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ThePetPerson

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  1. I'm desperately attracted to lots of people I shouldn't be, but it doesn't mean I would jump on them if I hung out with them. Attraction is attraction, there's nothing you can do about it. As long as you never act upon those thoughts, you're totally fine.
  2. @someone555 "if it's..my colour" actually crying with laughter :') made my day.
  3. I don't know what to write, what to say, I've said so much and yet nothing at all. The grief is overwhelming and I just keep screaming that I'm sorry and it just bounces back off the walls, you'll never hear me say it and I say it again and again. The more people learn about your death the more I have to come to accept the truth but I don't want to. I am not ready to say goodbye to you. I keep letting myself believe it's some sick joke but the reality is dogging my every move, a cloud hanging over my head. I feel sick to my stomach. You'll have been gone a week tomorrow. I can't let this be true. I don't know how to live now. I don't know. You would have been 21 this summer. Your 20th birthday, you could have spent it with anyone, but you chose me, and you took away my yellow hat to make sure I'd come back. But I was angry with you over something, something that seemed so intolerable in life yet so insignificant in death. You apologized and I never forgave you. I cared about you more than you knew and I just wish I'd have been there for you. You killed yourself thinking that I didn't care. Your death is eating me alive, it's tearing up my heart. Please come back.
  4. Yes, the answer is yes, you still deserve to forgive yourself. You care now, and that's what matters. I'm wondering what else is going on in your life right now, what may have lead you to dig this up? Don't let answering my questions hold you back from forgiveness though!
  5. I'm not going to lie to you, you did a bad thing, yes, and you should never do it again. But you did not cause psychological harm nor physical harm this girl will never know what happened, and she consented to foreplay. You shouldn't hold onto this, it doesn't make you a bad person, we all make mistakes, and much worse ones than this, a lapse in judgement. A mistake made in a half drunken state in a foreign country with is NOT worth ending your life over. It never will be. You are a good person, and the fact that you feel guilty over something I imagine a lot of people wouldn't bat an eyelid over shows that, you care. You have the chance to lead a fulfilling life, to make yourself and others happy. Sometimes we just need someone to tell us it's okay, and if it helps, I forgive you, I give you permission to forgive yourself, you are a good person who made a bad decision, but the only person who is suffering is you, and it's time to let go. Forgive yourself.
  6. I take this to mean you work in like, a store, and she came in and you served her? The thing is, she's a teacher, and though you were 'cool' with her, it doesn't mean you had the basis of a friendship. You will have only had a handful of teachers in your life, whereas she will have taught hundreds or even thousands of students. If she became 'friends' with every one of the students she was 'cool' with, she would be overrun. I like the guy at the corner shop I buy cigarettes from, it doesn't mean I want to be friends with him. The boundaries between ex students and teachers being friends are unclear and she is at risk of losing her job or even career if anything was dragged up or if anyone found out, whether you're in primary school or university, it's unprofessional and that's probably why she was so horrified. Quit emailing her and move on, you're just digging yourself a deeper hole. Accept the rejection, stop dwelling on it, you've got your whole life ahead of you.
  7. ThePetPerson

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    Good to see you back!
  8. I can relate to this big time. I can't remember the last time I watched the news or read a newspaper, I'm never quite sure whether it's anger or fear, but it makes me panic, it's all I can think about for hours.
  9. Because I don't know what I'm talking about. You take care too.
  10. I'm quite sure I'm losing my mind, but I'm not quite sure what I'm saying, or why I'm saying it...

  11. I love that you think you can hide behind your words, your eloquent way of speaking. You can't. I understood your statement, and possibly, because of my anger, my message wasn't particularly clear. You're willing to regard this woman as a pathological liar, because you find it difficult to believe that she has experienced all of these things, because you've never faced this much sexual harassment in your life. I'm not saying that as an attack on you, it's human nature, we can't comprehend how one person can suffer so much, so we don't believe it, it becomes a lie. Nor am I saying this woman isn't lying, because I personally can't imagine she has been sexually abused every day since the age of twelve, I think it's a typical feminist thing to say, how oppressed she is by men and so on. But that doesn't make her a liar. If I'm honest, it wasn't your comment in particular that enraged me, I took snippets from all comments which grew into a big ball of anger and yours happened to be about this woman being a liar because she claims she was raped. Come to really think about it, your opinion is yours, it doesn't effect me, and you weren't actually saying what I initially said you were saying. But, for the sake of this conversation, I still think you're wrong, and mostly because you assume you're right. We all assume we're right, but because you offended me, you're the ass. You're right, I'm a fucking idiot. And I think I'm losing my mind. But, I shall enjoy my blissful shackles of idiocy.
  12. Is there an actual delete button?
  13. "so she doesn't deserve the benefit of the doubt" We're just going to invalidate her opinions because she 'sounds' like a liar?
  14. Smalll, I don't care what you have to say about this article, how it made you feel, how it made your blood boil. You're going to call this woman a LIAR because she claimed she was raped and didn't react to it in the way you would expect? I still can't get my head around this. You've got no proof she's lied, that's just like me saying you are lying about having a small dick, maybe you don't want anyone hogging your 'pity me' spotlight. For everyone else on this thread, I'd just like to put it out there, that I think this woman is out of line, in an ideal world, no form of insult should be directed to any body part of any sex, and nobody should be propelling the opinion that it is acceptable.
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