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Donna

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Donna last won the day on February 2 2010

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About Donna

  • Birthday 07/30/1970

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    pinkprincess1970

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    mum of 4 and proud nana of baby Toby, diagnosed with BPD and anorexia

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    UK
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    website design
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    unemployed

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  1. easter04.gif

    Happy Easter Donna :)

  2. oh thankgod for that, I thought I was just being a whimpy londoner, I swear its way colder up here than back home. :)

  3. Lol nope it's not you it is freeeezing! i feel like an effing eskimo,im sat here in bed with me woolies n vest on hehe

  4. is it just me or is it really really freezing cold up north tonight ?

    im FREEZING !!!!

  5. course i knew your real name :) but i have a bad habit of messing up so i wanted to double check..ive often thought of you and wondered how things were.

  6. hi Donna

    yeah i was Jj. i had to change my name though. coz of shit, but you knew my real name is sue right ?

    how are you these days, kinda missed ya hun

  7. Hey you :) ! how are you doing? ..you were/are Jj yeah?

  8. hi Donna,

    thinking of ya hun, and hope things are going ok.

    take care

    sue

  9. Wanted to drop you a line and say hey and i hope all is well. :) much love flowin your way from my way!!!

  10. Thankyou I dont think the GP really understood and because i got upset (it's never nice to have to admit your fat lol) i couldnt fully point out all the mistakes in the letter when he asked me to- though he knows my history and should have seen them for himself. Im not sure whether to complain or not now, i dont want anybody else to be hurt but knowing the system i know nothing will be done. It would be hypocritcal anyway because ive gained 3 lbs since that letter! Lacey, no thats not a recent picture it's about a yr old but im back up to that size again so i use it as a kind of reminder so each day i can look and think i cant continue to be so huge ..it's a bit hard to explain ..and it's also a reminder that i can smile sometimes lol
  11. Hi Sue, Thats great to hear! nothing wrong with pidgeon steps, every step forward is a step forward right? however small they might be. Dont worry about being 'normal' - whats 'normal' supposed to be anyway?? if such a thing even exists. Just dont go pooping on peoples heads and pecking at dropped chocolate wrappers Take care Donna
  12. Donna

    Mid Life Crisis

    I dont think it always has to be about a fear of death, i certainly dont fear it, im actually looking forward to the experience just to know how it feels in my case i would rather the numbers go way way down and be a child with a childs body, because i dont like been an adult, it's not a role that suits me or that im comfortable with so each year as the number goes slowly up it drills it home more and more that i am supposed to be a grown up ..and thats what frightens me, the higher the number gets the harder and harder it is trying to avoid the truth...ok perhaps thats a bit odd to some people lol,though it's not unique ive heard of others who feel the same.
  13. Donna

    Anger

    She's ok physically thankyou but she's very shaken up and nervous because she's just not that kind of a person. It's a bit unclear really,basically she had skived off work to go to a show but she got caught out and was a bit pssed off cos some of the guys were teasing her, my mum didnt even know much about it but this woman (probably because she works in the same office as my mum) suddenly blew up and blamed my mum for 'telling tales' effing and blinding,bringing up things that have never actually happened, my mum really doesnt like confrontation and said im sorry i dont know what you're talking about (which she didnt) lets just calm down and get back to work, the woman grabbed my mum by her throat and smacked her in the face then walked out. My mum is really upset and a bit confused by it all, it's like being in the school playground! she lives a bit of a naive sheltered life and just isnt used to that kind of thing, nobody expects to be assaulted at work anyway.
  14. So today..where do i start? ah yes there's the little incident about my mum being assaulted at work..i want to kill the fcking btch :mad: ..ooops my nice language again then there's the little matter of my sons g/f and my grandson about to lose there home! They're going to come live with me, which in fairytale land is lovely..i get to see my grandson everyday help out etc but in reality is actually not quite that lovely! what will really happen is i will become a 24/7 nanny,have extra cleaning to do..they havnt quite yet worked out that used baby bottles, pop bottles, crisp and chocolate packets etc dont belong on the living room floor! that smelly nappys do not belong in the kitchen bin, that its not usual to cook chips noodles or whatever at 1 am or expect the cooker to clean its self ..to expect the 'nanny' to rummage around the bedroom looking for their dirty laundry, to understand that the weekly shopping is meant to last for the week not 2 days..arrgh this is going to drive me nuts! and thats only a tiny part of it. I'll also have to deal with their constant arguing, my son storming off to his friends, leaving his g/f Antonnia pissed off with me and Toby (my grandson) the chances (probability) of the police knocking at my door looking for my son or searching my house have just jumped up by about 80% (nope im not exaggerating!) though i should be used to that by now! last time it was the cid, before that it was the anti-terrorist squad bursting down my door (dont ask!) sheesh life is soo dull! what was it i was saying about my life being like a soap opera? hmm more like a thriller!
  15. Hi Tickerpa, i have read and being advised that DBT (Dialectal Behavioural Therapy) can help you manage it, so that might be worth looking in to? or is the type of therapy you've already had? ive never heard of a 'cure' or anyone actually 'getting better' just more able to control it. like you i've read that it gets better with age and settles down on its own but to be quite frank im 39 and struggling with it more and more.
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