Popular Post spitfire101 Posted October 7, 2013 Popular Post Report Share Posted October 7, 2013 Hello. So basically my question is how to get out and date? I am 28, never had a girlfriend, never dated or even kissed a girl and I want this to change. Most people will say friends are the best way to get out and meet girls but I don’t really have any friends so that is one option that is out. Another thing people always say is get out and do activities that I enjoy, hobbies and such, but I been trying for a long time to find gatherings for the hobbies I am into with no luck. I have tried online dating but a big problem there is with no real world experience I lack any for the online world as well. When is the right time to ask to meet in person? Do I exchange numbers first and text or what? Online dating is still my best bet but so far a lot of hit and misses had left me unable to even swing anymore. Any advice or experiences would be helpful, thank you. errorpKef, Bottdioms, IcereZefcrasp and 108 others 111 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IrmaJean Posted October 8, 2013 Report Share Posted October 8, 2013 Hi spitfire. Suggestions? Try shining as the person you are and being open to the possibilities. I agree that participating in activities that you enjoy might be a good place to start. I think that being yourself and feeling free with that will naturally attract those who appreciate your qualities. Good luck! Buizedaginene 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SinnerLloyd Posted October 11, 2013 Report Share Posted October 11, 2013 Do everything as soon as possible, ask their number, go out on date etc... Wait too long and you will get stuck in the friendzone. And never get too attached on your first target. Because if its your first, most likely it wont end well. Get use to rejection as well. Its a numbers game. And join a dating site like cupid to meet more women. You can see it here at http://www.freedatin...erracial-cupid/ The more women you talk to the more success you get. And most importantly, have fun. good luck bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flander Posted October 13, 2013 Report Share Posted October 13, 2013 I've found online dating to be a big waste of time and resources. Lots of the sites have fake profiles and/or will send fake 'winks' or whatever they want to call them from random people that have never even looked at your profile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anouarpac Posted November 15, 2013 Report Share Posted November 15, 2013 IrmaJean good answer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smurph Posted April 11, 2015 Report Share Posted April 11, 2015 Stick to getting different hobby and being real.. I dont like dating sites either. Try to do a make over.. be better looking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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