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no. this is the first time such a thing happened between us, that's why it is strange to me and i don't know what to do

thanks for all the answers. i think he is dealing with another problem that he dosen't like to talk about it with me and my insisting made him frustrated. i need to talk to him and tell him that "i respect his silence and will wait for him to be back. and just if our relationship is over let me know that". but i don't know if it is a good idea and i don't know how to tell this that dosen't push him back more that now. what should i do?

i've heard something about men's silence. that sometimes they need to be silent and the more you insist on making him talk, the more he retreats. more than a month ago i just texted my friend and complained about that he is not paying enough attention to me. since then he didn't talk to me even a word. i cannot understand him, i begged him alot to talk and tell me what happend and whether it is related to me or not. but he kept silent. it's now more than a month but he still doesn't want to talk. NOT EVEN A WORD!!!!! it realy bothers me and i don't know what to di about it. how can i make him talk. i'm tierd of guessing what happend and whether he will be back or it's over!! i don't know how long i should wait. please give me some advise and tell me wha to do.

thanks for your advice. i'm sure trying to be friend with others would help. but becoming friend with anyone else is difficult for me. i've tried several times but i coulden't. no one satisfies me. but i will try again...

i read your post. i don't know what you should do. but i answered to say that i'm really sorry for the problem you have. i know how serious it is for a teenager to have a good relationship with his parents and how painful it is. i hope you can find a solution very soon. and someone can help you feel better and i think it is a good point that you are seeking for help. it shows that there is still some hope inside you and this hope will help you. just never ever give up

i was just googling some virtual place to talk about my problem and i found this site. maybe i should put this topic in relationship problems, but i'm not sure if it is really a RELATIONSHIP problem, because there has never been a relationship between us. the problem is that i have a male friend that nothing have ever occured between us, he is a friend and he always was a friend. he never said "i love you" and thing like this to me. but i'm awefully in love with him. since i understood he would never fall for me, i tried to forget him but i coulden't. then i tried to be just a friend but again i couldn't, after 3 years of friendship i finally told him how i felt about him, but he politely apologized and told me that he couldn't be with me for a reason that was acceptable for me. but i could just be away from him for 2 month and every moments of that two month i was thinking about him and couldn't firget him. and last week i again texted him and tolm him that i need you to be my friend as the past and he accepted.. but now again i'm seeing that this frienship really bothers me. i don't know what to do. i can't forget him and can't be with him. this influenced my life , now a days i'm really depressed, i can't be in a relationship with anyone, i do not fall in love, my self-confidence is ruined because of his ignorance, i don't know what to di, and i thnk i'm in an urgent need of help. i thoght it would help to write here and see otherones advices about this.