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  1. No... I would say only gay guys would say this...not against gays but if you say this and a guy your most probably gay...guys in a locker room and sports do not judge there mates by the size of their cock...unless there into that
  2. Answer me this...is this a mental problem or body problem? I am interested on the mental aspects..,how can it be a body problem?? Also is this more a problem with gay men?? Just asking questions before I make 1000 enemies
  3. I'm not making anybody run...wtf??
  4. Being generous & playing along with option #2, I'll say this. All people have a cross to bear. But some people wear their cross on their necklace like jewelry while others carry a giant cross on their backs. Those annoyances you speak about matt2003 is NOWHERE NEAR the level of pain these guys go through. No as it currently stands nobody is "just as equal as everybody else" in this regard. Not Even CLOSE. There's a big difference between the general relationship drama that you mention & not being able to EVEN HAVE a relationship. There's a big difference between having the luxury to deal with emotional turmoil in a relationship & having emotional turmoil that you may never HAVE a relationship. And here's some more for you to educate yourself on. Sometimes the small-sized guys get a relationship despite all of obstacles... ...AND STILL don't feel secure that they can keep it due to the general relationship ups & downs BUT ALSO the gripping fear that a woman may inevitably end the relationship over the penis size issue. She thought she could be OK with it but finds out that she's not. Not only do they go through the "playing you" "emotions" "drama" that you go through but they ALSO have other concerns unique to themselves that you do NOT have. They have to put on a brave face & pretend to be Superman when they're really unsure of themselves. They have to somehow hold their fears of rejection back so as not to worry their women while not totally discounting the real possibility of rejections from those women. They have to compete with her past mates sexually & worry that they may not inherently have what it takes to compete. They have to worry that their workarounds in the sexual act may not be enough to hold their women's interest. And if they somehow get past all that unscathed, then they have to worry about sexual connection after pregnancy. And pregnancies change women & the sexual relationships between mates in many ways. That's not even talking about blocking out the constant din of negative messages spread throughout the culture than whittle away at their self-confidence. That's not even talking about the ridicule they have to face if they fight this & try to defend themselves. From strangers, friends, & even family. There's so much I can go into. What you got matt2003 is billionaire's problems. And it's like a billionaire telling a homeless man that the billionaire has it about as rough as the homeless man. That's nonsense. Absolute nonsense. All problems are not equal. They're not even approximate. If you're REALLY sincere about learning about this issue, then do what I did for years & just listen & learn from the people who live this everyday. You're not helping these people with these comments & it shows your lack of empathy. You're rubbing it in their faces & playing a superiority game. If that's not your intention, then just simply listen. Ask sincere questions about the depths of these people's pain & put yourself in their shoes. The fact that you even have the OPTION to have casual sex & not be turned down means you exist in a bubble. It's hard for the advantaged to truly understand the disadvantaged. It's hard for the in-crowd to truly understand the outcast. Most advantaged from the in-crowd refuse to understand because they are afraid they would lose their status & power in that advantaged bubble. The ones who break that bubble & absorb the experiences of a disadvantaged outcast are rare & have developed the needed skill of empathy. Americans who complain about the city cutting off the water to work on the pipes live in a bubble that can't recognize the advantage of even HAVING the rarity of clean running water in the first place. Americans complaining about traffic jams live in a bubble that can't recognize the advantage of even HAVING an automated machine like a car instead of having to walk everywhere on foot. When you're spoiled it's hard to understand the hardscrabble. But the hardscrabble exist to keep you in check. To recalibrate yourself on what's REALLY important & to appreciate your advantages while wanting to increase the advantages of the hardscrabblers. Sometimes that billionaire has to give up his money for a little while & live on those streets so he won't get too comfortable in that bubble. If you're serious about learning this issue, recognize that you are the student & these men who live this are the teachers. Time to go to school matt2003. John Lucas
  5. What do you want me to do John Lucas? How can I learn? I can't help the dick I was given any more than you can help the one you were given with
  6. Whatever dudes...I genuinely really wish you all the best
  7. I honestly don't fucking get it...you guys attack the negative guys on your board for being negative and saying there's no hope while the other majority are complaining about womens being bitchy then I come on here and basically give the SAME advice that others give like random dude and Darren about being positive not caring what women think and it's mental issues...yet I'M the one whose told to shove it up MY ass and fuck off??? What the fuck do you guys want to hear then? You attack other members for saying what you just fucking said TO ME! Fucking insanity man...IMHO I don't think you guys can be helped...nothing makes sense to me...how the fuck you think I'm bragging just bc I told you my dick size is beyond crazy...I thought the whole issue was with omen
  8. Ok CNL...but a lot I read also are uplifting positive posts about how this is a *MIND* thing not some uneacapable thing you can never get over...there are a whole bunch of comments about breaking out of it...Darren...random dude....and Skynight just a few...they WANT to stop thinking this way Look man...I don't like conflict bc I'm actually super shy in person and I'm not trolling you...I like what those ^ guys say and I thought maybe if you heard it from a dude who most would call big it might help...in a funny way to which was a mistake and my bad. No offense to anybody Also I am studying psychology this summer and this is why I'm so interested in how the brain works and problems it can have that ARE NOT REAL except IN THE BRAIN. You have to stop thinking in this way. I just feel like if I never said I am a bigger than some guys you would agree with me which is crazy bc I'm just another dude
  9. Robert: I didn't just search autism And automatically find small penis forum I was searching for autism stories/experiences and found this website then found the oenis forum when I was browsing I don't understand why you guys think I'm bragging...most of the stuff I read here it seems like you are talking about females so I just wanted to give perspective that girls will be bitches to anybody even dudes with big dick It seems like I just pissed everybody off just being here...all I'm trying to say of that girls who make big deal or flirt about dick size is a slut and I just avoid them Look...can you believe it's even harder for a guy like me to have sex w/ a girl because we have to work twice as hard to turn them on else it hurts them and they make you stop. I bet a lot of you guys are funnier and I know smarter than me by how you write...this gets a girls attention...turns her on...I'm introvert and not outgoing. Everybody has strengths and weakness I'm sorry again for pissing anybody off. I just wanted to help and learn about this
  10. I offended everybody somehow so I understand now why it took so long...leaving now so feel free to remove it all. Thanks.
  11. Ok man...sorry if I offended anybody...I really found this site doing research for a summer project on autistic people and then found this part which made me want to study this problem which you Gus call SPS because it's seems so shitty to have I was just trying to help bc it seed like the biggest problem based on what I read had to do with women so I just wanted to show that having a big dick won't always work in many cases. Believe it or not I would trade for a avg or below dick in return for being witty...I'm not very witty but some of my buddies are and it makes me jealous I don't know really how to respond or help so I guess I'll just leave. I guess I see now why my posts never showed up...good luck and I hope you have some happiness
  12. Wtf?? How am I a troll? I'm trying to get you to see having big dick doesn't make life perfect...and I'm in pre-med so I enjoy helping ppl which is what I'm trying to do man... But if you want to see it as trolling...well I'll gladly fuck off and not think about this board again...shouldn't be too hard...took 3 weeks to finally get my shit posted anyway Whatever...
  13. Hi I tried posting to this site but they won't show up for some reason...can somebody help
  14. Hey...sup guys...tried posting a while back but never showed up so trying it again..just want to say first off that I'm a be average..8.5 in..never measured thickness but ppl say it's pretty thick if you can believe it So I found this site looking for info on autism and found you guys...I never knew how dick size could affect a dude like this... it's really fucked up what you deal with ...We used to bust balls with dudes back in svjool about having a little once...but damn I never knew it was like this. I think most guys unless they go through it honestly never even think about this shit..i just want to offers perspective..,so no I've never been turned down for sex and girls will talk about it off your a bit larger than usual...but we still have probs with women too...emotions..drama..playing you...chances are they know other big dudes too... I think maybe a larger than average dude might has an advantage with casual hooking up like in college or bars or online stuff just because those women are looking for nsa fucking... But women who want a relationship we all pretty much equal...we all have strengths and weakness then...the field is level Shit..most of you guys prob have way more money than I do...I barely get by...and women love money as much as a big dick...and even if one will straight up have sex with me she's not going to make it long term bc I'm broke.,, lol...if you wanna read some funny shit type big dick problems on google So I would say try not to focus on women just after sex...keeping it real you will probably face some negativity...but for a nice woman who wants family...nice home... Be provided for you guys are just as equal as anybody else... I'm at a def negative being broke Good luck to you bros...don't let this shit stop you from living life... Your all great dudes and deserve to live life and have fun as much as anybody...,and obsessing over cocks is what gay dudes do...lol.. So yeah...just live man
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