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ChasingDreams

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  • Birthday 07/21/1980

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    California, USA
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    Cooking, Shopping, Web Design, Drawing, Writing, Video Games
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    Admin Support

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  1. That's awesome that you could quit your stressful job:) I had a series of stressful jobs a few years ago... The first one I didn't leave soon enough, because I hit my breaking point and told my boss exactly what I thought of her>< lol The next I ended up quitting after a month, because I was already getting really stressed>< and the last one I left just in time! I was so stressed out that I was having panic attacks... So I made the (I thought at the time anyway:P) smart choice of applying for other jobs before blowing it with that one... And now here I am in a new city, in a great, mellow, practically stress-free job, with really nice people:D Unfortunately, my boyfriend isn't so happy about having moved here... and is now making me miserable with his grumpy moods and complaining all the time>< Add onto that a 1-year-old (our first child) who usually only sleeps a few hours at a time, and him going back to school and traffic jams, and trying to take care of the housework, and trying to help my mom set up a business (so she doesn't have to go get a full-time job and stop babysitting for us...) and trying to learn a new language, and money problems... and now I'm even more stressed out>< lol I definitely need to work on finding ways to reduce my stress, but I'm just not sure how at this point:( I don't really see anything I could cut out without causing some other, new stress:P But yeah, I at least need to find better ways of dealing with it than trying to fill up the void with food... or shopping... lol
  2. Hi, Just wanted to introduce myself in this section. I am a total emotional eater and have put on 30 pounds in the last year, due to the stress in my life and trying to comfort myself with food:( Sadly, what gets me through the day most of the time is looking forward to the next yummy food I get to eat:P I just stuffed myself with Chinese food for lunch and while it was awesome at the moment (it almost gives me a highXD lol) I am now feeling overstuffed, heavy and mad at myself:P Anyway, I'll be around:) lol
  3. Hi, I just wanted to add another female perspective in here really quick. I personally have no expectations surrounding size and actually find far more pleasure in things my man does to me with other body parts:P From reading your post and the male responses, it seems to me that maybe part of your problem is the type of women you are going after and your own expectations. I saw the words "hot" and "beautiful" mentioned several times throughout this thread, indicating to me that you are looking for an above-average looking woman. Don't you think these type of women are perhaps looking for above-average guys as well? Perhaps you would find a more understanding (aka less shallow:P) woman and a more meaningful relationship if you looked into your own judgments and expectations. I'm not trying to be mean... but maybe just think a bit about how hurt you are by how women judge you by your looks and how your own judgements of women may be a bit harsh as well... Maybe if you open yourself up to some less-than-perfect women they will be much more accepting of every part of you and you will realize you really aren't missing out on anything... Otherwise, if you keep pursuing these shallow, fake, full-of-themselves women, you are likely to keep being hurt:( Just a thought...
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