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4+37.5%=5.5 so if my math is right a 4" one would have to grow by 37.5% to equal 5.5 inches. So there's that.

As far as studies I just don't trust them much period. Too many people don't understand that unless the study was replicated two or more times then it is highly questionable.

Jessie stated on other threads that the average is about 6.4" X 5" so that is good enough for me. I am definitely below that. But it is what it is and life is short and there are worse problems then that (try cancer) so anyone that is going to endlessly bum is making a foolish choice in my view.

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4+37.5%=5.5 so if my math is right a 4" one would have to grow by 37.5% to equal 5.5 inches. So there's that.

As far as studies I just don't trust them much period. Too many people don't understand that unless the study was replicated two or more times then it is highly questionable.

Jessie stated on other threads that the average is about 6.4" X 5" so that is good enough for me. I am definitely below that. But it is what it is and life is short and there are worse problems then that (try cancer) so anyone that is going to endlessly bum is making a foolish choice in my view.

6.4 x 5 bone pressed. which means 5.7 average non bone pressed. Im also below this numbers, but Im trying to be positive and see my problem from another point of view.

Anyway, I like your last sentence, Im trying to think like that . (its what it is, there are worse problems than this, lets try enjoy with what we have)

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But it is what it is and life is short and there are worse problems then that (try cancer) so anyone that is going to endlessly bum is making a foolish choice in my view.

i declare it open season on victim. i give everyone (specially klingsor) the green light. sorry victim, but you brought it on yourself. -_-

as for cancer, i'm sure many many people in the world dream of {and pray for (if they're religious)} cancer every night. to my knowledge, cancer doesn't take decades to kill.

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I am so sorry that you are this perpetually distraught Res. I wish you could see yourself the way the rest of us see you: sharp, witty, and capable. My advice to you would be to put that brain of yours to work and carve out of little niche of happiness. There are on line courses that are free. Maybe start there.

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I am so sorry that you are this perpetually distraught Res. I wish you could see yourself the way the rest of us see you: sharp, witty, and capable. My advice to you would be to put that brain of yours to work and carve out of little niche of happiness. There are on line courses that are free. Maybe start there.

even tho women and sex might not be the most important thing in the world, in keeping with the theme of this forum, i'll ask what my buddy klingsor, or a number of other guys, would ask: how many women get really wet and in "sex mode" because of wit or brains or.....? a really good looking guy with an iq of 23 would get all the chicks, while i keep accumulating degrees and "accomplishments".

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notbad - you are on the right track. There are soldiers that have had there faces blown off and they continue to fight on.

The life of a man is not the life of a woman. That seems to have been forgotten these days. No one smiles when we walk into the room. No one hangs on our every word or competes for our affection or picks us up at 8 for an all expenses paid night on the town. There are no well funded groups that lobby the government to see that our every need is met. No, the life of a man is the life of a warrior - facing death alone every day. Sorry if that offends anyone but that is how I feel, how I see the world.

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This is where I break with you and Skynight - this is true for the majority of working/middle class Western men, but there is a small percentage of men in this country who have it better than any woman could ever dream.

damn! that was pretty much what i was thinking. there are guys whom women chase and pay for their expenses etc.. of course none of them have their faces (or even a toenail) blown off lol.

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For sure what I am saying does not apply to the top of the heap of guys, rich men, celebrities, power brokers.

But as I listen to all these young college age guys expressing their dismay at life I think to myself that they were expecting the life of a woman! They grew up side by side w girls, doing the same things, being treated "equally", getting dosed w ADHD drugs to make them more "focused" ie feminine, and they expected this parity to continue into young adulthood w sex and support and open doors everywhere. No one bothered to tell them the truth.

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@Klingsor

Yeah I pretty much echo the thoughts you mentioned there about balls, ejaculation volume, stamina and overly large penises. I think what you're referring to is a vein and not artery, but I always thought the infamous semi of a big penis was down to too much erectile tissue and not enough blood. I really don't know and you seem to be better acquainted with the physiology of it all.

A few extra points though since like me, you've obviously thought about this some. I follow a Cuckold/hotwife couple's life on YouTube and they've posted their experiences over the years. The hotwife has talked a little on penis size and has long maintained that she generally prefers average to large or small. After a slightly painful experience with a big one her vagina grew accustomed to it so sex with this man became very pleasurable. So much in fact she discontinued seeing him since her husband's average penis was no longer adequate.

She has still maintained that average is better overall when it comes to practicality through oral, anal & vaginal sex. Where I can see extra girth exerting a higher psi on stretched vaginal tissue results in more pleasure, is extra length really functionally better? Most of the long penis porn videos I've seen usually never achieve full penetration hence losing the desirable meeting of hips/and thighs at the conclusion of every thrust. Is the tradeoff worth it? Similar problems are posed in oral sex too.

Could it be that for practical functionality an average size + 1SD is ideal and larger penises serve more as visually pleasing? The same woman said she prefers intercourse to last around 15-20 minutes and not at all longer. It seems like the trend in functional ideals are average plus some which obviously is still bad news to us. I'm just wondering how much better a significantly longer penis can possibly be? They aren't as good for oral or vaginal when compared to their counterparts.

Although a bigger girth is beneficial for vaginal sex it poses problems for oral. A thicker penis will rub against the edges of molars/premolars if sucked with any real suction. This can only be avoided with a loosely gripped mouth which is less pleasurable, not to mention uncomfortable for the person performing oral.

These are just my thoughts, by no means are they accurate. I'm sexually inexperienced and don't watch a whole lot of porn beyond my fair share. What are your thoughts on this?

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Okay, so it's the idea & symbolism of a big penis that provides the psychological stimulation our society has lost through the sexual liberation of women by numbing them to anything other than the tension and forethought of a huge member? All made possible by a feminised society that allows females to choose the males and not vice versa? You answered my question though, in that a big penis acts as a symbol or icon of a man's sexual reach and dominance rather than the physical sensation it was capable of providing.

One point of discussion here. You addressed this all from a very social perspective, up to but not including sexual intercourse itself. In your opinion, is there a moment of realisation that an average/above average is physically more satisfying than a large penis and in that moment, for that woman, does the functionality of the former surpass the mystique of the latter enough for her to prefer it sexually and psychologically? This addresses the issue from a personal/relationship perspective once the social bravado has been played out.

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I agree with all in your opinion.

But I want to say that it's not (fortunately) the 100%.

Ok, everypeople are looking for the best physical subject. It's about the jungle law: only the strongest survives and his genetic continues.

But we have also our human nature. I've seen what you say about people at university. And yes, it's a zoo...with orgies. All the topics about sex, dates, jokes, etc.

I don't know how to say it in a positive way. But sooner or later people know we are not dominants gods, nor perfect queens.

Yes, in the past my dream was to be an alpha male. But I want it no more, I only hope to find a true love despite this society norms.

I know people like that are the minor. But I can see some advances. Today, some are crítics with models because they are sickening the youngers in anorexia and bulimia.

Others are saying that a percentage of girls cannot take big penises. I've seen that on forums, pairs broken because a big penis 8"-9".

So, sadly you are telling the truth, but not for every human.

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This might sound a bit silly but please humour me. We have length and girth which make up volume. What about penis density? Are some penises fuller, heavier and more dense than others? Does this play a big factor in it's desirability? Like most people here I've seen my fair share of porn and there seems to be a substantial difference between the general size of a penis and it's fullness within such parameters and apparent density.

I would guess that a slightly smaller penis with a greater density and fullness is more desirable than it's counterpart? This was an absolutely useless post with no real point so just ignore it. Trying not to delete my entries here so I'll leave it up. haha.

oh man, not something else to worry about!!!!

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@Klingsor

Cool I pretty much agree with your last post. Obviously social desirability doesn't always coincide with sexual attractiveness on an individual level and once it's no longer relevant and they've had sex I think women generally revert back to a practical size provided like you've said they've tried a big penis too. If what you're saying is that certain characteristics such as wealth and physical attractiveness serve as agents of ongoing foreplay by placing a woman in a relatively submissive role then yeah I agree.

To me a big penis has always been symbolic of a man's ability to conquer others. The larger and longer his penis, the greater the depth of her vagina/body he can invade and dominate, and the more he's able to conquer the pride of his adversaries through nothing more than existing. Just as his erect reach is greater than others, this man will stop at nothing to get what he wants. All the symbolic foreplay one needs eh.

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a copied essay:

I've noticed a trend of celebrity women, as well as girls in real life, being a lot more open about their preference for large penises recently. Over the past year or so, the following celebrities have 'outed' themselves as size queens:

Ariana Grande - in her song "Hands On Me", this petite cutie assures us:

"I might be a little thing, but I like that long… yeah Don't let these eyes fool ya, I can take it, hold nothing back, give it to me"

Nicki Minaj - said on a radio interview, "A good boyfriend has to have nice lips and a big penis."

Kim Kardashian - When asked, "How big is too big?" responded "There's no such thing!"

Kelly Ripa - On her show, she made an extended sexual innuendo about the sizes of the iPhone 6 models, saying "I want the extra-large." When shown 5.5 inches on a measuring tape, she said, "Well that's underwhelming!" and when shown 10 inches, said "This is what I'm talking about!"

Mel B - on Howard Stern, said "I want a thick penis… who wants skinny and small? You want thick and big!"

Luisa Zissman — when asked in an interview if size is important, replied "Yeah. I think it is really."

Kenya Moore - the Real Housewife of Atlanta star said, "I must remain a lady at all times, and I do not kiss and tell, but what I can say if I do kiss something, it is not small… I try to find that out early on in the relationship, because I'm a size queen."

Jordan Carver - When asked what she looks for in a guy, the busty model responded, "I like BIG units!"

Amber Rose - When the model was asked if size matters, she laughed and said "Yes, it does." When asked what she thought about men with small penises, she responded, "I can’t imagine him having a tiny penis. That’s just not okay with me. It’s unacceptable."

Elizabeth Banks - On the Jimmy Kimmel show, said "It's better to have a bigger penis!"

Azalea Banks - when asked what five things she looks for in a guy, the rapper responded, "Smart, Tall, Clean, Responsible, Big dick."

So is this a trend? Are these celebrity 'size queens' reflecting a trend among young women to be unashamed about their size preferences? Will more young women feel encouraged to say they prefer a large size because their favorite celebrity did so? Has this already happened? How did the trend begin, and how does it end?

My own opinion is that being a 'size queen' has definitely been destigamtized in recent years, and that a lot of credit for this can be given to Rihanna, who in both her songs and in interviews has been unapologetic about her preference for large penises. Furthermore, I think it's going to reach critical mass with Ariana Grande, since Ariana is just about the hottest young singer right now, and is an icon for Millennial girls. The young, pretty, petite Grande explodes any remaining negative stereotypes about size queens, so I expect we'll see a lot more girls like Ariana these days unashamed to admit they like it big!

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Jessie, you are right. But I think that superficial girls like that are a danger.

Ariana Grande it's not a "D" product?

Nicki Mina... lol.

Kardashian...a woman who autoinjected fat in her butt.

Really, you are young. But be careful. You can see yourself with no wife, no money and a disgusting life with one of these women.

One more time. The perfect way of these products don't exist. Yeah, too many girls thinks like this...but later many of them don't give a fuck. Only the teenies.

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Every girl I know at my college talks about minimum requirements of the cock of her boyfriend.

It is like this is the girl's ultimate status improvement thing. She who's bf is 8 1/4 inches has bragging rights of the the poor girl who's bf is a mere 6 3/4".

There is no shame for 18 to 23 yo girls to openly discuss this even in mixed company.

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Every girl I know at my college talks about minimum requirements of the cock of her boyfriend.

It is like this is the girl's ultimate status improvement thing. She who's bf is 8 1/4 inches has bragging rights of the the poor girl who's bf is a mere 6 3/4".

There is no shame for 18 to 23 yo girls to openly discuss this even in mixed company.

Seems girls tend to exagerate more than guys in penis size, especially talking about their boyfriends . (because of that trend Jessie just posted above) .

Talking about celebs, I think this semi-stars are more likely to say those things. You don't see Angelina Jolie, Scarlett, or super models who are very beautiful/hot and really big celebs saying this things .

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@Klingsor

Well now I understand your point of view I certainly agree that a big penis acts as an ongoing symbol of dominance and superiority over relevant sexual partners and competition/peers respectively. I'm not sure how any reasonable person can deny that. Obviously I'm always interested in all the pieces of the puzzle to paint a comprehensive picture on sexual partner selection but IMO they're almost entirely exclusive to people that possess an average or above penis though, or other attributes we've already mentioned such as wealth, physical attractiveness and influence/authority. They all act essentially achieve the same effect that you mentioned above, which is an ongoing sort of sexual undertone/foreplay achieved through the portrayal of dominance.

Something else that's always bothered me which might hit home with you I don't know. I can't for the life of me understand why women are comfortable in boasting about their sex life to their peers/strangers/current partners. The act of sex itself is involves the unsolicited domination of their physical and mental beings by a stronger animal. I'm not a woman but I used to imagine they felt some degree of shame bordering humiliation after having a man ravish their bodies and pound away at their "womanhood" while they writhed, moaned and begged to be put in their places even more. Who boasts about taking pleasure from being thoroughly dominated? A master key might have bragging rights but a shitty lock? Seriously?

Maybe some women bash that only the biggest penis gets entry rights to reinstall an iota of self respect under the pretence that they could only be dominated by the best of them. This would explain the unflinching arrogance and bitchiness of the modern size queen or any woman that actively pursues a big penis. A big penis could go on to act as self validation for the woman too. We can see the extreme adverse of this in fundamental feminists who are so cock starved they serve to demonise the male member completely. What I'm getting at, is that women might also have their self worth tied up in their partner's penis size. This makes the whole situation worse for us folk.

Going back to the original point. I can't emphasise enough how much I agree with your sentiment that women react best to being placed in an ongoing paradigm of sexual dominance and submissiveness. I think if a man is able to do this to a woman he will conquer her very soul that will have her concerned friends guessing why she keeps returning to him with two black eyes whilst he lays passed out in a drunken haze inside his motor home.

Meanwhile us small fellers are delegated to a life of subordinance where we must consistently remind our partner why she allows her self respect to be squandered every night when she's penetrated by something resembling fish bait. She'll still never be happy and will probably hold us in contempt while crying to her therapist over the big dicked guy she should have forgiven after the fifth time he cheated with her sister. I see why you're mad.

In my opinion the only way to come to terms with a small penis (relationship-wise) is to accept the subordinate role of the insufficient boyfriend. Sort of like a parasite or a scavenger, feed off her weaknesses and hope you can convince her that in the age of the hipster, having a huge comic book collection really is as cool as a big penis and those fuckers belong in prison for their womanising ways along with the sectioning of their female fan club.

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all of this only supports my theory that existence is nothing more than a disease (an addiction of sorts), and people can do nothing but pursue their next fix*.

* that fix can be anything, such as sex, dominating (or being dominated), beating (or being beaten), achieving, learning, helping others (or being helped by others), using others (or being used by others), accumulating wealth, love, recognition, validation, respect (or humiliation), food, fountain of youth, etc....

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I agree I feel life is generally meaningless for the majority of people I see my own life that way anyway. That's why part of me doesn't really care about getting laid or having a girlfriend anymore none of it matters anyway and there's too much competition so I may as well take myself out of the "game" altogether besides I can't compete with more well hung men and I have no interest in "compensating" for lack of penis size. Why is giving up so taboo in society?

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I agree I feel life is generally meaningless for the majority of people I see my own life that way anyway. That's why part of me doesn't really care about getting laid or having a girlfriend anymore none of it matters anyway and there's too much competition so I may as well take myself out of the "game" altogether besides I can't compete with more well hung men and I have no interest in "compensating" for lack of penis size.

ya man, i know what you mean. all that effort for 0.000001% of the cake. it's just not worth it.

Why is giving up so taboo in society?

beats me. society sucks.

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