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SweetSue Posted June 11, 2011 Report Share Posted June 11, 2011 Just imagine that something really helpful was written here 'k Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SweetSue Posted June 12, 2011 Report Share Posted June 12, 2011 Again close your eyes, and just imagine that there is something worth reading written here - ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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malign Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 I would also like to take this opportunity to suggest that there are reasonable limits to our information sharing. Asking about specifics of harming can be very triggering to those who do it.I understand curiosity; I'm curious about how people react to things, too. The problem is that my curiosity is not as important as their reaction: if harming causes them (and is the result of) pain, asking about it likely causes them more pain.I hope all involved will take thought to those who read our site, many of whom, particularly the silent ones, may still be caught up in their harming and easily triggered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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malign Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 Just suggesting we tone it down a little.Believe me, when I need to do the "needful", I just do it. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 deleted my posts - sorry to all that have been hurt or triggered by my words Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 I know that people tend to "hear" anything I say as more "scolding" than I intend ... but if I had needed people to do anything about what was already there, I would have told them, or made the changes myself.I don't want people floating around afraid to speak. It would kinda make the whole place useless. We just have to stay within some pretty wide boundaries, and that's all I was saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 didnt think you were scolding - does that mean telling off ???? for a minute. and yes I know you would of I edited my words for personal reasons, not because of anything else - too much personal info about the inside me - which is niether helpful to myself nor anyone else.take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malign Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 Well, your information is yours. :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SweetSue Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 certainly is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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SweetSue Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 Don't be too sure of it .Atleast not the ' anyone else ' bit !Im sorry lagrima, Im just in the wrong place in my head at the moment. I hope that what I did write was atleast of some help with your studies.Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pseudome Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 I would also like to take this opportunity to suggest that there are reasonable limits to our information sharing. Asking about specifics of harming can be very triggering to those who do it.I understand curiosity; I'm curious about how people react to things, too. The problem is that my curiosity is not as important as their reaction: if harming causes them (and is the result of) pain, asking about it likely causes them more pain.I hope all involved will take thought to those who read our site, many of whom, particularly the silent ones, may still be caught up in their harming and easily triggered.I'd like to second this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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IrmaJean Posted June 13, 2011 Report Share Posted June 13, 2011 Hi, mscat. I hope you're okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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