Hate having a 4" erect penis

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Btw she says she has orgasms but they're not like how men have them. It's not going to be extremely noticeable she claims. In my experience the only orgasms I've given girls was from rubbing their clit. Not too sure about vaginal so I have no clue. Rubbing her clit or eating her out is off the table as she doesn't like it. It's pound away soon as we get into it. But those other girls clearly had orgasms with me. So I know what it looks like. Just not with PIV inter course.

This is something I've always wondered and fretted about. I've never seen, or even been the cause of a womans orgasm.

I've always wondered what it'd be like to be a woman in this one respect. They're always 'female' enough to give their male partner an orgasm. They don't have to worry about this, a man's gonna cum 99.999999999% of the time. That's gotta be a major confidence booster!

I've never been within 20 feet of an orgasming woman. I'll die never knowing what it's like to give a woman this gift. Never been man enough. I envy guys who give their ladies this, no matter what their size is.

[Perseverance]

This is something I've always wondered and fretted about. I've never seen, or even been the cause of a womans orgasm.

I've always wondered what it'd be like to be a woman in this one respect. They're always 'female' enough to give their male partner an orgasm. They don't have to worry about this, a man's gonna cum 99.999999999% of the time. That's gotta be a major confidence booster!

I've never been within 20 feet of an orgasming woman. I'll die never knowing what it's like to give a woman this gift. Never been man enough. I envy guys who give their ladies this, no matter what their size is.

Well surely you can give a girl an orgasm from oral sex. I have. My current gf just doesn't like it, which blows my mind. Majority of girls I've been with wanted their pussy eaten. So it's not like you can't do It that way.

Which maybe is the another problem with me. Every other girl I could get off with my tongue. My gf is not into that... Maybe she can't orgasm that way. I have no clue. She jumps right to sex which makes me think she's been with big guys who make her feel great so she's accustomed to feeling great with PIV and not having to worry about needing to be eaten out. Or she thinks it's gross. No clue.

"Hey why don't you just talk to her about it"

That road is always a disaster. :-/

[sophia]

Well surely you can give a girl an orgasm from oral sex. I have. My current gf just doesn't like it, which blows my mind. Majority of girls I've been with wanted their pussy eaten. So it's not like you can't do It that way.

that blows my mind too. really peculiar. only 25% of women orgasm from intercourse, and I don't know any women who don't like orgasming courtesy of their partner's tongue. that's what does it for me. i guess thats good for you though that you don't have to go down on her, I hear most men don't like doing that.

She jumps right to sex which makes me think she's been with big guys who make her feel great so she's accustomed to feeling great with PIV and not having to worry about needing to be eaten out. Or she thinks it's gross. No clue.

"Hey why don't you just talk to her about it"

That road is always a disaster. :-/

I really don't think thats the case, you may be overthinking/ over analyzing it. If she jumps right into sex, that means she is enjoying sex with you. Women don't compromise their chance at an orgasm AND not enjoy sex. if that were the case she'd be getting nothing out of the interaction, which isn't the case. if she wasn't enjoying the sex she wouldnt be jumping into it. maybe she has felt great with other guys, but also feels great with you. feeling good during sex doesn't necessarily depend on the size of a guy's penis you know.

[IrmaJean]

I'll die never knowing what it's like to give a woman this gift. Never been man enough.

You think her ability to achieve orgasm or not reflects on your manhood? Can you possibly challenge that thought?

You know, even when I was fully functional in that regard, I would always forgo that to simply be held lovingly. For me, the sharing and closeness is the gift. The rest is just gravy.

I do wonder if you may be making assumptions about how your wife feels and why and those assumptions may or may not be true. I know I had a physical problem and did not tell my husband for 7 plus years because I felt ashamed and worried about how he might respond if I told him I was broken, which was how I felt back then. But when I did tell him, I felt much relief and things have been better for both of us ever since. So, for us, openness and honesty helped.

Take care, John.

[Perseverance]

that blows my mind too. really peculiar. only 25% of women orgasm from intercourse, and I don't know any women who don't like orgasming courtesy of their partner's tongue. that's what does it for me. i guess thats good for you though that you don't have to go down on her, I hear most men don't like doing that.

No it's not good for me. I didn't always love doing it but I'm very drawn to my gf's body... All around. I love eating her out. I'd do it everyday if she let me. I did the other night (by surprise) and it lasted about 20 seconds before she told me to stop and get on top of her. I don't understand why she doesn't like it. Pisses me off because I love doing it to her. So allllll the focus is on sex. You know all the girls who say it's not just the size there is all these other things to sex... Well not for me. All the other shit is cancelled out. When we get intimate we jump right to sex because that's what she wants. There's me rubbing her back but honestly how sexual is that?

All the focus is on sex and if she has an orgasm it has to be PIV. What the fuck.

[u.r.what.u.is]

That does seem really, really unusual, Perseverance. Unfortunate, too. Like, you, I love giving oral, and I would find it difficult if she didn't love receiving. Thankfully, my GF is very "touchy-feely" so, she enjoys my hands and mouth going everywhere, and I am the same way. NOt just in sex, either, we both like being scratched, rubbed, massaged, etc.

[Wutty3]

My humble opinion is that if there was a safe & effective way to enlarge a penis we would all have heard about it by now.

HA! This is too funny! I am watching TV & TMZ just ran a clip of Dr OZ said for every 15 lbs of weight a man loses he will gain an up to an inch in penis length. So a 4" penis could become a 5" penis - a 25% increase.

I wish everyone health & happiness! Be blessed.

If I lost the weight required to gain the length that seems to be the "gold standard" 8 inches I would look like a 90 pound concentration camp victim with a big dick. I don't know though....maybe thats a good thing...

[georgemed222]

Give yourself time; four inches really is enough, if you just keep trying – and if you keep the tool in good health. (Tip for penis health: use a top notch penis health crème with amino acids).

[TimmyStan1967]

So here would love just to be average. What I wouldn't give to just be "Normal Small" as opposed to "Pathetically Small."

[LouieRanks]

You probably had a weak erection which can cost you a few inches. It happens to me whenever I grab a ruler. The stretch test is more accurate. Press a ruler down to your pubic bone, then grab the head of your penis and stretch it as far as it will go. Whatever number the tip lands on is where you should be on a full 100% erection.

[LouieRanks]

I still hate having a 4" penis. It's only a half inch or so above a micropenis. I really hate being short too. 5'5" is pretty short. Again, just within the "short normal" height for an adult male. I always get down thinking about how I'm shorter and smaller than 90%+ of the male adult population. I can't stop thinking about it, especially when I go outside. There aren't really any solutions besides to stop thinking about it. Therapy could never help me because I already know the statistics and know that the only thing to do is to stop thinking about it.

Your average for someone of Asian descent. See if theres any luck finding an Asian woman.

[LouieRanks]

4 inches? Even when bone pressed/bone stretched to the max??

[Resolute]

idk what you're trying to do by responding to these inactive threads. and yes, there are plenty of people who's penises are below 4 inches even with hard erections and bone pressed measurements.

[krisnamco]

As old as this post is, I felt like I had to reply. I'm 5'10, and my penis is barely 4 inches, might be 3.9. I have even less than you, and being taller it makes it seem even smaller. But you know what? I get on with my life. For my sex life I learned to become good with my hands and mouth, and I make a point of it to find the girl's g-spot before penetration. Even though I'm severely lacking in the size department, I learned to use what little I had to as much effect as I can, and most girls tell me I'm better than all the hung men they've been with. It doesn't feel bad for me either, even though there's not that much room to move I work with what I have. If sex was all about big penises, how do you think lesbians can please each other without using toys? Take my advice, and don't dwell on what you don't have. Instead, think about wha you DO have, and learn to make the most of it...The g-spot is usually only about 2 inches into the woman's body, and the main spot for pleasure is the clitoris. You can use that to please your girl, and as for penetration, I was always of the opinion that blowjobs feel much better, ESPECIALLY when you have a small penis. In most asian countries, the average size is around 4 inches, do you think that makes that entire race and continent of people feel worthless? No, they get married, have children, lead happy lives and have pleasurable sex. Have I ever wished I had a bigger penis? Sure I have, all men have, even the one's who are above average. I'm unemployed, struggle with money, and my penis is even smaller than yours, but I still go around in a good mood, manage to find girlfriends and feel good about myself. I hope you can learn to do the same.

[Victimorthecrime]

Unemployment sucks. Any prospects?  How are you getting by Kris? 

[sport]

If you are 4ins would trade you I,am about 3in when ready for action other wise 1in or inverted.The basic female question "Are you in? always had trouble with sex my 1st wife left and think it had to do with my size when she fooled around.The 2nd wife is a jewel never makes fun of me even if I don,t always do a good job use hands tongue etc.I was born along time ago they drs didn,t know about micro on me so just let it go I saw my dad and just thought would grow into it but I look like a 9 or 10 yr old.I later found out that my secondary sex characteristic,s never came on.

[HungLikeARabbit]

What build of woman are you guys talking about that complain about the size of your penis?

I have a friend with a 4.5 inch penis , 0.3 inch longer then mine and he gave me the following advice.

1. Keep your bodyfat % as low as possible as it increases the visual size and actual penetration length.

2. Don't go for woman with a larger bottom or wide hips as they generally can accommodate a larger size penis. This is especially true if you ever want to have a hope of doing doggy style, a naturally thinner , smaller woman would be more suitable for a below average size penis.

3. Go for woman who haven't had that many sexual partners and he states a number of reasons for this but the main one...Sex isn't a high priority for these woman but more the quality of the person they with.

I started going to the gym 2 years ago and it has done a lot for my self confidence and state of mind and something I can highly recommend. Losing 25 pounds also made my penis look bigger and added to that confidence. Also make sure to keep clean and smell good, obvious things like hygiene is very important.

 

 

 

[DatDude90]

On 1/27/2012 at 5:01 AM, toulouse_lautrec said:

I'm back again... still feeling the pain. Some days I feel okay, then other days I start thinking about everything I don't have and never will have.

I just hate having a 4/4.25 inch erect penis. I'm at the bottom of the chart, just like a half an inch away from a micropenis. What I hate most though, is that sex isn't that good with a 4" penis. There's just not a lot of room to move back and forth and really enjoy it. At such a small size, I have to stay way too close. Condoms are also too big, mostly. While people with a 5 inch/5.5 inch penis want to be bigger, I just want to be average. And it's not going to happen. I feel like I've been deprived some of the basic pleasures of being a man, and I hate the world because of it.

5'5" with a 4.25 inch erect penis. I'm a loser on both counts.

Well this is an old post lol, been a while since I posted here. But reading your experience of just the mechanics of sex, makes me me think about how my experience will go. I'm also 5'5", maybe a quarter of an inch more, penis is 5inches. I really need to consider how things will go, you say you have no room for back and forth motion, I can't imagine I will have much luck either in that regard.

[YOTH]

@Robert3011 Not true, man. You'll be ok. To be honest it's all about comfort and most of all confidence (that one takes time, possibly might have to be with the right girl). It's a well known fact that if you're not fully turned on you're not fully tuned up. 8" becomes 7", 7" becomes 6" and for us 5.5" becomes 4.4" so it's real important to work at maximum capacity. Personally, if it's a new relationship, I juice (Viagra), but that's just to get me through the beginning months.