liked before, but because I wasn’t thinking about trying to impress her, I didn’t care.
  7. 2 points
    jazz

    HELLO AND HELP!

    Hello precious. 'Doing' rather than thinking may help? When I had anxiety that was the way I coped, activities like walking, very simple creative stuff, joining a mental health support group, trying to read self help books. It's really difficult I know, but may help change your thoughts even if only for a little while at first. Interesting that you feel bad about yourself, but chose the forum name 'precious', because of course you are, even if you don't think so right now.
  8. 2 points
    Hi @Victimorthecrime, valid point about the English as a 2nd language but the OP didn't come across to me as that case but I guess I could be wrong. I've been doing well overall. It's been a hectic first part of the year at work so I've been consumed with that and it helps me not focus on SPS or my personal pity party. How have you been?
  9. 2 points
    @Proudofmymicro, why are you here? I mean why did you join this site? This isn't an easy place to find unless you are desperately trying to learn about SPS. Based on how confident you are, why would you ever be looking for a site like this? It should have never crossed your mind. In addition, this was your first post on this site and this is your introduction? Being a bull in a china shop. Now, don't get me wrong, like you said in your rant, everyone has an opinion and I agree with some of yours and disagree with others. My point is that if you want to be a credible source of information and help to people on this site then act like one. Your initial post comes off very "trollish" to me.
  10. 2 points
    YOTH

    My Mother Is A Deceptive Hypocrite

    She sounds like a very unhappy woman. Her mind seems to be in turmoil and she thinks by making others fight against eachother she'll somewhat get rid of what she's feeling. But so within so without. You're in a very unique position, you know your mother inside and out, so maybe it's time to stop being daughter and take the role of mother. If she was your daughter acting like this, what would you do? My experience with Muslims was always positive, the Muslim people I've encountered have always been very peaceful, but we're all people at the end of the day, we're flawed and misunderstood. Sometimes we want the people we love the most to feel our pain, it's selfish, but unfortunately very human. I believe in forgiveness, it's the only way to alleviate the confusion and let our pain go. And the most enlightened people in the world will revert right back to being a child in the company of their parents, they know what buttons to press and aren't shy about pushing them. But they're just overgrown children themselves, we all are. I think Victim is right, time away is important so you can defragment your relationship and look at it from a different point of view. We can't ask God to change our parents, but we can ask him to help us to see them differently. Good luck with it, we all deserve peace in our lives.
  11. 2 points
    atxbat

    Hello from Austin, TX

    I'm here because I have self esteem issues with my small penis. I am happily married, but for some reason I still cant get over my body. I also have a meth addiction that I'm trying to overcome. I hope we can all help each other.
  12. 2 points
    Small

    My so called life

    @IrmaJean Thanks Beth. It might sound like a meaningless endeavour to some people but learning how to roller-skate means a great deal to me. It satisfies a childhood goal as well as providing me with a new outlet. I was worried on Monday when I was unable to move in the skates after barely being able to stand upright. I was faced with the realisation that I wouldn't be able to learn & this had me feeling like a failure, again. I tried again on Wednesday when i officially got the present & made it to the point where i could walk & roll around. Today after putting on the skates i took a deep breath and prepared myself for a glorious fall after deciding to try the correct (kicking to the side) technique. I was so relieved when i preformed it. I still have a long way to go before I'm fluent and well rounded enough to do my victory lap around the park. But after this development I'm confident that with enough practice i can do it. If you get the feeling that this is about more than just skating, you're right. It's about a lot of things. I'm not going to celebrate this too early because failure is still possible. I'm still green at the technique & have no practical experience with cornering or braking. (I've realised that the theoretical tips are insensitive to the perceptive requirements of a legitimate newbie) All I can do is practice and hope for the best.
  13. 2 points
    IrmaJean

    My so called life

    I hope you have some positive moments today on your birthday! I find it feels rewarding to learn something new, to an even greater degree now than when I was younger. I doubt anyone could put on a pair of skates for the first time and immediately be great at it. It'll take some practice and patience, but you'll get there.
  14. 2 points
    Well, was at the show last night. I was more comfortable this time around. A bit. But I also had a few drinks to get me more comfortable. It seemed more toned down then last time. But also every sex kind of vender that was there basically sells the same thing. We actually ended up booking a chiropractor appointment while we were there lol. Got a mini spine test done and my neck alone is all fucked up. Anyways, we ended up getting a mystery bag, which is staples together so you don’t know what you get until you buy it and open it. As we did the last time we went. There was like 3 vibrators in it, a sex game, some margarita glass with a penis shaped thing in the middle of it. And a bunch of lube. As we went along we checked out a seminar by Dr. Jess(smoke show) about pleasuring a guy. After that we continued walking around and there were people being tied up, swinging on swings, performances from groups on the main stage. As the night went on, I had a couple more drinks, I didn’t mention about the girth enhancer again, but a cock ring sorta caught my attention. So, we ended up buying a couple of those for me. We will give those a turn in the near future. I read up on it a little bit this morning and it should help me perform longer, and actually perhaps get a fuller erection. So I might even gain a little size from it. Which would be interesting. I want to open it up and try it and measure lol, but I don’t want to open it without the gf. Maybe actually, we could do a comparison without the cock ring and then with! See if there is a difference. So yeah, just a brief statement from last night. Anyone care to ask questions, I’ll answer!
  15. 2 points
    Fedupwithlife

    My pathetic stump

    I am genuinely on the verge of sacking it all off. What ever way I spin my limited options, the net result is I'm better of dead. Every moment of my life is consumed by my tiny acorn, political correctness has prevented jokes regarding every condition, black, white, fat, ginger, the lot. The only thing not off limits is a tiny penis, I'm reminded of it every day. I'm fucking sick of it, I see no way out of my turmoil. I can't even discus it with ny wife because I don't trust her and there's only so many times you can put up with being told it's all in your head.
  16. 2 points
    PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero

    My pathetic stump

    Hang in there, man. At least you have a wife, I mean, a lot of us guys are single and life-long virgins and lonely. I know I was for the longest time.
  17. 2 points
    Victimorthecrime

    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    My downfall in life has been emotions overwhelming me, seizing control of me and catapulting me in whatever direction they desire. That is why I am making a strong effort to use logic as my primary decision tool. I can do it, I just have to prioritize it and pursue it ruthlessly. So far so good.
  18. 2 points
    Fedupwithlife

    Nothing in my life makes sense

    Thank you all for your kind words, it means a lot!
  19. 2 points
    By the way son, about your abnormal penis...ooh look a pigeon (car door slams). Lol! My dad's conversation was similar "The thing with penises is that some are big and some are small, but they grow, much like the plant I bought for your stepmum, speaking of plants, did you watch the football last night?" I get why they struggle with it tbh, they're a different generation. It was shut up and put up for them growing up. I sometimes forget he was a kid in the 60's and growing up in the 70's they've had to adapt to a lot. They don't know whether they're coming or going most of the time with the shifting politically correct climate. One minute they're calling a tranny a nancy boy and everyone is laughing along, the next minute they're up in front of a tribunal for misgendering a non binary otherkin 😂
  20. 1 point
    itsSmaller

    New Here, but Longtime Struggler

    Was average and had SPS, but now smaller after a peyronies injury. Oh, the irony. Hello everyone, I found this forum a couple of weeks ago and read a bit then. I'm active on Reddit and read r/smalldickproblems, but I don't post there much at all due to not being under 4.5" in length. I've had small penis syndrome since the age of 16. Before that, I only felt that my balls were kinda small from seeing my a couple of neighbors naked. At 16 though, I was in a sexual relationship for the first time. She was my first love. She had a large vulva and very elastic vagina. I wished that my average penis were bigger to fill her up more. It bothered me a lot. I hadn't seen much porn by then. Probably just 1 video, but I read a lot of penthouse letters. I LOVED reading about penetration. I was absolutely fascinated with it. I began to really like it when a woman was challenged a bit by the cock or toy penetrating her, and she had to stretch. While dating my first love I started to explore penetrating my rear. I wished that I had a vagina of my own, and I wished that I had my girlfriend with me to explore much more often. So, I kept doing insertions on myself. Now, I'm saying all this to explain how my sexuality formed (not to troll ! ) . I became drawn to large penetrations and also began to hate my penis size. At 17 I finally began to get on the internet. I soon found info about extenders, pumps, and a book on penis enlargement by a guy named Gary Griffin ( I think). Penis Enlargement Facts and Phallacies. I became obsessed with enlargement. I couldn't stick to a routine longer than 2 months. I thought that I was starting to see results, but I question that now. I definitely did get harder erections with a modest pump/jelq routine, but that's about it. I couldn't stick to it for months on end. It took so much time. I tried enlargement routines on and off through my 20's, then less so in my 30's. I had one longterm relationship at the age of 23 for a year, then couldn't get into one until I was 29. Then from 29 till my mid 30's I was in an LTR. My penis all this time was 6.75" bone pressed length x 5.25" midshaft girth. I was definitely not satisfied, but I knew that I was probably at the 60th percentile on size, statistically. My non bone-pressed was 6 to 6.2" on a good day when I was lean. Yes, I say was. At 34 I got a peyronies injury by dry humping. She had always turned me on so much. We didn't have condoms on hand, so I kept my pants on. I regret it so much. I lost about a half inch in each measurement. My length and foreshaft, especially. I now measure about 6.2" bone pressed, but just under 5" non bone-pressed. I gained a little bit of body fat (not a lot, really) and combined with the peyronies my penis is now an inch shorter. It seems even more at times because at 80 to 90% erect my penis is much smaller than it used to be with that same level of erection. It takes a very full on erection to get past 4.5", it seems. My foreshaft girth is now 4.5". Sex feels different to me too now. It has been so difficult to handle this mentally. I've been to counselling, but it was more for overall relationship stuff. The councilor hasn't asked much about it. He's a guy. My longterm relationship ended a year and a half later. The peyronies didn't cause it, but it definitely didn't help. I didn't want to have sex as often. It weighed heavy on me. Last year I had a couple of dates and 3 sex partners, this is since that longterm relationship ended. Nothing stuck. They were weekend romps. Then, just 2 weeks ago one of them contacted me. She was newly single and wanted a date. We had a date Friday the 9th, then again last night. Both nights I had trouble maintaining an erection. It was quite hard before I went down on her, but after I went down it was just a half erection. The first Friday night I was able to get it hard after penetrating her, but then I came in 5 to 8 mins. She seemed barely disappointed. I went down on her to get her off. We went to sleep. We had better sex that following morning. It wasn't easy to get fully hard, but I got it done. This weekend was a repeat, but worse. I couldn't get more than 80% hard last night. My cock fell out of her a lot, including when she was getting close to orgasm with her vibe on her clit. She said she wanted to quit, that she was cramping and maybe starting her period. We went to sleep. This morning she realized that she was not starting her period, so we started again. I got mostly hard, then went down on her. I lost the erection, but worse..... after she nearly reached orgasm, she stopped me. She said that she was "too much in her head". That was probably true. She didn't want to continue sex after that. I asked if it was thoughts about her breakup. She said, "yes, and other things". She then started saying that we needed to get up and out of bed. I made us breakfast. It was very difficult to keep my composure. At the end of breakfast I asked if she thought we'd be intimate again in the future. She said that she wasn't sure. Then paused, and went on to say, "I'm sorry I lead you on". We had a few nights of heavy caressing and major arousal without sex before these last two weekends. She was really digging me before being more sexual with me. I feel like she was disappointed in my size and hardness. Basically some combination of the two. She is very sexually liberated and mostly dates women. Her last breakup was with a guy though. I was expecting that she'd be very up for playing with my toys or being very satisfied by finishing with oral, but no..... now I think she expects more from a guy when she is having sex with a guy. She uses toys with women, so maybe she just wants flesh and blood penis with a guy......and damn sure wants a hard one. Well, I'm struggling. I'm 38 and never married. I don't want kids, but I would love to share a home with a woman. This woman that quit me in the middle of sex had a lot of common interest with me. We were unusually well matched with our eccentric interests and friends group, to boot. I'm really hurting emotionally about my penis now even more so than I was for the last 2 years. I have even wondered what it would be like to cut it off. My last longterm partner now lives with a trans male that uses a strapon on her. If I didn't have a penis I could more easily wear a strapon...... is what runs through my mind. I think of the movie Hedwig and the Angry Inch that I've yet to see. It was recommended to me by my last GF. I'm really broken hearted about my penis. I needed to vent AND tell the story about how it all started. Thank you for reading all of this.
  21. 1 point
    Yeah, and then there's the opinions and assholes thing, that we've all got at least one. It can be very hard deciding which one they're currently talking out of. :-) You may have read it correctly, lostboy, but as Beth said, we'll never know. Maybe he's an ex-sufferer who has a hard time being patient with his old self, and that's why he's so blunt. (In other words, it's about him and not you.) The real trouble, whatever his motives and as you pointed out, is that he failed to offer constructive advice so that he might help others.
  22. 1 point
    That hand grenade, my way or the highway posting is like meeting a drunk guy at a garden party who tells you that "You have to buy insurance with a permeable guarantee, but only in a slide market otherwise you'll be poor until your dead". He might be taking compete sense and giving you the tip of a lifetime that could save you years of worry and stress. But he came over smelling of roll ups, smugness and Stella Artois, so you just nod and go "yeh, permeated insurance on a water slide, will do". And shimmy off sharpish. On the flip side of that, nobody will ever post something that'll change your mind about your situation unless you're at the end of your metaphorical rope and want to change anyway. So, fuck it.
  23. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    HELLO AND HELP!

    Welcome to the community, Precious. Are you able to listen to your needs and care for yourself through these distressful times? When in self destruct mode (I have been there), it can be easy to abandon yourself. Deep breathing helps me to center myself. I try to slow my responses down, sit with myself, and be present. . Anything that frees the mind could be helpful. Everyone is different though, I think, and your needs might be different. Jazz has some good suggestions with exercise and art/creativity. I also agree with Vic that the combination of medication and therapy might also be helpful. Has anything been helpful to you in the past? I hope you feel better, Precious.
  24. 1 point
    malign

    feature request: android app

    Yes, as Beth said, the site is just a website, so it is accessed with a web browser. I too use it from an Android phone, like now, or my PC. It styles a little differently on the phone's smaller screen, but all that coding is handled by our hosts.
  25. 1 point
    Small

    My so called life

    The fight is signed for UFC 226 in July
  26. 1 point
    Griz

    I’m going to a Taboo Sex Show in Friday

    We have now used a couple of the cock rings a couple times this last week. Both times we put it on when I was already hard(you’re supposed to put it on when it’s soft or semi hard apparently), she could feel a difference the first time from one of my veins. The second one is a little more thicker of a ring, and she instead felt a difference and said I was definitely more hard and when she put me in her mouth, said I felt bigger. So next time we use it, I want to ask her to take a measurement of me before and during the time I have the cock ring on. See if there is any actual difference!
  27. 1 point
    Small

    My so called life

    @YOTH Yeah I know you were joking. Got a little distracted.
  28. 1 point
    I doubt it man. And I think the reason no one has really responded to this post is because your size (over 6 inches?) is not small even in the least bit. A lot of guys (such as myself) would kill to be at 5, let alone 6 inches. I can tell that you are suffering, but at the same time, you're over 6 inches so the cynical/rude part of me wants to tell you to get out of your own head and try to get you to imagine being 4 inches or under.
  29. 1 point
    I'm alright. Me and my girlfriend have been hitting a rough patch and making things way more complicated than they need to be. I've got two weeks left before I finish this blackjack/table games training and can start actually dealing on the floor and making bank!
  30. 1 point
    malign

    Unhappy with my weight, again.

    There's also a significant difference between middle-aged men wanting to lose weight and a teen-aged girl who hates eating. Ultimately, Renni, all the decisions are yours. I know that at your age, I didn't want to look like my dad, either, and it was harder for me because, as you see, I was, and/or am, a boy. I grew out of it, though, once I knew that people weren't going to associate me with my dad's mistakes. Of course, that was because I was making enough of my own ... That said, I think BMI is the biggest lie, which is also a brief poem. As you said, it's a stupid graph, so why does its opinion matter? The idea that only height and gender are enough to determine healthy weight, regardless of factors like build, is silly. Did your doctor direct you to diet?
  31. 1 point
    You can!!! Start setting goals for your self and accomplishing them. Even if it's a small goal just do it. Start setting daily goals for yourself and when you start accomplishing them you will feel like a king!!! I did this and still do this. Find a passion and put your whole heart and soul into then youll love what you do and automatically have confidence you'll wake up happy and excited and you'll think less about your sps . Because reality is it's all in your head man. Believe me I used to have it. You deserve the best so go out a d grab it and fight for what you want!! I believe in you. Start doing things you enjoy and things that make you proud and happy! And don't say you don't know where to start I know for a fact you have things you really enjoy. Believe me once your fully happy and confident in yourself the girls will come and you'll be ready. You have all the tools to please a women you just need to change your mindset! Good luck best wishes to you!
  32. 1 point
    LaLa

    Alone

    I'm sorry, Renni, that you're feeling so lonely and don't have support of your family nor friends . Good friends are important because they contribute very much to our wellbeing, but, unfortunately, it's sometimes (I think that quite often) hard to find them, especially when you're limited to a group of teenagers (most of whom don't yet have enough capabilities to be good friends with someone who struggles with mental health issues) from your class. I know some people who were bullied and lonely at school and found friends only at university . This is a terrible think to say, and even much more terrible it the following: First of all, you're not at all the/a problem; you're having problems. And, as I mentioned, it's not always easy to find someone who can understand that, be compassionate and supportive, mainly among teens who've never had similarly serious problems themselves. I suppose your mom wanted to say something like this to you, but her choice of words was very inappropriate, because she said something that not only isn't true, but also make you feel much worse for no reason! I'm worried that you understand her words even in a much harsher manner than they were meant and can be seen: I'm worried that you also, at least subconsciously, make the conclusion that "you're unlovable". Yet, what you'd need the most now is actually love - at least of one kind, not necessarily romantic (but the kind of love that is between close friends and, of course, the love of your parents). I cannot know if this is the right "strategy" (perhaps you'd have more chance at a different school - it's quite random), but perhaps you could first rather try to work on the problems you have while staying where you are. (How long have you been trying to get better so far?) Wouldn't be such a change also another stressor in your, already stressful, life? Or do you feel like "start anew", be "a slightly different person" when coming to a different place? If yes, what would you change? What do you think are the real reasons why you don't have friends now? It's just a strange coincidence that all your friends had a boyfriend! For instance, none of my friends had a boyfriend before sometimes during the university studies. Also, are you sure those relationships were "worth it"? Teens sometimes brag about their love-lives, but in reality, they can be full of confusion, fears, embarrassment, ... (besides, of course, some nice aspects) and the eventual breakup can be very hard for some. I'm convinced that it's better to be more emotionally mature when experiencing the first romantic relationship (which doesn't mean it cannot go well for some who are very young). But yes; my convictions aren't important here . What is important in this context is, I think, to realize that if you have a boyfriend or not doesn't tell anything about you being worth to be loved = being lovable. It's true that some people look more attractive to the majority of others, but that doesn't mean, for instance, that they'll have better, more fulfilling relationships. Even if you're not one of those who easily catches attention of boys, that doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you (that you're ugly etc.); you certainly have many characteristics that will, "when the time will come", appeal to some boys. I know it feels very good to hear such things and I don't say it's bad to like it. But the problem here seems to be that you think (or are afraid that) only hearing it from a friend or boyfriend would make you "good and lovable". It's not true. Even if you have to wait for such words a long time, you'll still be all those things all the time. I would also like you to know that all your wishes are normal and natural and I wish you very much that they come true soon. But never forget that even until they don't come true, you still, always, deserve a good friend, a person you dream about; it's, to a great extent, a matter of chance when you'll meet one. Here are two "articles" I recommend to you: http://www.thebookoflife.org/criticism-when-youve-had-a-bad-childhood/ http://www.thebookoflife.org/what-would-an-ideal-friend-be-like/ Take care!
  33. 1 point
    lostboy1

    Hello from Austin, TX

    @atxbat, welcome to the community. You're not alone here because many of us have small penis issues. I'm also married and from Texas so it appears we have a lot in common! Please check out the many good threads but also don't hesitate to reach out for specific topics that impact you the most.
  34. 1 point
    YOTH

    My so called life

    This is what I'm picturing
  35. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    My so called life

    That's great. I hope you enjoy your skates. Happy birthday to you.
  36. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    My so called life

    A little inspiration for you. You guys' idol Brian Boitano 😝🤣
  37. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    My Depression

    Reni, is there a trusted adult in your life who you can talk and share with? Are your parents supportive? You are coping with a lot and it's okay to reach out for help. Your description of your feelings is heartfelt. I'm sorry you are going through this struggle. Does it help to express yourself like this, perhaps through journaling or poetry? Painting? Art? Do you have any opportunities in school through clubs or other school activities to connect with others? I agree that friendships can be healing. I hope you are safe today, Reni. Write and share here anytime. Take care of you.
  38. 1 point
    YOTH

    I’m going to a Taboo Sex Show in Friday

    My missus hated it with a passion, she'd make me take it off after a few minutes. To be honest she doesn't like any toys, although she quite liked the buttplug but the fucking thing melted into another silicone toy lol, don't ask me how but they both melded together to make an ungodly buttplug fleshlight frankentoy. They must have gotten bored in the bag lol.
  39. 1 point
    Griz

    I’m going to a Taboo Sex Show in Friday

    I felt something when I had mine on, mine was supposed to add like another 1.5-2 inches in girth. But as I said, the gf didn’t like it at all. It was soft and just felt way too fake for her. Maybe I’ll find something better tomorrow
  40. 1 point
    lostboy1

    I’m going to a Taboo Sex Show in Friday

    @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero, an extender is basically like a silicon "condom" for lack of a better term. It has typically has a few inches of length it adds by having a fake penis tip on the end of the extender. There are differing designs out there but the last one I bought added girth and length because the silicone sleeve was fairly thick. The concept sounds good but they're problematic for various reasons and I personally couldn't feel anything using it.
  41. 1 point
    She looks beautiful. Glad you finally found your happiness mate.
  42. 1 point
    @Griz omg..i bought a girth enhance as well. it looked perfect but there were issues. first, it's very tough to maintain an erection with the added weight. Mine was silicone and......PINK so that didn't help. When it did go on it kept getting smooshed down so it was difficult to penetrate with it. Wife also said it felt weird. I recently bought this vibrating penis ring and it has been magical. Wife loves it and so do I. i bought the SVAKOM one on Amazon cause i thought it had the best reviews and best of all...everyone complained it was too tight so i knew it would at least fit me. We use that baby all the time. She gets on top of me and does her thing, problem is she only lasts about a minute with it before she cums and i can't finish that fast. I do highly recommend one of those. First time wife actually has been initiating sex a lot.
  43. 1 point
    LaLa

    I hate eating

    Hi, Renni, welcome! Have you searched for forums specialised for eating issues? You're welcome here, so don't interpret this as a rejection, but I suppose that you might get a better feedback in an on-line community of people who have / are recovering from an eating disorder. This one seems to be the best to me (but feel free to explore more and choose yourself!): http://webiteback.com/forum/index.php ( http://webiteback.com/blog/ ) You may also try here: https://support.beateatingdisorders.org.uk and https://forums.psychcentral.com/eating-disorders/ I don't think, based on what you wrote, that you have an eating disorder, but I'm afraid your problems and thinking and behavioural patterns might easily and quickly lead to anorexia (or a similar disorder). Even before searching for a specialized forum: Have you tried to educate yourself about healthy eating? There are too many diets and I don't recommend you trying a diet (it can be often dangerous, mainly to children and adolescents!). But you can find also serious professionals who explain how, when and how much to eat to remain healthy and not to gain weight. (I would recommend one book in particular, but it's in a language ("east-european") you wouldn't understand, so... But if you wanted, I might try search for some info in English on the web...) When you learn and understand many things about your body (the physiology of digestion, some biochemistry, all the fascinating info about gut microbiota, ...), you may change how you view meals. When you know what and why your body needs, then you may look at eating as at something good for you - in case you eat "well" / healthily, of course. I imagine that being 16, you may feel incapable to influence what you eat because it's your mom who buys and cooks, but if you explained your problems (that you have now) and your solutions (-eating better) as well as the reasons why (-what is good for your body and why), she might make some efforts to change. What do you think? Anyway; good luck and... kudos for reaching out and starting here to search for a solution to your problems! It's important to "do something" now, before it develops into a much bigger problem!
  44. 1 point
    lostboy1

    I’m going to a Taboo Sex Show in Friday

    Hi @Griz, I've never heard of a "Taboo Sex Show" before but it sounds like an adult toy and video store, which we have plenty of in Texas, or an online adult toy retailer. I've bought all types of extenders and enhancers in my life and I've never had much luck with any of them. They all seem to have "issues" that make them less than ideal to use. My wife also didn't enjoy them so most were only used once for these reasons. I just wanted to give you my experience with them.
  45. 1 point
    YOTH

    My pathetic stump

    It's the old old story. Every minority is protected from jokes but the small penis jokes are up for grabs. But is anyone really protected from jokes and ridicule? Imo It just moved into the shadows. So, unless small men stand up publicly we're not even going to get the façade of acceptance. I recently thought about an incident in my childhood when we made fun of a girl because she was missing fingers. I think about it a lot because she deserved love and respect and acceptance but we were ruthless teenagers who didn't care about her feelings. Could she have known that we were probably all compensating for our own version of deformity? Probably not. She was likely consumed with how it affected her personally and thought we were pieces of shit, which, we were. Whenever I'm tempted to judge others for judging me I always ask myself the question "would I condemn myself for this, have I ever done something similar?". The answer is almost always "yes", more times than I care to remember. I regret not being a better person when I was younger, but that's the benefit of hindsight and I can't change it. I struggle with my size pretty much every day of my life and nobody deserves to be punished and ridiculed for something they can't control or change, but unfortunately that's the world we live in. Don't give up on yourself because people out there in the world don't see you as perfect. I'm not big on the Bible, it's pretty much contradictory nonsense. But I do like "Forgive them father, for they know not what they do". I think that's accurate. If I'd really known how much my words could hurt I'd never have uttered them. The same can be said for most of the people out there who think it's 'ok' to single out people like us for ridicule. It's hard to forgive people when your first thought is to throttle them until their head pops off, but I forgave myself for being an insensitive dick as a teenager, so I offer the same to the people who have teased me in the past. It's not easy and I have to do it multiple times, sometimes in the same minute but it's better than letting their words take me back to the brink of suicide. I hope you feel better and try to open an honest dialogue with your wife. If she says "it's nothing, it's in your head" then stop her and explain to her that it isn't. It may be in your head ultimately, but this is a real issue to be dealt with and shouldn't be brushed under the carpet. The result of ignoring the issue is the pain you're feeling now. What is the point of any partner if we can't confide in them our deepest insecurities? Stay positive, brother. Nothing is easy here, but it can be healed.
  46. 1 point
    OMG lol. So f*cking funny.
  47. 1 point
    Small

    Penis Size Measurments

    This is dumb but makes me laugh.
  48. 1 point
    Small

    Penis Size Measurments

    @YOTH This might sound controversial but I think that the UFC made a big mistake with their anti doping campaign. If it were me I would have tried to bury it & underplayed the stigma attached to it. They have spent £10's of millions perhaps more, and the end result was either outright catching their big stars ped-ing, or them mysteriously fading away. Not to mention the fights are less explosive now. This Conor situation is highly dubious. Dana said in a press conference that Khabib vs Ferguson would be for the real lightweight belt, but no matter how much he was pressed, he wouldn't say whether or not McGregor was stripped, or if the UFC were planning on it. He refused to answer the question directly. Although i still want Khabib to win, I feel bad for Ferguson. You're right he's a dork, but the guy needs props & respect. He's the champion, but the UFC are treating him like a black stain on the belt. Most likely he loses it to Khabib anyway so what's wrong with celebrating him for no? I'm getting sick of Rogan having a chit chat with Dominick Cruz through the fights & pass it off as commentary. There should be 1 analyst and 1 summary guy. We have 2 analysts and they don't gel. They either need to bring back Mike Goldberg or someone like him. I know they are aware of this, so what's their problem? What are they going to do next, fire Dana White and replace him with Johnny Hendricks? DC said he's retiring by March 2019 & this is non negotiable.
  49. 1 point
    Hello @Griz, thanks for the explanation behind your challenges. We all have our own stories and it never ceases to amaze me how we can trick ourselves into thinking something is true even when we know it's not. I'm sure I don't have to tell you this but I'll say it anyway. You are not even close to being small and you're actually above average in both length and girth (in all the medical studies I've seen). If a female calls you small then she must have dated a donkey before you.
  50. 1 point
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