Victimorthecrime Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021170391Here is what the above very short article has to say and I found it worthy of consideration. There are comments at the end of it if anyone is interested:One of the most common themes about what is wrong with the world revolves around the fact that men with undersized penises are compensating by doing bad things such as owning guns and SUVs and becoming rich, while their better endowed brethren are content with their lives and don't need monetary wealth, power, or privilege. With that in mind, I am curious as to what people think should happen to men who are carrying less than a 6 inch penis. Euthanasia? Prison? Banishment to a deserted island? Mandatory psychological therapy? As a member of the "Big heart small junk" club, I would really like to know what people would have me do. As it is, I have quit flirting or seeking romantic relationships since it can be humiliating (bright side being more time for reading and posting on DU). I don't own a gun, muscle car, or an SUV, and 75% of working Americans make more money than I do. But I would really like to know more about what should happen to me and others like me. gone and Jessie 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvnJ22 Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 People should make their own choices, I know what I will do with myself, what others will or should do is up to them. Whirlwind69 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 I don't think that stereotype is true. For many men, having a smaller dick makes them less likely to draw attention to themselves. During the many years while I was ashamed of my body in this regard, I could be quite shy, depending on the situation. Now that I have gone through the process of overcoming my shame, I am not so shy anymore, but at the same time, I have aged and matured, so I don't act like I'm a crazy teenager wanna-be either. As I've said, ad nauseum, it is my opinion that 5"-6" is plenty good junk to have. It isn't good enough to get you on the porn set (boo hoo), but all other doors to life are wide open. I can't speak for the smaller guys, but I am happy to know that many of them (who are determined and stay motivated) are successful with relationships too. modestman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShameOnThem Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 I like this comment on the linked page" Men are sandwiched between the dueling criticisms ofincessantly thinking with their penises and not have adequate penises. I think it's scapegoat complaint. It doesn't matter what someone's personal attributes are, some aspect of them will be used to mock and ridicule. Race, religion, gender, genitalia, breasts, hair color, socio-economic status, trailer parks, upper westside penthouse, personal wealth, personal poverty, poor grooming, execessive grooming, frigidity, sluttiness, apathy, intrusiveness, etc etc etc At best this betrays a misplaced value system. At worst it's all just different forms of bigotry and it speaks more about the bigot than the victim of that bigotry. Any opportunity to diminish someone is seized upon with relish and delight. It won't ever stop until we start loving people just for being people -- and then the rest of those so-called "faults" won't look so damning after all. Signed, The girl with the very small breasts (and no dragon tattoo). Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 why should they do anything with us? we got small penises we are useless, no one cares. You just wait till you die and that's it, and in the mean time take the jokes and pretend like you don't have small penis... Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted April 2, 2014 Report Share Posted April 2, 2014 I have been hiding this secret since my last proper GF I guess…. so thats many years.Hate having to laugh at small dick jokes to maintain my cover- hate that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wutty3 Posted April 3, 2014 Report Share Posted April 3, 2014 Why even worry about it....it's survival of the fittest. In our culture we are seen as unfit to procreate... laughing stock for women and those "real men". who have "real penises" not "little baby dicks". I'm really starting to believe that's our intended role for being on this pile of shit floating in space, How boring and joyless would life be if we didn't have guys with small dicks to pick on. TimmyStan1967 and Victimorthecrime 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 3, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 3, 2014 Agree w the comments. Western culture has become extremely crude, crass, & ignorant. Women to their credit resisted this for a long time but now have largely joined the debauncherie. Now thanks to the internet any creep can broadcast hate across the world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notdoneyet Posted April 13, 2014 Report Share Posted April 13, 2014 It's ridiculous to suggest that having a smaller than average sized penis is acceptable to modern, younger women.I recently was forced to go to an emergency room after a fall cused excessive bleeding from my head. This resulted in my being hospitialized for four days where my clothes were removed by two female nurses, neither of which was half my age. Once I was exposed, the "ladies" left theroom with my underwear and were clearly heard to be giggling about my obvious lack of physical attibutes. I would have at least expected them to show some semblance of professional conduct by at least waiting until they were out of earshot before commencing with their myrth.Had I known that I would end up being the subject of ridicule, I more than likely would have refused the ride in the ambulance and chanced personal first aid as my choice. gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gone Posted April 13, 2014 Report Share Posted April 13, 2014 It's ridiculous to suggest that having a smaller than average sized penis is acceptable to modern, younger women.I recently was forced to go to an emergency room after a fall cused excessive bleeding from my head. This resulted in my being hospitialized for four days where my clothes were removed by two female nurses, neither of which was half my age. Once I was exposed, the "ladies" left theroom with my underwear and were clearly heard to be giggling about my obvious lack of physical attibutes. I would have at least expected them to show some semblance of professional conduct by at least waiting until they were out of earshot before commencing with their myrth.Had I known that I would end up being the subject of ridicule, I more than likely would have refused the ride in the ambulance and chanced personal first aid as my choice.I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted April 14, 2014 Report Share Posted April 14, 2014 I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school.They wanted to check my prostate and bladder by inserting camera or something in my penis and i refused...there is no way i would ever expose myself this way, its just to embarrassing. If it means it will shorten my life then so be it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted April 15, 2014 Report Share Posted April 15, 2014 I've grown to absolutely loathe nudity in a medical setting with female nurses or doctors. In the past couple years I've changed my doctor and offices and flat out refused to have simple procedures done because of the chance of being nude in front of nurses or other females. I don't know what the hell happens to the expectation of patient modesty or privacy when these ladies are in training or medical school.I had a physical last year with a doctor whom I'd never seen before. It turned out that she was downright gorgeous. She had the kind of looks nearly all guys would agree were amazing. With my new found confidence, I was really hoping to get naked in front of her (while realizing that such a desire in a medical setting was not particularly smart). But I just wanted her eyes and hands to be on me for a moment. Anyway, she didn't do any hernia or prostate exam, so I was "out of luck", heh. I think in a few years the latter will become routine. A few months prior, I had another attractive doctor who had to see my penis. I wasn't in the same horny frame of mind, but I was just glad that I wasn't even nervous to pull my pants down in front of her. Years ago, I would have been mortified. It so happened that I was, at the time, in a "regular" flaccid state, meaning, hanging kinda small but loose, but not totally retracted, as can happen under certain conditions. Now THAT would be a little embarrassing!I should add that I felt so confident because I have come to believe that small flaccid penises are pretty standard, so I don't consider myself unusual anymore, and also because I'm in decent shape for my age, which I believe is overall more important than the penis when women take us in visually. gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 15, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 15, 2014 I am shocked by some of what I have read; expected more from the medical profession. To me it is a symptom of a larger deterioration of decency in society. All any of us can do is our little part to improve the world. May God bless you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abiola Posted April 27, 2014 Report Share Posted April 27, 2014 My issue might be worse. I'm black and my dick is less than 6 inches long and is extremely skinny. I've had issues with it since I was a kid. I remember getting laughed at by WHITE boys in the changing room as a 7 or 8 year old. I've been insecure siiince. Mum took me to the doctor, but he promised that it would grow. It didn't at least not to my expectations. I need help. I'm tired. Girls always want a big dick, here in Nigeria. Girls never pay me a 2nd visit and so, when I really really like someone, I avoid having sex with her, so she won't run away from my small dick. I need help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted April 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted April 28, 2014 Wow that is sad Abiola, about the girls in your life. There is nothing any of us can do about size so we just have to make the best of it in whatever way we can find. When women put on make up or a bra no one ever says "Gee I wonder what she is compensating for?" But no one ever said life was fair. Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted May 25, 2014 Report Share Posted May 25, 2014 I say accept it with head held high, saying a firm but respectful "fuck you" to all who pity or mock. There will be women who fall in love with you, small penis and all, if you stay in the game, as it were, without apologizing or agonizing. I think mine is 3/4" longer than yours, and it is all I've ever needed. My GF treats me like a king. However I used to believe I had no right to fully participate in normal life...which sounds like your current state. Maybe I've just been lucky with the few sexual partners I've had, but it has made all the difference. gone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gone Posted May 25, 2014 Report Share Posted May 25, 2014 I had a physical last year with a doctor whom I'd never seen before. It turned out that she was downright gorgeous. She had the kind of looks nearly all guys would agree were amazing. With my new found confidence, I was really hoping to get naked in front of her (while realizing that such a desire in a medical setting was not particularly smart). But I just wanted her eyes and hands to be on me for a moment. Anyway, she didn't do any hernia or prostate exam, so I was "out of luck", heh. I think in a few years the latter will become routine. A few months prior, I had another attractive doctor who had to see my penis. I wasn't in the same horny frame of mind, but I was just glad that I wasn't even nervous to pull my pants down in front of her. Years ago, I would have been mortified. It so happened that I was, at the time, in a "regular" flaccid state, meaning, hanging kinda small but loose, but not totally retracted, as can happen under certain conditions. Now THAT would be a little embarrassing!I should add that I felt so confident because I have come to believe that small flaccid penises are pretty standard, so I don't consider myself unusual anymore, and also because I'm in decent shape for my age, which I believe is overall more important than the penis when women take us in visually.I keep myself in good shape too. I have to with the heart and diabetes problems. I tend to be a 'show-er' not a grower. I have a normal flaccid size, it just doesn't grow much.That being said I still don't like medical nudity. I'd much rather be walked in on by a stranger for a second or two than have to be naked in front of a female doctor or nurse. Medical nudity tends to be minutes long with a chance they'll have to touch or handle you vrs. just a quick glimpse when walked in on by accident. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gone Posted May 25, 2014 Report Share Posted May 25, 2014 I say accept it with head held high, saying a firm but respectful "fuck you" to all who pity or mock. There will be women who fall in love with you, small penis and all, if you stay in the game, as it were, without apologizing or agonizing. I think mine is 3/4" longer than yours, and it is all I've ever needed. My GF treats me like a king. However I used to believe I had no right to fully participate in normal life...which sounds like your current state. Maybe I've just been lucky with the few sexual partners I've had, but it has made all the difference.Small and I are the same length, he has a 1/2 on me in girth.I've always said if a guy can get past the expectation of sex on the first date, guys can have a great time casual dating different ladies. It's been my experience that women tend to be impressed or intrigued by a guy who doesn't just try to jump their bones immediately. I just celebrated my 27th wedding anniversary. I don't know, maybe ladies have changed that much over the years? I mean really, do females today just expect a 'gutter f**k' on the first date? Isn't there an expectation of some time spent together..wineing and dining before proceeding to the most intimate act two people can be involved in? Dunno... Small guys tend to forget....With your pants up, with your clothes on you're just as good as ANY other guy walking around out there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted May 25, 2014 Author Report Share Posted May 25, 2014 When did America & other Western countries become so vicious? So mean, course, cruel & unkind? I'm not just talking about SP here but across the board. Full grown adults who ought to know better act like juvenile delinquents including Senators, news anchors, lawyers, celebrities, etc. It wasn't always like this. Sure people always said & did outrageous things in private but not so publicly as present day. The late 1980s, it seems to me, was when the decline really become noticeable. Just as an aside, I am in a corporate training class and a woman was asked why she drives such a large SUV. Without hesitation she responded "because I like things big. Everything. Yes, including what you're thinking". She sits right next to me & we had been flirting. How nice it would have been to look at her & wink but instead I sat there hoping my face did not betray me. So it goes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gone Posted May 26, 2014 Report Share Posted May 26, 2014 My story is long and boring. Believe me, I'm not in a good place. I'm just trying to get from day to day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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u.r.what.u.is Posted May 26, 2014 Report Share Posted May 26, 2014 Agreed, the doctors office is no place for cheap thrills. I was thinking like a pig that day. Francis amas 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Francis amas Posted May 29, 2014 Report Share Posted May 29, 2014 Read the op can't help but feeling sad by it I saw a vlog talking about size and it got me down it was a girl saying all men under 5 inches erect were useless and those under 4.5 should come with a warning badge. She then said adverage 5-6 should be given a badge saying good in silver and big men a excellent in gold 6 Iches erect + . This talk by so many people just makes me feel sick. What's next eradicating men under 4.5 inches scary stuff. Look at this article by the daily mail just as bad to men like us http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2362197/Average-penis-size-study-reveals-SAME-results-previous-research.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
u.r.what.u.is Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 No, it was a typical "horny guy" way of thinking. I have experienced a complete transformation in the last year or two. After 40+ years of feeling ashamed of my penis, I now believe I am actually normal. It has been just an incredible gift. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Francis amas Posted June 1, 2014 Report Share Posted June 1, 2014 After reading this I Am worried for my son he is small like me under 4 inches. I honestly believe they will not let men under 4.5 inches to reproduce or even worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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