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  1. 2 points
    Daveuk

    Dear uncle Vic

    There you go enjoy lol
  2. 2 points
    Daveuk

    Junes nearly over

    24th Monday - went out for bit shopping 25th Tuesday - went out for a tea and more shopping 26th Wednesday - stayed in for a rest 27th Thursday - went out for bit more shopping and life healing choices at 7:30pm 28th Friday - 9:30am probation
  3. 2 points
    jazz

    Sad Birthday

    Sound advice from Uncle Vic 😎 Just thought you could invite them to K Pop or English karaoke, your favourites, make sure they know they will have to pay their share - everyone would probably enjoy that and who knows, they may get the message πŸ˜ƒ The thing about groups is that there is a group mentality - everyone ends up going along even if some of them secretly can't stand Vietnamese karaoke, just to fit in with the herd. You just drew the short straw because you really could not fully understand the language, Alvin. Upsettingly, it ruined your special day - don't let it ruin this special summer.
  4. 2 points
    Victimorthecrime

    Sad Birthday

    @Seo Alvin for what it's worth I would just take a break from these guys and invest energy in something productive. When they see you again they'll know that living well is the best revenge.
  5. 2 points
    Victimorthecrime

    Junes nearly over

    I can't imagine what 9 would look like
  6. 2 points
    jazz

    Junes nearly over

    Well, we are having a nice couple of days - June weather has been quite cool - I don't mind really, roses look lovely 🌹
  7. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Not so busy week

    Monday 15th - Humankind 9am - sign onto compass shortly be moving Tuesday 16th - Routestowork 11am and signed on 4:15pm Wednesday 17th - stayed in and rested Thursday 18th - Probation 9:30am Life healing choices 7:30pm Friday 19th - Routestowork 10:30am and shopping, gas and electric
  8. 1 point
    1st attempt - Potatoes were too tough 2nd attempt - Too creamy and onions didt mix well Possible 3rd attempt is needed
  9. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Dear uncle Vic

    Dear uncle Vic. That is all. Just wanted to make this thread alive again.
  10. 1 point
    GoingInsane

    Small Penis AND Gay?

    I don't have an answer but I do know that ending your life is not it. I m over 50 years old now and never give up searching. Even with my wife cheating on me and wondering if my 2 children are mine or not, I never give up. I did thought of it but I always believe there are better solution. There will be someone who will love me for who I m and not how big is my dick size or bank account! And if it mean I have to be gay/trans/bi/whatever to be happy, I will take it. Bro, in case you didn't know, I m asian and even if I have a big dick, all asian male have to live with the small dick stereotype from non-aisan and even from our own women! So your life cannot be worst than mine. Bro, don't give up, keep on fighting and keep on searching... Regards
  11. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Very busy week

    12th - Friday probation at 9:30am and Routetowork at 2:00pm 11th - Thursday life healing choices at 7:30Pm 10th - Wednesday humankind at 3:00Pm 9th - Tuesday went out for a bit of shopping 8th - Monday Shopping and tea at drop in centre
  12. 1 point
    GeomaHalfcolor

    I'm an anxious mess

    Hi, it's the first time I post here and I'm kinda scared but I got nothing to loose. Just for basic information, I have a social and general anxiety disorder. Yesterday, I was awoken by my phone. My boss was calling me to tell me that I was 45 minutes late. The thing is that I didn't even knew I was working that day. Like it wasn't an error on schedule or anything, I just didn't look well enough (god I'm so stupid). So I tell my boss about the situation and she ask me if I can work anyway and I said that I slept like 2 hours so I couldn't work (I was almost having a panic attack). So I don't remember what she said next but I had a panic attack right after I hung up. Now I feel like I'm the worst human being on the planet. I just wanna die in a hole. I feel like I'm a waste of oxygen. I've calmed down but I'm still really anxious (English is not my first language so don't juge me please).
  13. 1 point
    This is fascinating... I hope it helps a lot of people. Face-to-face support for those who feel life is no longer worth living: https://listeningplace.org.uk A movement against male suicide, the single biggest killer of men under 45 in the UK: https://www.thecalmzone.net/help/get-help/
  14. 1 point
    Seo Alvin

    Sad Birthday

    @Victimorthecrime I am in Vietnam, Ho Chi Minh City. My nationality is South Korean and Vietnamese.
  15. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Sad Birthday

    @Seo Alvin thanks for the kind word. Good luck w everything you are wisely pursuing. Keep us posted! What country are you in? If you care to share. I am in USA State of PA.
  16. 1 point
    Seo Alvin

    Sad Birthday

    @Victimorthecrime That's some top-tier advice right there. Thanks man! As soon as summer began I've turned down every single hangout request from those guys and started to work on my school stuffs like revision and summer work. I can't wait to reject them on helping their summer work at the last few days before school. They are procrastinators. I mentioned about them "needing" me. Yeah, the "need" is "lemme copy your hw" or "summarize this for me". Mamba Mentality: ON.
  17. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Dear uncle Vic

    I need my Fishing rod then
  18. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    July 1st - 5th

    A solid start to 3rd Quarter
  19. 1 point
    Daveuk

    July 1st - 5th

    1st Monday - Went to probation to phone someone at humankind then 2pm at council housing options 2nd Tuesday - signed on at 9:10am 3rd Wednesday - stayed in and rested 4th Thursday - probation at 9:30an and Life changing choices 5th Friday - got paid put only electric on and went to Saintsburys
  20. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Dear uncle Vic

    Trust me, we've seen worse 😳
  21. 1 point
    jazz

    Dear uncle Vic

    Dave, are you fishing for compliments? ☺️
  22. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Dear uncle Vic

    That is good advice. Wonder if this thread was a good idea ?
  23. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Dear uncle Vic

    First I'll answer seriously, then maybe later think of something comical. The best advice I could give anyone is look down the road. Don't be a prisoner of the moment because the moment is changing. Don't just see where things are, see where they are headed.
  24. 1 point
    jazz

    Dear uncle Vic

    Dear Uncle Vic, What is your favourite piece of life advice? I could do with some. 🎁 Thanks, Desperado.
  25. 1 point
    jazz

    Sad Birthday

    Oh yes, group dares...😝
  26. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Junes nearly over

    Actually that be big 1 0 which now is 11
  27. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Sad Birthday

    I'd like to hear more about that 😁 I recall one time as a boy a group of us entered an abandoned house, one that should have been condemned, and it was really dangerous in there and even the air was horrible to breath. There were holes in floor and a person could have fallen through to the basement. Also the ceiling was caving in and could have killed us.
  28. 1 point
    jazz

    Sad Birthday

    Things I've done as part of a group that I actually don't like but agreed to include - Ice Skating A hike in the pouring rain and cold More than one night in a club like a black cave with a sticky floor and music I didn't like Films that 'someone else' liked Groups can be fun but they can also be unbelievably annoying 😁 It's all a compromise half the time.
  29. 1 point
    jazz

    Sad Birthday

    I would like to read a 'Dear Uncle Vic' thread πŸ’¬ 😊
  30. 1 point
    jazz

    Junes nearly over

    9 ?
  31. 1 point
    jazz

    Sad Birthday

    Hello Alvin, sorry you didn't enjoy your birthday. There seems to be two parts to this - the actual day and the general behaviour of your friends. About the day/choice of Vietnamese karaoke, it's difficult because they arranged it and said they were paying - though it was your present and they should have tried to find something that you could have enjoyed a lot too - but you have learned from it, if they suggest sorting out a treat for you like that ever again say 'ok, thanks, can I choose where?' As to them being 'fake friends', I would say try and do new things and meet new people - so you are not reliant on this group, because a true friend, although they can be like gold dust, really would be there for you through the tough times. I think your upset is perfectly understandable - you don't need to see a psychiatrist IMO. Also a birthday cake would not have been unreasonable, I'm a big fan of birthday cakes with candles myself...πŸŽ‚ so here's a belated one for you!
  32. 1 point
    Daveuk

    Junes nearly over

    7 comments wow well 8 now
  33. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Junes nearly over

    Glad you are enjoying πŸ™‚ Heatwave city here. But that's why they call it summertime! β˜€οΈ
  34. 1 point
    jazz

    Junes nearly over

    Yeah, can't believe it's almost July - glad you are getting along ok, Dave.
  35. 1 point
    LaLa

    My Friend Tom

    That's so terrible and so very sad ... And... they laughed at SPS??? SPS should be a part of the standard curriculum for all medicine students - how come it is not?? (A naive question, I know ...) Thank you for sharing the truth with us. I wish all people working at A&Es learn about this and never let something like that happen again. How do you feel, YOTH, how are you coping? Take care.
  36. 1 point
    YOTH

    Dare I say it...Politics

    Positive or negative, don't care which. If someone talks about Trump, I mentally switch off.
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  38. 1 point
    X.x.x, I am sorry for your loss. You are grieving and this can be an immensely painful experience. There is also trauma around the loss because of the way your friend died. 😞 I can't begin to imagine how difficult it must be to lose a loved one this way. Try, if you can, to care for yourself through all of the feelings. It's okay to feel anything you feel, you are trying to process what happened. Please keep talking and sharing if you feel that is a need, write, cry, scream, reach out to friends.. Sending care to you.
  39. 1 point
    jazz

    5 years of spiraling insanity

    If you have no particular ties to where you are, do you think planning for a move to somewhere cooler and different would be a realistic option or not? I saw a clip on TV a while back where a sports star confronted unsuspecting internet trolls after inviting them to a fake press conference - of course they behaved completely differently in person and were highly embarrassed. The anonymity of the net leads to people behaving like jerks.
  40. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    5 years of spiraling insanity

    Hi Klingsor. Has anything happened or changed recently? I know you have experienced recent loss. It's hard to constantly adjust to the shifting terrain that events can bring to our lives, isn't it? πŸ™ That can make things feel muddled and confusing. We're listening if it helps to share more. Thinking of you.
  41. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    Ashamed and Embarrassed

    It's great to hear from you again, Eric. I wish I had some helpful advice that might ease your pain. I hope that there are aspects of life that you find enjoyable. Best wishes.
  42. 1 point
    the_anonymous_one

    Ashamed and Embarrassed

    great. i'll try harder.
  43. 1 point
    EricDavis222

    Ashamed and Embarrassed

    I know how bad it is. But can I give a bit of advice? Looking back, when I was younger, there actually were women who were interested in me, and I totally missed the signs. I always just thought they wanted to be just a friend and were just being friendly talking to me. I never even considered the thought they might like to know me more intimately. So, I just chatted with them, and never even thought about asking them to join me for a cup of coffee, or a drink, or a quick bite at the local diner or doughnut shop. Now that I'm much older, I don't have any prospects at all. So please, please, I beg you. If there's someone that likes to talk to you, even casually, and you know they are available, ask them to join you somewhere informally, like I mentioned above. An innocent little get together - no big production, no fancy dinner. It's not really a date. By getting your foot in the door like that, you might even surprise yourself and things might develop further. Please try. Don't be like me - 60 years old with sooooo much regret I beat myself up with it.
  44. 1 point
    Victimorthecrime

    Ashamed and Embarrassed

    Ever notice how no one ever even questions why porn is completely open and free to anyone, even children, on the internet? Whose decision was this and why is it never challenged? Especially in this day & age of hypersensitivity about nearly everything. To me it speaks to powerful people somewhere having an agenda but that's just my opinion.
  45. 1 point
    John's Know

    wife of husband with small penis

    How does " big burley guys, taller and heavy weight " correlate to having a big penis?
  46. 1 point
    TheDane

    Venting(GRAPHIC but not too much so)

    I have told you this. It's simple math. you go through enough women to find the one. I understand where you are coming from, but you have to throw yourself out there.
  47. 1 point
    FloridaDood898

    Rant

    Only issue I have with this forum is the aggressive/passive aggressive/sarcastic replies I sometimes get otherwise the people seem good but a few times I've put a comment in a thread or started one only to get some smarmy sarcastic dude shoot me down. This type of thing doesn't really do wonders for the community atmosphere. I really think this whole penis envy is out dated I mean I understand its a primal thing but truth of the matter is we generally don't get to see our friends dicks much (thankfully) to compete in that way and besides everyones full of s**t when it comes to their erect sizes. A guy could be small flaccid but be average/above average erect but numbskulls seem to think anyone with a flaccid smaller penis MUST have a smaller erect penis. It doesn't work like that for the most part I mean I am sure some do but the majoity who are "growers" are not still smaller than average erect but it doesn't matter anyway seeing as we've mostly moved on from this ape type behavior. Penis size? pfft. Hey its 2019!!! nows its about who's making the most money, driving the nicest car, has the best job, screws the most women. These things are something of the modern equivilent I feel.
  48. 1 point
    the_anonymous_one

    I owe a universal apology

    I'm really sorry about the way I have spoken. I am NOT a bad person. Lives matter and in the end we are all tied to one another. What hurts one person hurts all people. I will not hurt you nor will I hurt myself. Is this what the world has brought us to?
  49. 1 point
    John's Know

    In a bad state (Scared out of my mind)

    LOL yeah nice guys
  50. 1 point
    IrmaJean

    Ashamed and Embarrassed

    Hello, Eric. You mention being shy. Have you explored the potential reasons behind your shyness? I was very shy most of my life, but only recently have (mostly) worked through this. I discovered that I was projecting fear and so others saw me as unapproachable. Smiling, good posture and a confident demeanor often elicit more positive responses from others. Maybe give it a try?
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