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Fedup last won the day on January 28 2011

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  1. Feeling a bit down about it at the moment and thought I'd post my thoughts somewhere. I think it was very much a case of the Meatloaf song "Two out of three aint bad" as I needed her, wanted her but wasn't sure if I loved her. That is where we came unstuck as she needed a lot of loving attention and I was only able to produce it sparingly. Still it's the first time I've ever had regular sex and as it turns out I have premature ejactulation when sober. When combined with a small penis does not look good. I don't think I love her but I'm not totally certain. I know I was in tears earlier about the split up and I only really cry at the death of loved ones in the past. Do I love her but just don't know it? Or am I just scared that I won't find anyone else to accept me? It took 26 years for my first relationship, who knows when the next will come? Sorry that I'm not asking anything too specific but a bit confused right now. I'm not sure if I should be doing everything I can to hold on to this girl or if I should let her go. I'm pretty certain can win her back with a big show of romance.
  2. It hasn't grew one single bit. I'm just going to give it up. The way things are going I doubt anyone bar me will ever see my penis again anyway.
  3. I have done the exercises frequently but not quite the two days on 1 off as I said. There's been no change in girth I know that and minimal if any at all on the length. I really have trouble measuring myself because as soon as I get the tape measurer out the penis doesn't want to stay hard so need to watch something which REALLY turns me on and have tape measurer right next to me. If my penis ever goes beyond the 5 1/2 mark I'll know it has definitely grew.
  4. Hey thx for the response. Yeah I am familiar with the PE gym. I'm just going to keep it simple for now. I'm not really expecting an inch after 3 months but if there is any progress at all I will be encouraged to carry on.
  5. I woke up several times in the night with an erection. As far as I am aware this is a positive PI. Hopefully I'm on the right track. Quite annoying waiting for it to go down so I could go and pee though.
  6. I'll always be focusing on my penis whenever I exercise it or not. It's borderline small and if there is any hope at all at lengthening it then I'm willing to spend time on it. I've been trying to find confidence and I think I have slightly gained confidence in day to day stuff, nothing dramatic though. Whilst my penis size is affecting my confidence then I am afraid yes it is the centre of my universe. I honestly think I would be happy if it got to 6 inches length as I would feel more average than small. I really don't think 3 months is a long time for something which could change the rest of my life. I've been working out for years and still don't look great, although better than average. It doesn't help that I am a natural big build, makes my penis look like a noodle when I look in the mirror.
  7. I've started this today to find out if it works once and for all. I know skynight is adamant it works. He comes across as a nice guy and I don't have reason to disbelieve him but I'm one of those people who will only 100% believe it when I see it. I will log on this thread what exercises I did and for how long to keep me motivated as I do find it boring. I'll always do it straight after I get out of bath and have a 2 days on 1 day off schedule. I'm starting off at 5.2" length and 5". I won't measure it again until 3 months of exercising. Today 10 mins penis stretching 10 mins Wet Jelqing I'll stick to these length of times for a week or two before upping them slightly. I'll be completely honest about any gains I make.
  8. Haha yeah. It was an extreme example but I just wonder if it would work. It's probably all of our worst fears. I guess it could go both ways though. You can either see a lot of people who are bigger than you and make you feel worse or you can interact with people normally while naked and maybe get used to it. I have a feeling that the penis sample size may be bigger than normal at a nudist camp.
  9. You'll find you'll be constantly reminding yourself but as long as you do bother to remind yourself and not slip back into old thoughts than that is a good thing. Just remember if you keep repeating the thought processes that got you into this position, you'll remain in the same position. Won't happen overnight but it will eventually. Just go for it with this girl and don't doubt yourself. A positive experience will accelerate your process. It was my positive experience which was the catalyst for me to change. Setting a goal would be good. E.G. Challenge yourself to be confident enough to spend a weeks holiday at a nudist beach by end of 2011.
  10. Also it won't be your penis the reason why chicks dump on you. It'll be how your concerns about your penis make you act in general. You'll probably be a walkover but women lose attraction for men they perceive as a "wussy". A case in point. I was out in town on Saturday night and some woman tried to steal my chair. I fought my corner and kept my chair without being nasty about it. She later told me she liked the way I didn't give the chair up. I'm pretty sure I already have put one girl off through lack of self confidence this year before we even got to any sexual activity. The one I spoke about on this thread has definitely cooled on me after raving about me the first time. Penis size did not change, confidence levels did. The harsh reality is get confident or wallow in your own self pity for ever. It's up to the own individual person.
  11. You're a similar size to me in fact I'm a tiny bit smaller in length and yes it has affected me in a similar way. I've made a few posts on the small penis syndrome forum you may be interested in. Recently had some sexual experience with a hot woman and my penis size did not put her off at all. If anything is putting her off it's my own lack of self confidence to be the lover I want to be. I haven't had much sexual experience but both people have wanted to see me again. My problem is I only have the confidence when I am really drunk and I become the tense timid guy you speak of when sober. The last person I slept with was actually dumbfounded as to why I had never had regular sex before when I admitted it to her on 2nd time of seeing her. She kept saying she didn't understand why and she had seen my penis the week before. It must not have even crossed her mind. If I continue to be very tense and timid she will start to wonder and she'll start to believe there must be something wrong with me if I continue to believe it. Skynight has it spot on it really is all about the confidence. It won't be easy, in fact it will be hard work but if you really want to live life to the full you have to do it. You have to retrain your mind. My next goal is to have intercourse sober. Such a simple task for most men and comes naturally but for us with the syndrome it's a very stressful experience. Your ex girl probably busted on your size because she knew how much it affected you and it was easy to gain power over you that way. Doesn't sound like a nice girl either way. I'm only just starting to realise what I need to do to get over it myself. Maybe we can both get over it together?
  12. I was only 25% and 23% though on those 2.
  13. Melancholy Phlegmatic for me.
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