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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in Everyone of my supposed "friends" forgot my birthday   
    Hi William. I can't imagine how tough it is for someone your age today with all the social media. When I was in high school it was still limited to Myspace and crappy, single-page HTML websites. But kids still had ways to make you feel like you were worthless or didn't matter. Apps like snapchat transform ignoring people into a form of bullying. Society is a jungle. You have to bray like a jackass or screech like a monkey to be heard. 
    It's not much consolation, but the people you consider friends now are not really your friends. They're just people who are in your life...sometimes directly, sometimes peripherally. In a few years, they will literally disappear and new people will enter your life. Maybe some will be your friends. Most won't. That's just life. I never had "real" friends. I'm not even sure such a thing exists. Human relationships are contractually determined through mutual self-interest. Therefore, if you desire "friendship", you must bring something to the table, so to speak. As a quiet person (and I speak from experience), very few individuals will exert the effort to include you in anything. Especially males. 
    I haven't celebrated my birthday in over 15 years. I get a text message or a couple of phone calls from family, but that's it. I haven't had a "cake" birthday since I was younger than you are. You have your entire life ahead of you though. I would highly recommend if you suffer from social anxiety (I do) to ask your parents to take you to a doctor and get some medication for it. Social anxiety can cripple you. If you don't suffer from it, then I would advise you to figure out the things you enjoy doing most, and focus your social life around that. Again - mutual self-interest will provide the basis for friendship, at least in my experience. Many guys your age are into sports. I never was, but that might be an option. 
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    Klingsor reacted to william noname in Everyone of my supposed "friends" forgot my birthday   
    its a while ago now.. my birthday is 9th of june. 
    im in 10th grade right now.. i thought i had friends... 
    no one. Absolutly no one apart from my mom and dad remebered my birthday.. no one in my school remebered anything.. My supposed friends didnt seem to remeber it.. 
    neither 8th or 9th grade.. ok? maybe they forgot... but they always remeber everyone else.. 
    i never say anything ever in school. 
    just stare into desk waiting togo home and stare at the roof for 1hour and play games for the rest of the day.. so i guess that could be a possible cause.. 
    this person in my class 10a, invited everyone execpt me and one other dude.. 
    i havent been invited to a birthday party whole 8th - 10th last time i was in was 7th beacause their mom probably forced them to invite the whole class or something.. even thought countless times ive seen birthday parties being sent in class snapchat group.. 
     
    i dont want to die. i just dont want to wake up anymore.. 
    i bet no one in my school would even notice if i didnt show up one day.. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in whining thread   
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    Klingsor reacted to jazz in whining thread   
    That is a very lovely pic, Klingsor  🌈
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    Klingsor got a reaction from jazz in "Hegemonic and Subordinated Masculinities..."   
    No @jazz, it distinguishes between two types of “subordinated” masculinities - a “dominant” type and “gigolo” type. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in "Hegemonic and Subordinated Masculinities..."   
    Extremely interesting essay, supports much of what is discussed on this forum. The modern phenomena of cuckoldry is rooted in this. It also demonstrates the true nature of the political theater current year...not "left versus right" but neo-liberalism versus populism (of whatever variety) - "hegemonic" masculinity being the flabby, materialistic bourgeoisie sentimentalism dominant since the 18th century, and the two subordinated masculinities encompassing the left/right popular, practical, carnal understandings of the relations between the sexes. Phallicism will be the new religion. 
    http://www.njas.helsinki.fi/pdf-files/vol18num4/groes-green.pdf
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in 5 years of spiraling insanity   
    The problem Beth is that I have no real life human contact outside of work. Therefore I spend an unhealthy amount of time on the internet. Internet culture is the worst of human nature on full display. Being hypersensitive, I can’t deal with it.
    It’s just another swing of the pendulum. If I can survive summer it’ll swing back and another year will pass and I’ll be one year older and staring at the same flat ocean in the same cramped boat complaint about the same things. Until the kraken finally catches up and eats me since I’m too lily livered to just jump as I e proven to myself.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from jazz in 5 years of spiraling insanity   
    Nothing makes sense to me. Every day is a waking neurotic nightmare.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in Is there an official picture of what is considered NORMAL erect for a fully grown man?   
    Explicit photos are not allowed on the forum...it’s only a matter of time before a moderator gets involved. But before it’s deleted, that’s an average/normal dick for “relationships”. It’s normal for a sexual beta. It’s normal for a “provider”. It’s normal for making babies. 
    It’s small for the hookup scene and casual sex encounters. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in Is there an official picture of what is considered NORMAL erect for a fully grown man?   
    Explicit photos are not allowed on the forum...it’s only a matter of time before a moderator gets involved. But before it’s deleted, that’s an average/normal dick for “relationships”. It’s normal for a sexual beta. It’s normal for a “provider”. It’s normal for making babies. 
    It’s small for the hookup scene and casual sex encounters. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in females views etc (Trigger Warning!)   
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in females views etc (Trigger Warning!)   
    Yes you are right. Completely. Money certainly does make all the difference in the world. It obviously gave this man a great sense of proportion.
    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6777961/Billionaire-diamond-trader-65-dies-penis-enlargement-surgery.html
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    Klingsor reacted to TheDane in females views etc (Trigger Warning!)   
    Two things.

    1.The statistics about the average being around 5.5 arent true.

    2.That big guy harem you are speaking about is today's society. where 20% of the(big penis) male population is having sex with 80% of the sexually active female population.
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in   
    triggered.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in   
    violent. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in   
    Vitriolic.
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    Klingsor reacted to Victimorthecrime in   
    "It's big enough to be on your mind" would be my response. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from IrmaJean in Planning. I'm not good at it.   
    It’s little joys like that I live for. Usually once a month I buy a large pizza on Friday night with breadsticks, salad full works and a dr. Pepper and then watch a movie. It’s a welcome indulgence 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in Planning. I'm not good at it.   
    It’s little joys like that I live for. Usually once a month I buy a large pizza on Friday night with breadsticks, salad full works and a dr. Pepper and then watch a movie. It’s a welcome indulgence 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from LaLa in Planning. I'm not good at it.   
    It’s little joys like that I live for. Usually once a month I buy a large pizza on Friday night with breadsticks, salad full works and a dr. Pepper and then watch a movie. It’s a welcome indulgence 
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    Klingsor reacted to Victimorthecrime in Planning. I'm not good at it.   
    One the way home from work yesterday I was so tired and in need of some boost that I stopped at the local bakery and bought a pig-out box!  Eclair, brownie, cream puff.  It was delicious 😋 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in The share of Americans not having sex has reached a record high   
    No but the awareness of it certainly has, which probably makes women more discriminating about it (gay men always were):
    https://www.cbsnews.com/news/marco-rubio-goes-after-donald-trumps-small-hands/
    https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2018/10/stormy-daniels-kimmel-sarah-paulson-trump-book-full-disclosure
    https://news.yahoo.com/andrew-yang-talks-identity-campaign-225414757.html (The “emasculation” he references is explicitly penis size, although - bizarrely for the huffington post -  the article is intentionally vague.)
    And it’s only going to get worse. 2020 promises to be the year of the penis in American politics. People who subscribe to left-right political dynamics always fail to take into account that the pendulum swings, much like the dicks with which everyone is obsessed. Which brings me back to what I’ve repeatedly said, sexual prowess and phallus obsession are the only things that bridge both ends of the political spectrum - it’s the one thing valued by both radical feminism and toxic masculinity. Read the typical comments in the radical sewers of the internets. Phallus worship will be the state religion. No hyperbole here. I thought of writing a long post about this in verse like Nostradamus but decided not too. I might write an e-book and try to make some shekels so I can afford to pay attractive young couples to produce sex shows for me in a luxurious atmosphere.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The share of Americans not having sex has reached a record high   
    We're also not considering the effects of the #MeToo thing. I personally know a couple of guys who refuse to be alone with women at work, and they are what I would consider desirable men, not beta males or the old slobs paraded in the media...so you can imagine that average and below average men are terrified of being accused of rape. And it's always rape when the guy is average or below.  The above average "chads" never get accused of this because everyone would know it's bullshit, particularly other women. Below average men like me used to simply be called "creeps". Now we're rapists because we aren't worthy enough in women's eyes to even approach them, therefore it's rape. 
    In addition, I was almost out of college by the time the first iPhone was introduced. Even then a guy still had to go to a bar or party or some other social gathering where women were to get laid (obviously I didn't, but that's another topic). I don't think older generations fully grasp the transformation that apps like Tinder have effected in the world of sex relations. Boys in middle school are sending dick pics to girls and hooking up by the time they're 13-14 years old. It's made dating for women nothing more than a vast meat market. Dudes advertise their goods and the women simply pick and choose what they want. One well endowed, good looking guy may fuck 50 girls in his geo-radius on the app. This is reality. It isn't some fantasy I've cooked up. This is "dating" in 2019. A young colleague (24-25 years old), when I was asking him out of curiosity about Tinder last year, showed me a "match" he'd made and some of the chat history. The girl flat out said when he asked her what she was looking for, "honestly, just great conversation and great sex". Verbatim that was her reply. Because it's a small company in a small town I heard through the grapevine that he's supposedly hung like a stallion. Go figure.
    Now, some guys will argue that women in general are not as sexual as men, that what they really want is a relationship, emotions, blah blah, and all the rest. I call absolute bullshit on this. In 32 years of living in this shitpool I've never seen one piece of evidence that supports this claim in the way that it's articulated. 
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