Is this ADHD? Anyone with same symptoms

[GMCDealer]

I am convinced that there must be something wrong with me. Some sort of mental or psychological disorder.

Firstly, I’ll say that my memory is lacking severely. I can watch a movie and forgot a lot of it by the next day. I remember very few events from my childhood. Of those events I do remember, I don’t really remember anything in vivid detail. Everything is a blur to me. Family and friends usually speaks of events that had occurred in the past but I cannot remember any of it. My memory seems to really hinder my experience in school and my ability to learn, well, anything. Even things I’m really interest in. I’ve forgot everything I’ve learned through school. I struggle to remember the page I have just read (sometimes end up reading a page 3-4 times). I never really feel like I can focus. I can sit down to read a book in a house with complete silence, start reading and be completely distracted by my thoughts or anything else. Or I would fall asleep. Ill start thinking about anything and everything. It’s not a lack of motivation to learn or read and it’s not a lack of interest.

The inability to focus carries over into many things other than reading books. I feel like I’m never focused in a conversation. I can be talking to someone one-on-one and I won’t even by listening to them. I’ll be drifting off into some other world. Staring at the wall, blindly saying “yeah.” Typically I cant recall the beginning of a conversation or what we are speaking of. Even when I put the effort into it and consciously try to focus, I find it extremely difficult. During conversations I stumble on words frequently or say the wrong words. Also, I have a hard time remembering the word I am trying to say. I struggle to thinking of the word I am saying. I have a lot of trouble conversing and I know other can tell to some degree. I struggled my entire life with speaking and didn’t develop the ability to talk until a later age. I’ll often just stop mid-sentence because I either lost my train of thought, drifted off into some other world or just can’t think of the right word. I feel that my cognitive abilities are lacking.

I don’t know if I have ADHD, a learning disability or something else.

I tried caffeine pills recently for the first time. The pills worked wonders (memory was much better during the few weeks, energy was good, concentration was good). The pills only worked for 2 weeks and then stopped working entirely. If I don’t use caffeine pills for an extended period of time (few weeks to a few months) then try them again, they will work for a few weeks then

stop.

Went to a doctor who prescribed Cipralex (Escitalopram). Best I felt in my life (memory, energy and concentration were amazing) at first but after 3 weeks the effects started to dissaper. Went back to having bad memory, low energy and poor concentration. Doctor tried to increase dosage but didn’t work and went back to feeling tired all the time and symptoms started to come back. The doctor then tried to put my on Sandoz Bupropion SR (antidepressant) but effects only worked a week then stopped.

My mom has had the exact same issues her entire life. She does have thyroid but is using Synthroid to help with it. She’s complained to her doctor her entire life but never had been able to solve this issue. Other issues that run in my family are low blood sugar, higher cholesterol and arthritis. I have done a blood test and everything is normal. Iron is fine, thyroid is file and everything else good.

See below for a summary by age.

As a child

- had a hard time concentrating, could never read a book and developed reading, writing and speaking skills much later than everyone else

- difficulty reading and speaking

- anxiety

- very active child, loved playing sports and was always active

- difficulty socializing excluding close friends

- extremely poor memory

- A lot of daydreaming – spent most of my childhood daydreaming

-as the day progresses, my abilities became a lot worse.

Teenager

- hard time concentrating, struggled to read, write and speak. When I would write something, every sentence would have an error. Missed words or wrong word used. Could never write a complete, correct sentence.

- slept a lot more and felt depressed (started losing hair)

- Extremely poor memory – worst memory out of everyone I know

- anxiety started getting worse. Have always avoided doing things that caused anxiety including speaking with a group of friends. Felt stupid during conversations because I couldn’t understand or recall past events.

- hard time speaking and reading. When I tried to read my concentration span was very short

- A lot of daydreaming

- hard time thinking of the word im trying to say, difficulty putting sentences together

-could never think at night (no memory, no ability to speak) – always tired at night

Adult

- hard time concentrating

- feeling of depression when I am very tired

- Energy level is very low mentally and when I am really tired I feel depressed

- daydreaming all the time

- in big group settings when i am required to talk, my anxiety gets really bad where i feel like i cannot talk

- brain fog

- difficulty talking some days (very bad some days) – cannot put simple sentences together like “Hi, how are you doing?”

- difficulty reading, trying to read puts me to sleep

- extremely poor memory – feel stupid all the time as a result of not being able to memorize past events (important events – ex. the date of birth of siblings/parents birthdays)

- hard time thinking of the word im trying to say. Better in the morning but as the day progresses it becomes a lot worse

- difficulty reading menu's

- hard time understanding when I am speaking to someone one on one, tend to end up saying “yeah” but not absorbing anything

- forgetful

- when im writing sentences i make a lot of errors and one sentence can take me a few minutes even though very simple.

- sometimes i feel dizzy all of sudden - energy just fades

- hard time understanding

- No retention

-brain feels foggy

[Ralph]

I am not qualified to diagnose anything, and I doubt anyone qualified would give a diagnosis based on an internet posting. What I can say is that in my case ADHD was diagnosed by way of exclusion. I was assessed for everything else possible before finally being tested for ADHD. Based on my test score (I think it was called CAARS) my therapist who specializes in ADHD diagnosed me with adult ADD. I had asked therapists to test me for ADD in the beginning but I was told things like, "ADHD is strictly a childhood disorder," (not true) or "You can't have ADHD because you were able to graduate college." In reality I was able to graduate college because I only took classes that were below my skill level to get good grades without studying.

This took over two years. So if it is ADHD, be prepared for a long haul. Your experience may vary, but only a professional can diagnose ADHD and given the amount of misunderstanding of the condition, even amongst medical doctors, it would be ideal IMHO to see someone who specializes in treating this condition.

[Victimorthecrime]

GMCDealer - get your blood sugar tested. The symptoms you describe could be a lot if things but a common one would be high blood sugar. Could early it can often be easy fixed w diet & exercise changes.

[CheldonMK]

I'd definitely talk to a specialist about it. I have ADHD and have experienced a lot of what you are now. Mental health is so tricky because so many symptoms overlap with eachother. Sometimes a symptom, like anxiety, can be a disorder in itself. I'm no doctor, but I can see how this is causing you a lot of stress in your life. Finding a good psychologist and psychiatrist will really give you a head start to feeling better and enjoting life. You might end up having to see a neurologist if there's something deeper than a psychological problem. I hope you are able to start feeling better soon! 

[bizzarecontact]

i'm exactly like you bro , this is extremely complicated i don't believe there is a remedy we are like that by nature. i feel tired 80 %  of the day since i was teenager is it cancer!?!

[AvaHudson]

Me and my husband are together for more than 18 years now. Even if he has ADHD, he still manage to keep his job for a long period of time, and that will always be something I can be really be proud of. Now that he's in his 40's everthing's changed. He gets jealous at times. He's not like that before, not like even close. I don't know what happen to us or is this something that I can blame his disorder. Some people go through this midlife crisis, right? What should I do?

[LaLa]

Hi, Ava, welcome!

I'm sorry your marriage has become so difficult  .

It doesn't sound like being related to his ADHD. May I ask what do you mean by "everything's changed"? Except for his jealousy, what else is different?

And have you already talked about it with him? What does he say? Does he admit he's changed, did he give some reasons?

Good luck and take care!

[MelaniaTaylor]

I am not a doctor but what I can tell for sure is that you have a hard time focusing and your attention span is quite small too. So, it could potentially point to ADHD but again, I am not a doctor. What I do know, however, is how you can raise your focus since coffee pills worked for you. I have used marijuana for some time now and it has definitely alleviated most of such symptoms that I used to face earlier. Marijuana has been known scientifically to treat mental health problems and alleviate their symptoms so I would definitely recommend it to you.