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I don't know what loving someone is about. I never been in any relationship or loved anyone. I used to be a romantic and had high regards toward love but not anymore. It faded away when I realized that women nowadays just want a great sex life above all things and it doesn't really happen with a partner who has a small/average penis. Nothing else is happening in my life. I stopped going out with my friends. I stopped because they were going on with their lives (career, girlfriends, wives, babies) and I was just stuck being an underachieving virgin. I just didn't feel like I belonged with them. So I just work, watch TV, and sleep. I no longer have any hobbies and absolutely nothing brings me joy anymore.

Yeah please read post #40 by Malign. There's no way in hell I'm gonna wear one of those cyberskin penis extender. I'd rather die actually.

I'm sorry AmericanPsycho, but what devices am I exactly supposed to look for?! I'm lost.

Sometimes I feel that my small penis will prevent any woman from falling in love with me. It's just such a dealbreaker that there won't be any "if I love the man, I'll love his small penis"... it's just going to be "oh, he has a small penis, I'm no longer in love with him". I've heard girls saying to each other stuff like "before you go any further with this guy, check his package". Also, type the words boyfriend and small penis on Google and you'll see for yourself. Thousands of posts from girls who ask if they should dump their boyfriends who happen to have small dicks. Anyway, I'm having weird feelings these days. I feel glad I'm still a virgin. I think it saved me from a great deal of humiliation and painful rejection. But I feel depressed that I have to feel this way. It shouldn't be this way. I don't deserve this. I don't deserve a small penis. Why couldn't I just have a normal penis and have a normal sex (and also sentimental) life. It got to the point where suicide seems like the only viable option now. I shouldn't be thinking about ending my life at 29, it's disgusting. It's so unfair it makes sick and angry. More angry actually. I feel like a time bomb about to explode. The next fucker who'll bump into my car at a red light will wish he was never born.

Interesting thread. Well, TL, they are right when they say that men who tend to have smaller dicks would never participate in such a study. Hell, I wouldn't do it myself... so what does it say? It says that only guys with large dicks participate in such studies, therefore making the average much higher than it really is. Don't pay attention to this crap. Anyway, just like you, the attitude of society towards small dicks also dictates my life. I don't buy this "only you decide how to live your life" BS. When so many people (especially women) tell you that there's something wrong with having a small dick, then it means that there's something wrong, period. It doesn't matter how you decide to live your life. Women prefer large dicks, I have a small one: that dictates me that I shouldn't even bother showing my penis to a woman. Seriously, why bother? It's almost rude on some level. It's like offering something blue to someone who explicitly told you they prefer the color red. Sorry I'm tired... what I've just said probably doesn't make any sense.

Toulouse, I know what you mean when you say that men with large penis must have so much fun, and their partners too! That's exactly how I feel. I'm so envious of them. I used to have a female roommate, and she was constantly bringing guys over to fuck, mostly black guys. The walls were thin and based on her screams and other sounds coming from her bedroom, some of them must have been really well endowed (but not all of them though). Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that I knew when a guy had a big cock and when it was the case it sounded like they were having so much fun together! It's like they were shooting porn flicks in her room. Sometimes, I couldn't take it anymore and had to leave the house and take a walk or something. It was reminding me of everything I was missing and everything that I will miss... I can't even say I will miss since I can't make it happening because I have a small penis. It's more like something that I'll never experience and that depresses the shit out of me. It's through that roommate that I understood why women love large penis so much. It gives them so much pleasure, you can't even be mad at women for preferring big dicks. I totally understand them. I wish I had a large penis so women would love me more.

Yeah... but here's a question for you. You have the choice between two men and both have an incredible attitude and much more to offer than their genitalia. However, one has a small penis and the other has a larger one. Which one would you choose? And for the sake of argument, let's pretend you cannot choose both. That is one thing that has always bothered me with women. According to them, no guy with a large penis knows how to use it or he's an asshole or whatever. I seriously doubt that there aren't any great guy, good lover, and of course well (or at least normally) endowed, out there. In fact, I believe there are tons of guys like that, so why would any woman in her right mind want to be with a guy like me? I litteraly have nothing to offer. I also believe that our presence on Earth boils down to one single thing: reproduction. It's obvious that I won't find a mate and reproduce, therefore I have no reason to be on this planet, so I might as well just kill myself. I think I'm gonna do the world a favor by taking me out of the dating scene and ultimately, the gene pool. It's going to be a much better place without losers like me. That's my last post for this thread. In fact, this might be my last post on this forum period. I can't believe I still even care for all this crap. I'm pretty much gone already anyway. Sorry if I offended anyone.

Well... isn't that what most women want in this age of "No Strings Attached" and "Friends With Benefits": a good pounding and then goodbye Sir?

Those two things are the same. I know deep down I cannot satisfy a woman with my small penis. Therefore, if my partner cannot enjoy sex, I won't be able to enjoy it either. And it pisses me off that I'll only be able to please a woman using my fingers and my tongue. I have nothing against going down on a woman but not if it's the ONLY thing I can do to her. I mean c'mon, how interesting do you think it's going to be for me to only use my fingers and my tongue? Then what, I watch her using her toys because I can't finish the job. So humiliating...

My thoughts exactly, Wastedlife. Women who pretend they can't have orgasms (other than pure physical problems or malformations) is because they probably never had sex with a guy who had a large penis.

Toulouse, I remember showing my penis to my mom when I was 14 years old because I had questions regarding my foreskin. She looked shocked. I like to think it's because I just showed her my penis and it meant that her little boy was growing, but it's probably because it was really small. She's a nurse so she probably saw thousands of schlongs and I knew I was already smaller than other boys my age. Anyway, 12 years later I tried to talk to her about my small penis. She was wondering why I was so sad and I made her understand that it could have been penis related. I remember saying that it was about something I couldn't change. She stopped the discussion, saying she didn't want to talk about this. I assume she figured it was about my penis. I guess that's why she never asked me if I was gay or something like that even though I never brought a girlfriend home. I think she always knew I had a small dick. She obviously doesn't give a shit because she probably prefers huge cocks (my dad is big). I wish she would have noticed something was wrong with the size of my dick back when I was 14 years old. I think a responsible mother would have brought me to a doctor to have my testosterone levels checked and maybe have a few injections or whatever, just to see if I was growing normally. Who knows, maybe I would have grown a big dick like my father or could have been at least average. My life wouldn't be such a nightmare. Oh well... hopefully my next life will be somewhat happier.

Thermonuclear Warrior, what you're saying is a load of BS. When I was in my early 20's, I tried what you recommended us to do: focusing on a career, making money, getting fit... Well guess what? It didn't work. At the end of the day, no matter how much money you have and no matter how charming you are, if you have small dick, you'll never be more than a random guy with a small dick, completely ill-equiped to satisfy a woman. If you can't satisfy a woman, you'll never be considered a man (even if you have male genitalia). And let's face it, if you're not a man even though you look like one, you're NOTHING! How can you go any further with your life knowing that? And for the love of God people, don't tell me that it's not the penis that makes the 'man'. Every sexologists on this damn planet will tell you that a penis is the epicenter of manhood. No hobbies, no career goals whatsoever helped me forget that I was going to spend the rest of my life alone and ridiculed. This lack of an healthy sex life is a black hole swallowing absolutely everything. I hate myself. I hate this world and I just can't wait to find the guts to leave it sooner than nature intended it for me to.

I know I've been depressed for years now... still I never consulted anyone about it but that's not the point here. I'm aware I have trouble concentrating on some things but I always thought it was because I was depressed. I'm not teaching anyone anything here but when you're depressed, well, you tend not to give a flying sh*t about anything and especially about the things you know you don't care about. That's why I never cared too much regarding why I could never finish one single page of a book or started daydreaming during a boring conversation. But now, I fear that I might suffer from ADHD (without too much hyperactivity). When I watch, say, a show I usually pause it after 5min and take a walk around the house. Then I might feel like listening to a song, so I do that. After that I watch five more minutes but stop again and browse the Internet. I just started a new job and when my boss explains me something, my mind just starts wandering everywhere even though I concentrate really hard keeping on with what's going on. I daydream all the time. Could I be suffering from ADHD or am I just bored and undisciplined?