hi lala I was in therapy for over a year and was still unable to talk about it. As I couldnt speak about the real issue it made me angry, I hated myself and I hated the fact I could not trust anyone to tell them what had happened and how I felt. Because of this I started to self harm, get drunk each night, was aggestive towards people, took many over doses. got in trouble with the police and much more. My whole live was out of control I lost everything. I dont think I will ever be able to talk about what happened and I have leant now to block it out but I have not had a boyfriend since it hapened. I ahve tried to the way I went about it was wrong but I really thought it would help me through this. I got totally drunk 1 night (to the point I could not stand or speak) and slept with someone. I did this a few times thinking if I need to get over this and need to get some control back. It didnt work and I felt worst. So the only way I have leant to deal with this is by blocking it out but to never trust anyone to get close to me again. I dont even like it when it is just me and another male in one room together. I find life very hard but am learning how to cope with things each day. Thank u so much for ur advice hope ur ok. Take care