woteva Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 After reading about the importance of confidence and experience in overcoming SP/SPS I'm seriously contemplating paying a prostitute for regular sex. I'm hoping that gradually I'll develop the requisite skills and maybe become comfortable in the bedroom. Has anyone here made a similarly concerted effort (with a hooker) in the past? If so, how did it go (why did it fail?). If no one has tried it, why not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modestman Posted November 22, 2014 Report Share Posted November 22, 2014 I have no direct experience, but I'm guessing that "regular sex" with a prostitute could get expensive.Plus, a lot of prostitutes are deficient in hygiene and life skills.A local judge, speaking to a group of men arrested for soliciting a policewoman posing as a prostitute, said as follows:"If she has all her teeth, she's a cop." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Victimorthecrime Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 It's risky for disease and legal issues and very expensive but it can be a lot of fun. The best thing would be to find a woman that is not w an agency but just is a regular person looking for extra quick cash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modestman Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 Prostitutes use condoms. Public health authorities don't regard U.S. prostitutes as a major vector for STDs.If I were considering this, I'd be much more concerned about the criminal justice implications than possible disease. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 Prostitutes use condoms. Public health authorities don't regard U.S. prostitutes as a major vector for STDs.If I were considering this, I'd be much more concerned about the criminal justice implications than possible disease.Yeah but the mouth and fingers can also be entry points for infectious disease. Just sayin... Jessie 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jessie Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 I have considered using a 'pro' for the past 2 months,,,, I think Im gonna pass….. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 23, 2014 Report Share Posted November 23, 2014 I have considered using a 'pro' for the past 2 months,,,, I think Im gonna pass…..Don't pass, find a lass w a nice ass. YOLO. Small and Mardi Gras 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Victimorthecrime Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 Ahhh the 1st Kardashian principle, indeed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woteva Posted November 24, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 I live in a country where there are legal bordellos. The only thing that worries me is the STD risk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
retsuud Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 The chances of getting a std from a girl you meet in bar are better if you'd ask me. If you go to a legal brothel, I'd imagine the control on those diseases would be very high. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modestman Posted November 24, 2014 Report Share Posted November 24, 2014 Yeah but the mouth and fingers can also be entry points for infectious disease. Just sayin...True, but (absent open sores) orders of magnitude less likely.Interesting fact: under typical Western world conditions, if an HIV-positive man has unprotected penis-in-vagina sex, just once, with a woman of childbearing age, the chances of getting her pregnant are roughly 100 times the chances of her getting infected with HIV.Obviously if they KEEP having sex, the chances of transmitting HIV will accumulate to a larger number. And other STDs are more contagious than HIV.This doesn't apply in the much less healthy Third World, where sores from skin diseases and insect bites and such are commonplace, and EVERY kind of STD is more contagious. Resolute 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Resolute Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Lol they ignored my comment so I felt no need for it to be there any longer...who ignored it?don't be upset sed. i can take her for a spin if you want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 I frequent prostitutes, I doesn't help me feel better about my small penis in anyways. But its a relief as i can have sex with very hot women and do kinky shit i always wanted to do without having to worry about being criticized or just stressing...Its fun that's all, if you expect it to help you with social skills around women or to feel better about your penis seize you might be in for a surprise. ( I use Viagra for performance anxiety and to make sure i get my times worth)(if you are considering escorts make sure you do your research online, I would recommend a independent escort with good reviews) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modestman Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 (if you are considering escorts make sure you do your research online, I would recommend a independent escort with good reviews)Escort reviews? On Amazon.com or what? Resolute 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Resolute Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Escort reviews? On Amazon.com or what?toysrus.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Escort reviews? On Amazon.com or what?Best advise - Google it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wastedlife Posted November 25, 2014 Report Share Posted November 25, 2014 Escort reviews? On Amazon.com or what?there is tones of sites, in Canada ones I use are (sp411 and terb)I don't know anything about US but there must be lots of them.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
themike Posted November 26, 2014 Report Share Posted November 26, 2014 Well, I thougth the same.In my 22´s, An older friend persuaded me to lost my virginity with a prostitute. He said that with a prostitute all the issues about penis size or how to satisfy a girl during sex disappear.I´m 26, but for my history is better for me to write in present:I go to the particular prostitute. With nervous, thinking about is that i´m doing is correct or not, etc. The experience: only an erection about 3 minutes in total and the ejaculation in 5 minutes...with the prostitute asking me "What, are you finish?". Because the erection problems, one comdon falls in the woman vagina and I didn´t notice how many time I was having unprotected sex...and then becomes my hell.3 days later...fieber, red areas in my hands, pain in my back, white tongue. I read all the information in Internet, and that was the awful experience in my life. I was thinking about HIV, Hepatitis or a rare virus. The problem is that the blood test need time, so, I have to wait 3 months to have my first blood test, with 15 days to have the results...and my mental health was terrible. The diagnosis...Epstein-Barr Mononucleosis...I have no girlfriend so a totally normal virus that 90% of Earth population had was new for me. And in adults is a pain in the ass the EPstein primoinfection...and the doctor said to me, yeah, but in 6 months you need another test because HIV is a mononucleosis too...so I can´t confirm that you are safe with that. LOL.Finally, I had 5 sexual encounters with two prostitutes. And I think all my problems were in my mind, the lack of selfconfidence. Sex is a game, and the porn is really a disgusting thing in sexual life (the size is not real, not only with man, with girl too, the time with the erection it´s not real, normally they use viagra or others, and with a normal girl, no matters size, if you go direct to the penetration it´s imposible to pleasure, the first orgasm and in many times the only is with oral and finger stimulation)Sorry por the post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 Yes that's true, but it's still a waste of money.Agree about the money but I have to be honest if I could do over again I would have gone to more prostitutes when I was in my 20s. Some of my fondest memories are of those women disrobing and me getting on them like an animal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mardi Gras Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 Lol they ignored my comment so I felt no need for it to be there any longer...Honestly you gotta be careful about doing that. If you watch the "members online" footer you'll see that for every one or two of us that post here regularly there are quite a few unnamed visitors. There are a lot of people, more than the community here, that suffer from SPS. It's huge...umm....no pun. So be careful, just because nobody responded to it right away doesn't mean it wasn't a significant contribution to the conversation. Something you say may ring with somebody else without you knowing..... As far as I know this is the only SPS forum on the 'net and I place a great value of these exchanges, the interactions, the ideas and experiences we share. No-Homo...but guys I think we're pretty spectacular for what we're able to talk about with each other. We may not live to see it but we are the beginning of a social revolution. One day we'll be recognized.Well, I thougth the same.I´m 26, but for my history is better for me to write in present:I go to the particular prostitute. With nervous, thinking about is that i´m doing is correct or not, etc....and my mental health was terrible. The diagnosis...Epstein-Barr Mononucleosis...in 6 months you need another test because HIV is a mononucleosis too...so I can´t confirm that you are safe with that. LOL.Sorry por the post Brother, this is one of the best posts on this forum I've read in a long time. That's a great story, hilarious. I'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing with you at the HIV scare. LOL!Agree about the money but I have to be honest if I could do over again I would have gone to more prostitutes when I was in my 20s. Some of my fondest memories are of those women disrobing and me getting on them like an animal.You know I've never done it, never hired a prostitute. I want to, I go on backpage and look at the ads. I'm just too shy. I'd be the asshole that pays for an hour so I can spend the first 15 minutes talking trying to "get to know her" a little bit. I feel like I need to click emotionally at least a little bit to have sex. And what if she makes me laugh, fucks my brains out, then what? I'm gonna end up giving her all my money or try to ask her out on a date or something just gawdawful like that. I want to so bad but I'm a little scared of the outcome. heh heh heh...prostitutes make outcomes. huh huh huhBut really man, that does sound fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Anonymous2014 Posted December 2, 2014 Report Share Posted December 2, 2014 Guys pay for sex, directly or indirectly, so any guy who has ever said, "Well, I've never had to pay for it" could beproof that penis size and IQ are inversely proportional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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