I'll always be focusing on my penis whenever I exercise it or not. It's borderline small and if there is any hope at all at lengthening it then I'm willing to spend time on it. I've been trying to find confidence and I think I have slightly gained confidence in day to day stuff, nothing dramatic though. Whilst my penis size is affecting my confidence then I am afraid yes it is the centre of my universe. I honestly think I would be happy if it got to 6 inches length as I would feel more average than small. I really don't think 3 months is a long time for something which could change the rest of my life. I've been working out for years and still don't look great, although better than average. It doesn't help that I am a natural big build, makes my penis look like a noodle when I look in the mirror.