sara89 Posted November 28, 2015 Report Share Posted November 28, 2015 Hey,I was wondering; if you get to know somebody and think that there might be more than friendshipwould you talk about your penis-issues, and if yes, when is the right time to do so?As I am asexual I have similar problems regarding talking about sex issues. I mean if we don't talk about itit's expected that everything is "normal". So I guess mention it early is a good thing.Regarding Online-Dating I really like the site "okcupid". You can see how sex-driven somebody is if theyanswered the corrosponding questions .P.S I am new here, so I hope that this topic haven't already existed... TooOld4This and LouisZ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 29, 2015 Report Share Posted November 29, 2015 Hi Sara. Don't worry about the topic, write whatever you want. Honestly what I would say would totally depend on the relationship and what kind of vibe I was getting. I would actually like to have a female friend w/o any sex in the relationship. Open communication is good but there were times in my past where I shared too much too soon and I think it made the relationship less fun and too heavy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TooOld4This Posted November 29, 2015 Report Share Posted November 29, 2015 Thanks for posting, sara89. You're asking very good questions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted December 3, 2015 Report Share Posted December 3, 2015 i generally throw in a size-reference or joke before getting too serious or intimate with a girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara89 Posted December 3, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 3, 2015 Making a joke in a relaxed atmosphere seems to a good thing.Then you can see in what way she reacts and go further or don't.Could you give examples of such jokes? I am quite a fan of good humour . Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted December 4, 2015 Report Share Posted December 4, 2015 Me to I wanna hear this. Maybe something like "Whaddaya say we have a little fun?" Or "Hey look - three thumbs up!". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
someone555 Posted December 8, 2015 Report Share Posted December 8, 2015 Making a joke in a relaxed atmosphere seems to a good thing.Then you can see in what way she reacts and go further or don't.Could you give examples of such jokes? I am quite a fan of good humour .-you can't deepthroat? thats ok because with me you wont need to-i have a small dick, but i eat pussy like its my last meal (this is more for a hook-up, not girlfriend)-i hope you're not a size queen, as my size is more... compact-we can have sex 20 times a day and you won't get sore... thats a good thing right?-i'm below average, but i make up for it with my extreme enthusiasmi've had lots more i'm sure, just cant think off the top of my head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted December 8, 2015 Report Share Posted December 8, 2015 damn, tbd! idk whether to laugh or cry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted December 9, 2015 Report Share Posted December 9, 2015 A BBC is no laughing matterok, i'll cry then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted December 9, 2015 Report Share Posted December 9, 2015 I'm not great at being witty but hope you got that I was kiddingi know; and it was funny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sara89 Posted December 13, 2015 Author Report Share Posted December 13, 2015 Lol, the three thumbs-up-quote is a good one.I found another dating-site which is for different types of "special people": http://www.kwink.com/ Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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