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Jessie, you are right. But I think that superficial girls like that are a danger. Ariana Grande it's not a "D" product? Nicki Mina... lol. Kardashian...a woman who autoinjected fat in her butt. Really, you are young. But be careful. You can see yourself with no wife, no money and a disgusting life with one of these women. One more time. The perfect way of these products don't exist. Yeah, too many girls thinks like this...but later many of them don't give a fuck. Only the teenies.

I agree with all in your opinion. But I want to say that it's not (fortunately) the 100%. Ok, everypeople are looking for the best physical subject. It's about the jungle law: only the strongest survives and his genetic continues. But we have also our human nature. I've seen what you say about people at university. And yes, it's a zoo...with orgies. All the topics about sex, dates, jokes, etc. I don't know how to say it in a positive way. But sooner or later people know we are not dominants gods, nor perfect queens. Yes, in the past my dream was to be an alpha male. But I want it no more, I only hope to find a true love despite this society norms. I know people like that are the minor. But I can see some advances. Today, some are crítics with models because they are sickening the youngers in anorexia and bulimia. Others are saying that a percentage of girls cannot take big penises. I've seen that on forums, pairs broken because a big penis 8"-9". So, sadly you are telling the truth, but not for every human.

I support you Igiveup. I've not seen the video. But really I will not see the 80% of despair content that people are bringing here. First thanks to you I know that the retor of this is a troll. And Jessie, seriously, you are searching the web about personal opinion? That's crazy. You don't know anything about the creator or bloggers, but you trust every word. I'm really upset about this. If I search about a woman who only dateNBA players 100% I will find a blog or a internet page like ionlydateNBAplayers.com. And because of this I blame myself? For me you are doing the same with penis size. I will not see anymore stuff on Internet. It's a fake world. Here, I'll only see posts about people who are suffering but want to improve.

I've read all the posts about penis size on this blog...and they are too stupid. One is about laughing at small penis and wanting bigger. Another is blaming guys with big penis because they hurts and ending with the pleasure with small/average guys. And finally, many female readers have posted bad comments, about the cruelty and lack of sense to think a male is a penis. The are commenting that the blogger thinks like a child. So, a total y waste of time for my part. I've seen always the same. Size matters? Perhaps

Mmm, I dont have reed your second post properly. You know the foreplay and other skills yet. So use only the parts you need about my advice Dev18

Dev, I dont know how to say it...but really you are perfect in penis size. Probably porn has affected your mind. You can pleasure a woman and she can has orgasm only by penetration with you size. Furthermore you have the plus that you can enter with all your penis, many porn actors cant because the are monsters... And the main subject, I believe that others members can explain it better. But if the two of us are virgins...you must be patient. Probably your size will be too much for her (no joke). My advice: only if you dont know how to play before penetration...you can see some lesbians vids (lol). Only if you think you need it. But mate you have all the factors on your side. Really, she can be a little scare when she sees you naked for your penis size. Take time, kiss her body and hug her. Trust is the more important thing she need (and love). Try to excite her with you hands and tongue and the pain will be reduced during penetration. But there will be a little pain...always. So, dont get mad in SPS, it's not your problem. Really, my message is to support you. Im jealous about your luck. Probably, when your first experience is over you will laugh about this and enter here no more. Enjoy. (Sorry for grammar mistakes, Im not English and since my childhood I havent wroten in English).

Hi Robert. We are at the same ages and with the same condition. Now im in a moment in my life that I want to change and stop suffering. This week I realize that sps is really a mental ill. Yes, penis size is a fact but it's physical. The true is that if a girl wants to enjoy her sexuality, size doesnt matters. It's really hard. This month is my first without porn and without sexual encounters with prostitutes. For me sex is a hell because I have lost control of my sexual desires. I am adicted to sex and porn...and this have ruined my libido and life. Now I dont enjoy having sex or the constant thinking about sex with girls around me. Why Im telling you this? Because I really believe that sps has controlled my life and actions...producing me more suffer. And now, that I begin to focus me on other parts of my life. I dont want to lie. I blame my penis size. It's a strong thought in my mind...but is stupid for me to hurt me more. All the people has problems, it's our fate. I start a new life. At the moment without sex. And with a terapists Im conquered my insecurity and lack of social skills.

Hi to everyone. Tiny, you are really wrong at this subject. Testosterone can make an effect only if you has a lack of it during puberty. That´s hipogonadysm. When a "normal" person use testosterone, it has no effect on penis size, because a hiper testosterone level in blood make no difference. In addition, you are making an incredible damage to your body. When hormone "testosterone" is high in blood. The human body does not produce more on a natural way. In other words, your testicles suffers an atrophy. So be careful when you post an advise. Especially in health. I know that you do it in order to help the others. So many young mens, specially in weightlifting or at the gyms use the exogenous testosterone when they don´t need it and they don´t know the damage to their bodies. The results: testicles atrophy, impotence, lack of sexual libido, depression...because their testicles can produce no more natural testosterone. They can solve it by more exogenous testosterone because, when time pass, the testicles can no return to their normal function. And the infertility has no solution. So, remember, testosterone is only when exist hipogonadysm...and only as a secundary solution. First, they investigate why your body produce no natural testosterone because there are too many reasons, for example: benign cancer. Teenagers with lack of natural testorestone are too low...I was one of them. And with 21 years, had my treatment against a benign cancer and my body started to produce the testosterone.

Well, I want to say bye to everypeople on this forum. I´ve had SPS, but I want to overcome it. Good luck guys!

Jessie, if surveys is ok for you it doesn´t matter the things i can tell you...my best friend is 5.3 inches...we began in SPS. He had overcome this. He is married with a mother of two daughter and then they have had another. Why I tell you this? Because I had read stories about that a woman with childs has a bigger vagina or other stupids comments...well, my friend is a master in bed. Really, I learned about sex and how to pleasure womens thanks to him. So, what can i tell you? That a lot of teenage girls believe that porn is sex? That they are getting hurt because their partners want a "crazy sex"? That so many of them can´t feel pleasure with a 10 inch dick? I suppose that this it´s not in the survey.

Sorry Jessie. But I support RamdonDude here. I suppose that you are severely depressed because it´s rare to believe this things...10 inches penis. Not so many women can obtain pleasure with that. And really, a 5 or 4 inches penis is adequate for a woman. If she wants to have fun... I had said, I had experiences with my 5 inchs penis without problem. Also I have SPS because my lack of self-confidence...but this is bullshit

Sorry Matt2003. It´s complex. I really thanks your post. But try to understand. It´s similar to telling a disabled man in a wheelchair that running it´s not so special like people think. And with self-confidence it´s possible a relationship. Well It´s true. But our problem is not only about sex, girls, relationships,etc. It´s also about ourselves. We have lost confidence, and we live every day thinking about size. Swimming pools or the beach...it could be like a hell. Lockers room, WC... So, we are triying to beat at three dimensions problem: mental, physical and social. It´s really hard.

I don´t think that without SPS I would be different. I suppose that SPS it´s only the tip of another mental problem. Why I was so obsessive in this subject? Why I consider myself incapable to give pleasure to womens? And all of that without sexual experience...it´s unlogic!

Yeah, I´m stuck in SPS also. For me, is more a mental than a physical problem. I suppose that I´ve a very bad sexual education...and my lack of self-confidence is the reason I´ve never try to approach to a girl.It´s a shame, I´m 27, and all the time I have lost hurts me so much. Also, it´s impossible to find a person who can understand the really dimension of the problem. No doctors, no therapist, no friends had question me about this. During this time, I think that there is only one solution, to change my mind. There are too many men that have sex with girls despite their size or others problems. So, really, is a mental and a social problem. For example, the fear of rejection by a girl due to size... I put this text in Spanish and then i translate it. This is only one example of one guy who had sex despite his size with his girlfriend...lucky or a brave man? "Mi experiencia personal: Tengo un micropene de 7 cm erecto hace 6 meses conocí a mi novia es una chica muy Alta de 1,85 al principio me acompleje mucho por mi "Asuntito" luego ella me fue dando bastante confianza hoy en día soy un hombre personalmente activo me sigue acomplejando un poco, pero ella me dio a entender que de verdad y se los digo con toda sinceridad el tamaño no importa tanto ella como yo disfrutamos del sexo y nos amamos espero que les sirva de algo mi experiencia" My personal experience. I have a micropenis with 3.5 inch in erection. Since 6 months I´m with my girlfriend. She is 1,85 cm tall. At first, i was scare for my problem, but she gave me confidence. We enjoy sex. She tells me that size really don´t matter when someone fall in love . This is a mexican guy. So, I need to learn how to improve my self confidence. Women had also problems and insecurities...but we need to stop victimize ourselves or accept a lonely live.

Lol...i can´t understand this. Cosmopolitan? Are you serious? You believe that? A Fashion vogue...people who win money telling the others what is the "perfect model"...Really?. So...4,1 inc...A totally normal guy. And then, because the opinion of a ex...he had a fetish with humilliation and small penis?. This man has a mental problem. A really bad sexual grow process. Mmm, people, are you speaking about our real world? Or the information comes only for Internet. Men with genetics diseases has found girlfriends who accept them. Women also. Exist girls and boys who had created a new family despite HIV, despite hearts problems, despite they are in a weelchair. Please stop victimism. Stay stronger men. Because one person laughs about you...you give up? How many humans are in Earth, and you give up because one of them?. Yep, I can´t understand that people in or near his/her teens are really weaks about others opinion: they could had anorexia, bullimia, etc. But we are older (I suppose). If someone laughs about me, I don´t want any contact in the future and that´s all. So many interesting people, so many girls searching for LOVE (no SEX), and a totally absurd text in Cosmopolitan is more important? Can´t understand.