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It can do and it's a brainwashing that starts early, with everything from the airbrushed media to Barbie dolls. What particularly saddens me is the way women will sometimes criticize each other's appearance as well, we should be supporting each other and celebrating our variety, not making life tougher.

Planning. I'm not good at it. I would love to read any tips or insight members have about how they make and execute plans. Feel free to post links if you must but what I am much more interested in is what actually works for YOU. Anytime I see successful, happy people interviewed they extoll the virtues of a good plan but even my simplest plans turn to vapor when confronted by the real world. I would love to change this so please contribute if you can.

So a few months ago (6-7) I decided I'd give ball stretching a whirl. I'd been extremely dubious for obvious reasons, the main ones being that I'd damage myself and render my junk exactly that, junk. So I made a concerted effort to start gradually and slowly work my way up. At first I'd place a silicon ring around my balls (1/2 inch in width) and wear it for short periods, which was ok, but I'd ache afterwards and become disheartened, but I kept at it. I decided that I wasn't going to weigh my balls down with steel weights for at least a year, at least until I felt I'd made enough progress with the silicon rings. Over the months I've gradually added length to my testicles. The next part I learned the hard way, stretched skin that isn't being treated with some sort of cream/lotion/moisturiser will itch like an absolute motherfucker, and it did, until I started using Shea butter, which not only aids itching but also allows the skin to stretch further than without it. I don't know if it's appropriate to share photos, so I won't today, but I've gained about 3 inches in walking about ball hang, which is a God send with my balls (baaaaad circulation = Testiclelevator going up). But tbh, this is only an inch longer than what I'd have if I got out the bath and they were warm and hanging freely, but an inch on top of what I'd have anyway is pretty damn good. I had a mild panic attack a few weeks ago as I'd started trusting in my package and it was fucking hell on earth for a while. I know strangers don't know what I'm feeling as I walk around town but I was feeling really nervous and felt like they could hear my inner thoughts (I sound like a neurotic lunatic, but w/e). This whole experience has given me a new lease on life and I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, but I'm waiting the full year before I use the first of the weights available. The site is secret leather if anyone is interested, but I'm still using homemade stretchers out of silicone penis extenders. I chop off the tip/end and cut up the shaft for stretchers, some pre stretching may be needed, but you soon bladder them out and need new ones. I've gone through two extenders so far. (Which ain't cheap, but it's worth it). I know this isn't for everyone, but it's really given me my life back and it's just the beginning. There are still kinks to be ironed out, like slipping out (not as common as I'd thought, once a month) and sometimes a little pinching (manageable). The main thing is my bulge. It actually looks normal. Not bulging at the seems but not non existent either, just right. But watch this space I guess as summer is coming in hot and being out and about in the hot months is where the rubber meets the road we'll just have to see ☮ ??

I've seen that forte, thought it looked quite good. It seems like a pipe dream to think we could get length, maybe we're born in the wrong century lol. I've thought about surgery, but even that seems pointless as the gains aren't that substantial. Saying that I saw some Indian guy hanging bricks off of his Johnson lol.

Haha, ain't that the truth. I'm very careful, but you don't wanna over stretch anything down there if it can be helped lol. What do or have you used for penis stretching? I've never tried it for any length of time that'd be noticeable. Let me know your regime or what have you. Tried jelquing once but didn't do it enough to see a difference.

Cool! I have had some success in penis enlargement with stretching, extender, and pumping, and yes it is a total godsend! Haven't tried ball stretchers, but have worn silicone cock rings on my sack and it feels great. You definitely have to be careful and do your homework before doing these kinds of things though. A small dick is better than a dead dick!

Yeah very complicated. Lol. I am ok being small in some ways now. Sexually, my wife enjoys what i have, and that is an awesome feeling, though i think she exaggerates it some to make me feel better. But I do wish i could walk around in my normal life without feeling like everyone who sees me knows i have a small one and laughs at me behind my back and nobody respects me. Like work people, friends, strangers at the gym...

Not a bad day, Sunday, got somethings done, did some exercise, got a good nap, got a rough sketch plan of a thing I have been procrastinating; nothing amazing but could be worse. I'll take it. State of mind is so important. You have to want things & have the strength to put in the work on them.

Got through Saturday night without drinking so that much is good. No plans at all today, just relax and whatever.

You know yourself best and how things work for you. It makes good sense to me. I hope you have a good and relaxing weekend!

Wow, man, life is complicated. But I think I understand where you're coming from.