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Thank you. I actually talked with him a bit last night about it. And we've agreed to try some new things and see what happens. Mostly it was just boredom or an easy fix. And I asked him to try and be more vocal about what he need sexually because I want to make sure he's happy too. We'll see what happens. I also made an appointment to go back to therapy. To work out issues I'm clearly having of my own. Thank you for your help.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We had a normal sex life with having sex about two to three times a week. However, that's changed in the past few months. He moved in with me about three months ago, and I've started to notice that he spends less quality time with me, including less sex. We're down to about once a week. And he typically doesn't initiate it unless it's a morning that neither of us has to get up to go anywhere. I've already talked to him about this and he's promised to try more, because he's claiming that he felt that I wasn't giving off the vibe that I wanted to have sex either. Which I can relate to me anxiety and depression, because some days I really just want to hide under a blanket and not be bothered. But in the same respect, he's the one person I need to still be there and try to pull me out of a funk and he doesn't. On top of all this, I've discovered that he's been watching porn almost every day. I have no proof that he's doing it to masturbate, but I'm also not an idiot. That's typically what people watch porn for when they're alone. So now, I'm feeling even worse about myself because I feel that he would rather watch other girls doing sexual things on video and stimulate himself instead of engaging in the acts with me. Basically, I feel worthless and unattractive to him and I don't know what to do or say to him anymore. I'm ready to just give up.