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Would approval help ease your mind?

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I don't think I could ever be at ease mentally. I'll always have doubts, at least that's what I anticipate. Especially if it's from someone who I'm emotionally involved with, there's the bias of their love to make me question their encouraging words. Looking at the big picture in regards to a relationship, I know it's silly. But idk, even overall, I don't feel that I meet anyone's standards 

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I don't know if anything would ease my mind. Just thinking about the size of my dick pisses me off so I don't expect any woman I might be with to like it. Just grabbing hold of it when its hard makes me want to pull it off. It feels really thin and short. I don't like anything about it so I wouldnt trust any woman who'd compliment it because I'd imagine they're just being nice.

 

I might be losing my mind too. Merely thinking of penetrating a woman sets me off these days. I hate the idea of sex. Sometimes I wonder why sex is even pleasurable. Why is not a repulsive act that people only put up with for the sole purpose of having kids and nothing else? Yeah I'm definitely losing it alright.

 

Apparently the average size in South Africa is just above 6 inches. Back in high school I ended up going home with two friends of mine. We watched porn and decided to show each other our hard ons. One of the guys looked massive. Likely around the 7/7.5 inch mark and pretty thick. The other was around 6+ inches. Yeah I was the smallest guy there. And yes I did get laughed at. It wasn't brutal and it didn't persist but I'll never forget that day. More recently I got really drunk at a buddy of mines place. He is bi. He wanted to see it. I showed him. He showed me his and and yes, also around the 6+ inches mark. "Why me" is constantly in my head.

 

But I have much bigger problems than a small dick that make me feel like happiness is just a myth. I question my existence every.fucking.day and I'm still without answers. 

 

 

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I know what both of are going through. Having a small dick is only one of my problems. I have social anxiety and have developed a deep distrust/dislike of most people in general. I'm 48 so I'm learning to accept myself as I am as there's not much I can do to change anything. There are women out there who don't care about dick size, I was married to one. But as I said, that's not my only problem. 

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Hey tbd & jackbolin - I totally get it, I feel your pain. I am a few years older than you are jack & just feel like life is one big lie.  If you are filthy rich it could be ok 'cause you could afford to get completely away from everyone but anything less than that is hell.  

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3 hours ago, Victimorthecrime said:

  If you are filthy rich it could be ok 'cause you could afford to get completely away from everyone but anything less than that is hell.  

Like x10000. That's been my goal for a decade but it looks like it will never be possible. 

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For me I have had approval. Right from the first pic I ever sent to someone online. But then after that high I wanted it again, and again and so on and so on. I build up that I'm small in my head and then I seek for approval. It was part of the reasoning for the failure of my marriage, to go along with other problems we were having. Even now, I still try and find ways to get approval. So in a way, it works, but only for a matter of time it seems. And I'm trying to get that mental block in my head to be permanently out of my head, but doubting I'll ever get it fully out there. 

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Tiny Black Dick how big is your dick?   I am slightly under 5" hard and ironically my best childhood friend was hung like a porn star, yet I actually got laid more than he did. I came of age long before penis shamming was in and have hung onto my girlfriend I have had since 1981 who is now my wife.   But I did learn through him that just because you have a 9" hard on, it doesn't mean word will get out and the girls will be lining up.

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4 hours ago, TimmyStan1967 said:

Tiny Black Dick how big is your dick?   I am slightly under 5" hard and ironically my best childhood friend was hung like a porn star, yet I actually got laid more than he did. I came of age long before penis shamming was in and have hung onto my girlfriend I have had since 1981 who is now my wife.   But I did learn through him that just because you have a 9" hard on, it doesn't mean word will get out and the girls will be lining up.

4.2 Length 4.8 Girth. I have other issues too though. 

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On 4/26/2017 at 8:27 AM, Victimorthecrime said:

Hey tbd & jackbolin - I totally get it, I feel your pain. I am a few years older than you are jack & just feel like life is one big lie.  If you are filthy rich it could be ok 'cause you could afford to get completely away from everyone but anything less than that is hell.  

Tell me about it brother, lol....I've fantasized about winning the lottery and what I'd do. That's the only way i'll ever be rich. I'd definitely organize (or hire someone else to) a big meeting of all us "smaller" guys...and I'd pay for everyone's expenses to get there. Ok I'm dreaming now, but I figure somewhere like NYC...we could rent out an entire floor of one of those swank hotels in Manhattan....Not sure what we'd do, but to just be around people that understand and care about a common problem would be great. Maybe hire some entertainment ;).....I'd definitely do that. That's it, I'm gonna buy a lottery ticket today....

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