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IrmaJean last won the day on January 14

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About IrmaJean

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    youngest of 4 children and the only girl. Married with 3 children


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    writing, psychology, baseball
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  1. IrmaJean

    Happy 2019

    Happy 2019! Best wishes.
  2. IrmaJean

    A poll or today

    I haven't seen any of those movies, but I know I would be skipping Halloween, lol. I saw the first Halloween many years ago- it was my first and last time watching a horror movie. Is Gotham a Batman movie? I prefer the movie theatre to watching films at home, but I rarely get out to see one. More often than not if I do, we go to see family films.
  3. IrmaJean

    No Question today

    Merry Christmas to you, Dave!
  4. IrmaJean

    I wish you well

    Best wishes this holiday season, @retr0john. It's good to hear from you. Peace. 🎄🎅
  5. IrmaJean

    My so called life

    Hi Small. Good to hear from you! Things have been very busy for me with work and family. We are looking for a new place to live with more land. I hope the holidays bring you some moments of peace. 🎄
  6. IrmaJean

    Christmas count down and new year count down

    No rule, no, lol. CF does carry a lot of gift cards! 🙂
  7. IrmaJean

    Christmas count down and new year count down

    Yeah, I need to get moving on shopping too! The month is flying by already. 🎄🎁
  8. IrmaJean

    Missing my therapist terribly

    Welcome to the community, curious. Some years ago, I also formed a strong attachment to my therapist. I struggled for some time when I left therapy. Looking back now, the experience was enlightening and ultimately healing. I learned a lot about myself and about my attachment style and how to cope through separation and loss. It sounds as though your therapist is keeping healthy professional boundaries within your relationship. That can be painful, especially if there is a desire to be closer to her, but it can be a learning experience as well, I think. You mentioned setting a goal regarding contact. I have done something similar over the years since I left therapy. My former therapist did not give me any limitations regarding contact, but I set them myself and have stuck to it for 10 years now. I understand your situation is different being that you are still in therapy. For me, I think it was good practice to set a boundary for myself. I would say you know best what is best for you with your therapy. During times of distress, does it help to carry something of your therapist that feels grounding? A business card or something similar? I hope you listen to your needs during and care for yourself. Take care, curious.
  9. IrmaJean

    My top 10 Christmas episodes and films

    Good list. I like some of the older classics, such as Going My Way and It's a Wonderful Life
  10. IrmaJean

    Take care ya'll

    I'm sorry life has been so painful for you, therebetruth. 😢 I hope you are able to find some hope and light.
  11. IrmaJean

    Not long now

    I enjoy the change of seasons. We have a fresh blanket of snow on the ground this morning. I also like the look of the land where there are cold winters. I prefer mountains and fields to a more tropical look. I hope everyone enjoys the holiday season, however they may celebrate it.🎄
  12. IrmaJean

    Theoretical suicide question

    I'm sorry that you're feeling so badly to consider this, if even theoretically.. It's okay to talk about feelings and it's okay to talk about potential suicidal feelings. However, it isn't appropriate to discuss specific plans or seek out information from other members to carry out such plans. I understand this may be a theoretical question, but I still have concerns. With that said, we are here to support you. Do you have any support at home, therebetruth? Would it help to express yourself more here?
  13. IrmaJean

    Let's do a new game

  14. IrmaJean

    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    Ohh, that sounds very stressful. I always drive as slowly as I need to to make it safely home...5 hours, yikes. That's awful. :-( I have heard NY got 6 inches last night. This is somewhat early for this kind of snowfall.. I hope your day off is restful.
  15. IrmaJean

    Ranting on about women

    I have never had such a conversation either; nor would I. I believe that when someone shares their vulnerability, this is something I would always want to respect and honor. I have shared my thoughts here many times over the years. My personal feelings about sex have little to do with the actual physical aspect and much more to do with the emotional connection. The act is a gift of sharing self with another. Physical intimacy would be about the gift of recognizing a person in this sense and the unfolding of that. My personal feelings, for whatever they are worth.. I have heard women make general type of rude jokes that I have found offensive. One time I told a co worker that they probably didn't realize how painful this could be for some men. Otherwise I would not associate with people who talked about others in this way.