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I have begun to do that. I joined a few local groups that will help me get my mind back on track. I hope to start going to them next week.

Thank you, Irmajean. I am glad I found this place

Thank you for your help, VictimofBullyingNo1cared. I try to just move on, but its a endless circle. I guess I just need to focus on the important things and realize, I can't control every aspect of my life. Somethings are worth letting go of.

I have this to except its not usually over bands though. I get attached to men too easily. I see a guy that looks appealing and I can't stop thinking about him. I never tell him, but he suddenly becomes a fixation in my mind. Don't know how to describe it. But its an odd feeling. Its so hard to admit. I feel like a creep. Theres a guy in my neighbourhood who's just got engaged. He's a good looking bald man. I can't stop thinking about him, wondering what he's doing, where he goes. I won't approach him and say anything. He has got a soon to be wife. I can't do that. But I just can't get him out of my head. I want these intrusive thoughts to go away. But I don't know how to make them stop. Wish there was a pill to make them cease to exist.

So.. you guys are saying a feeling might not mean something right now, but down the road in our future, it will? Like every feeling has a purpose whether we know what it is or not?

Flander: You are not alone. Please don't give up hope. You will find the one for you. Its hard to let go of someone who is in love with someone else. But its the right thing to do. My situation feels a lot like yours. We just need to tell ourselves its for the best.

I am in the same boat. I am in a great relationship, but I am thinking about a guy who's about to get married and I barely know him. Maybe its our subconscious telling us we are missing something. I don't know. So confused.

I am feeling the same way. If you want to talk, feel free to PM me. I am here for you.

Lately I have been feeling really depressed. I don't know why after weeks of feeling so good, I am suddenly feeling worthless and consumed by thoughts and emotions that I never had before. I upped my meds from 20 mg to 40 mg (I asked the doctor to adjust them and he did) But how do I make these thoughts stop? How do I get back to feeling normal again? My life isn't horrible. I have a great family, a boyfriend who I love very much and who loves me and a new job starting soon. Why am I so depressed? I am so tired of feeling this way. So tired of feeling like crap all the time. I want to feel happy again. xSBx