Jump to content
Mental Support Community

Cece.dedesl

Members
  • Posts

    325
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    14

Cece.dedesl last won the day on May 28 2013

Cece.dedesl had the most liked content!

Cece.dedesl's Achievements

Senior Member

Senior Member (4/4)

108

Reputation

  1. Hate to tell ya Malign but I think the spam has spread past the site to personal emails. Hope I'm wrong but I've gotten a large amt penis spam since I quit posting. Seeing as I don't have penis and how relentless it's been, it could be an issue as this is the only site I've visited with this type if content.
  2. Best of luck P! You deserve all the happiness in the world.
  3. There could be a harmless and very simple reason that you're feeling this way.... Puberty is very powerful. At 15 you're going through a roller coaster of hormones. I know when I was your age I felt similar things.
  4. I believe we all have free will however, the choices we make are influenced by a lot of different things. I don't feel those influences reduce my free will, i feel they strengthen it by allowing me to make more educated decisions.
  5. We're all guilty of believing the grass is greener on the other side. It's important to realize that everyone has problems, desires, and flaws no matter how they appear to us. It's even more important to understand that even if we had all the things we feel we need to be happy, chances are that happiness will be temporary because there is always a downside to everything. The only why to find true happiness is to appreciate who you are and what you have and pretty much ignore the success of others. As long as compare ourselves to those we feel inadequate to, the more unhappy and dissatisfied we'll become in our own lives.
  6. DV, I've found that 90% of the time I've thought people were talking behind my back it was just me projecting my insecurities. We have a tendency to think our flaws are tattooed across our heads in big flashing neon when in reality most people are too absorbed in their own issues to spend much time thinking about ours.
  7. Because they have convinced themselves that happiness cannot be achieved. Seeing someone buck their belief system causes them discomfort.
  8. Lmao.., you would be justified in doing so!
  9. I don't know, he had the surgery before I met him. He's still dissatisfied with the size and the results of the surgery just made it worse for him. We've been together over 2 years and he still makes love wearing his boxers. Shrugs... He refers to it as being deformed..so he doesn't really let me look or does he openly discuss his pre surgery or post surgery measurements.
  10. The suggestions aren't made to depressed anyone. They are simply things that have worked for other people. A lot of them are great ideas and have brought about good results. This ties into the topic here. Some people feel their lot in life as helpless where others have decided to help themselves. It's easy to play the victim, it's a lot harder to be the hero.... Basically, you can let the cards control you or you can control the cards. Personally, Perserverence I hope you stay.
  11. My current bf had surgery. He's had all sorts of problems because it. Lengthening left a prominent curve, the thickening process caused some lumpiness and decreased sensation which of course led to erection issues. He hates the scar. From the gf side, the curve increases pleasure in some positions and takes away pleasure in other positions. It does make getting in a little uncomfortable at times. The thickening causes a lot of pulling because the extra girth doesn't get "hard". If we don't use a lot lube it hurts both of us. However, A lot of lube added to his decreased sensation makes it difficult for him to maintain an erection. So, even though he slightly enlarged his penis it still left several other issues to contend with. I personally wish he hadn't messed with it.
  12. I don't know... The sushi is the most interesting aspect to me!
  13. Lol.... I guess the next time one of friend's complain about a lack a foreplay and variety in the bedroom, I'll just let them know that we are with men only for dick. Too funny!
  14. Handle what truth? Your truth? Your life experiences aren't his. Does it really make you so angry that he has someone in his life? So what, he's happy, why does that bother you so much? Jealousy? Does it make you second guess your preconceived conceptions? Why be so bitter? The truth is, we all have to make our own happiness in this world. The very fact that he's willing to put himself out there makes him anything but pathetic. Pathetic is sitting around feeling sorry for yourself and bashing others on the Internet who have done what you're incapable of doing. I'm sorry you're in a bad place but your bad place is not his and shouldn't be making him feel like crap just because he's trying to better himself and he's happy. For someone who knows how it feels to be treated like shit it amazes me how quickly you dish it out. All of you should take a time out! If you want support, give support. If you want empathy, give empathy, if you want respect, give respect. Most importantly, if you want unconditional love, give unconditional love.
  15. I wasn't suggesting enforcing a balance. Balance can't be forced. I just feel bad for those whose come here looking for hope or to try to better their situation because right now, they won't find it here.
×
×
  • Create New...