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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in So what is a small penis and why does it matter?   
    That's it, I mean that's SPS in a nutshell. I will never understand why it's so freaking hard to comprehend for some people.
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    Klingsor reacted to YOTH in So what is a small penis and why does it matter?   
    @Klingsor I listen to the Reservoir Dogs soundtrack all the time, and that scene is one of the tracks. "When she fucks this cat, it hurts". Such a great monologue. It's also got the Charles Bronson bank manager speech that Mr White tells Mr Orange on the stakeout. Love that fucking movie. 
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in So what is a small penis and why does it matter?   
    Another point worth considering along the same vein: the most extreme elements of right wing populism advocate for raping women, that women secretly desire to be raped and taken by "real men"....that this is what women want and are out of control because the aren't getting it vis-a-vis the "soy boys". So it stands to reason that from their perspective, the most alpha of alphas is the man capable of exerting maximum rape on the woman...what better way to demonstrate this than with a huge, gigantic dick - the instrument of the penetration. So size still matters. But anyone who isn't in complete self-denial never doubted this.
     
    The "Bernie Bro" culture has also come under fire for sexism and abuse of exactly the same variety as the "alt-right". This is a cultural trend that will not stop and is aiming at complete converge followed by the submergence of the old wealth-based commercialized, neo-liberal hegemony. There is no escaping it.
    It makes me wonder if someone like dvnj22 who absolutely detested women and would probably kill one if she suggested he become a cuckold, would be completely accepting of hung man asking to fuck his wife. I get that impression from a lot of men. They hate women to the degree that cuckoldry would be fine with them as long as the person suggesting it had a dick.
     
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in So what is a small penis and why does it matter?   
    However, I do agree with @YOTH ... I have no idea how a doctor could be clandestinely measuring this without getting his face caved in.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in So what is a small penis and why does it matter?   
    Stretched flaccid length does not statistically correlate with erect length, and the studies I've read make that clear. Mine gets bigger when it's rock hard (rarely achieve it) than I can actually stretch it soft. However, all of this is moot because it's the appearance that matters.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    I wish there was more space available for user media. 
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from jazz in The Man Cave   
    I wish there was more space available for user media. 
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from jazz in The Man Cave   
    I’ll say one last thing about this. Through a relative of mine, I grew up in a position to know several men of the “greatest generation”. These were men who grew up during the Depression and saw service in WW2. Because I was very mature for my age they tolerated me being around them and I enjoyed sitting and listening to their stories. In general, they tended to act differently than men of subsequent generations. At least in public they weren’t as boorish and just had more class regardless of social status. They always tucked their shirts in, combed their hair and presented themselves well groomed. They weren’t as selfish and most of them had a very low tolerance for BS. They also knew the difference between camaraderie and “brruuuhh” “bro” “let’s run a train on that bitch Braaahh” . They enjoyed sharing coffee and visiting with each other and then when it was over going back home to their wives and family. I never felt threatened or vulnerable around them and really enjoyed talking with them as I got older. Everything didn’t revolve around organized sports fanaticism...athletics were games for developing children and young boys not grownups. They had a way of stating things as a matter of fact that wasn’t meant to be taken as an insult. That was the masculinity I always tried to emulate but it just made me look strange and anachronistic. Just something I remembered.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    I’ll say one last thing about this. Through a relative of mine, I grew up in a position to know several men of the “greatest generation”. These were men who grew up during the Depression and saw service in WW2. Because I was very mature for my age they tolerated me being around them and I enjoyed sitting and listening to their stories. In general, they tended to act differently than men of subsequent generations. At least in public they weren’t as boorish and just had more class regardless of social status. They always tucked their shirts in, combed their hair and presented themselves well groomed. They weren’t as selfish and most of them had a very low tolerance for BS. They also knew the difference between camaraderie and “brruuuhh” “bro” “let’s run a train on that bitch Braaahh” . They enjoyed sharing coffee and visiting with each other and then when it was over going back home to their wives and family. I never felt threatened or vulnerable around them and really enjoyed talking with them as I got older. Everything didn’t revolve around organized sports fanaticism...athletics were games for developing children and young boys not grownups. They had a way of stating things as a matter of fact that wasn’t meant to be taken as an insult. That was the masculinity I always tried to emulate but it just made me look strange and anachronistic. Just something I remembered.
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    Klingsor reacted to uptight outasight in The Man Cave   
    Certainly, I think there has been a loss of moral fiber. 
    I'm old enough to remember when the generation you are referencing was stunned by the behavior of their kids starting in the 1960s.
    Even the roughnecks of their time were more likely to be restrained my moral sentiments.
    That was the last generation raised without TV.  They say constant mass media makes you think that other people are less moral than you are and thus you should loosen-up.  You'd be a fool not to.
    Without constant TV you tend to imagine others are more moral that you are which is a force for you to be moral as well.
     
     
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    Klingsor reacted to uptight outasight in The Man Cave   
    Interests me how people are focused on blaming the victim in this area.  They always compare our problems to worse ones.  Suffering war injuries takes the cake!  I hadn't heard that one.  Usually, it's being a minority, being a woman, being disabled, sick, an orphan, dirt poor, whatever.
    I'm convinced people, when they say these things about our situation, subconsciously know they are part of the problem, part of what I call the phallocracy that marginalizes the less masculine, the smaller of penis, etc.  People blame the victim when they are doing some of the victimizing.
    Like attitude is just will power?  No, it is constitutional, hormonal, etc.  The public acceptability of small penis humor tells the tale.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    Idk. This is all the ramblings from an impotent, ineffectual runt. I live in a limbo world...working class background, bullied and made a target because of a skinny body and stunted, deformed penis but never accepted into middle class college society either. Intelligence is utterly worthless. It means nothing outside of a lawyer's office. The only things that matter are physical endowment and street smarts and this becomes truer with each passing year. Beta male is just a synonym for weakness. Might makes right, always has always will, it's the nature of the universe nothing will gainsay it and people can argue with me until hell freezes over but men judge other men and size them up, penis size included and you will exist as an inferior male to serve the needs of superior males, and women are the benchmark by which that is determined. Biological determinism is the only truth. 
    Mog or be mogged is the only rule of the universe.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from uptight outasight in The Man Cave   
    Idk. This is all the ramblings from an impotent, ineffectual runt. I live in a limbo world...working class background, bullied and made a target because of a skinny body and stunted, deformed penis but never accepted into middle class college society either. Intelligence is utterly worthless. It means nothing outside of a lawyer's office. The only things that matter are physical endowment and street smarts and this becomes truer with each passing year. Beta male is just a synonym for weakness. Might makes right, always has always will, it's the nature of the universe nothing will gainsay it and people can argue with me until hell freezes over but men judge other men and size them up, penis size included and you will exist as an inferior male to serve the needs of superior males, and women are the benchmark by which that is determined. Biological determinism is the only truth. 
    Mog or be mogged is the only rule of the universe.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    @jazz I guess an alpha because he screwed at least two women on the clock in the short time I worked there. 
     
    I’m attempting to understand what being a man is really all about since I told my therapist to _____ himself. He got pissy like a common mortal when I shredded his arguments too, it doubly infuriated him since he was ex-military. How dare this skinny milksop runt question my superior advice?!?! I hope he sees this and exposes me so I can sue the clinic for millions of dollars. I thought I’d revisit my friend resolute’s man cave for insight into masculinity since I’m told a man is more than his penis.
     
    Apropos: if you walk into any public restroom...university, school, dorm, business, etc...why is it only the men’s toilet that contains penis graffiti? I don’t think you could find a single women’s toilet that contained penis graffiti. I’m told only vaginas and kweers care about such things, however. Are there that many homosexuals in the world? I’ve yet to use a public restroom where I did not see a large, erect penis scrawled somewhere complete with a hairy scrotum. Here’s another example of some homosexuals and their antics: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2017/nov/18/penis-in-the-sky-us-navy-pilots-grounded-over-obscene-drawing
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    When I was in high school these were very popular, although I must admit that I rarely see them now. Is this the result of a transference from the testicular aspect of men to the phallic aspect? Is it better to have big balls or a big dick? I've never received a satisfactory answer to that question. Both I would assume if it's possible.
    @Victimorthecrime you should *SRSLY* consider purchasing the largest pair of these you can find on the internet and hanging them proudly from your rear bumper - your dick will grow 1.375" (3.492cm for those of you who don't use Manly, Macho 'Murican Her Royal Majesty's Imperial Massive Sausage Units), your scrotal hairs will perm themselves, and you will need a hockey stick to keep the ladies up there off you.
    [WARNING: semi-obscene R3 facsimile of the human scrotum]
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Truck_nuts
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in The Man Cave   
    "Women are like a good tile floor...you lay 'em right the first time and they won't never give you no trouble."  **unscrew empty 12oz coke bottle and spit a big mouthful of skoal**
    ~ Working Class Hometown Hero™ married 20+ years with numerous affairs under his belt and extremely jealous wife. A real alpha.
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    Klingsor got a reaction from Lodz in Wife needing advice   
    @Sheepish
    Attempting to talk to any man except a gay man about this will lead to a hamster wheel of comedic deflection, denials, and bullshit. Men are intrinsically resistant to discussing or admitting anything that may give the perception of weakness or inferiority. This itself is not unrelated to the phallus issue. This is why I can post the article above in size 500 font and it will be ignored or denied. But everyone knows it. Some argue locker room/sports culture and banter its more of a Western, Anglo-American thing. Perhaps so. But phallic symbolism is universal. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in It's ok here, but not here?   
    It’s all in your head. You obviously misinterpreted something. 
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    Klingsor reacted to YOTH in It's ok here, but not here?   
    I recently went to Edinburgh for a Christmas holiday. In part because I love the city, but also because it was the last place I saw Tom alive and I didn't want his memory to prevent me from visiting. I wanted to remember him how he was then instead of the images that I'd conjured up about his death.
    All in all, the trip was lovely, everyone had a good time. And although it was freezing and we were all tired afterwards the weather held out enough to enjoy the city (which is amazing at Christmas) without having to hide from the rain etc.
    I decided to book the dungeons for me and my kid as it'd been the one place I'd never visited. I thought it was an actual dungeon experience, I mean it's an unbelievably old city with an amazing history, but these dungeons were made of plastic and full of amateur actors getting in your face and shouting right in your ear. I fucking hated it, but luckily avoided being singled out.
    Eventually we get to the torture chamber and some over acting woman starts to show everyone the torture methods. She picked a guy from the audience at random and had him sit in the torture seat. She then proceeds to pull out the penis chopper, everyone is laughing and the guy is visibly uncomfortable. Then she pulls out a tiny version of the device and says "this is more your size". He shifts about embarrassed as she says "count the inches with me". She shouts 'ONE' and closes it shut shouting "HE'S DONE!" Everyone laughs hysterically, except him. He looked mortified.
    I'd be lying if I said I wasn't grateful that it wasn't me, because I was. 
    There was no shaming of the women, it was just implied that one woman was a drunk, but in a very jovial 'obviously a joke' way. And now that guys face is etched in my brain as I could instantly tell that it effected him. Tom didn't go to the dungeons as far as I can remember, but if he had, it'd have taken months for him to recover from something like that. But seriously, imagine taking out a breast clamp and making a size comment, or talking about her vagina, there'd be fucking uproar. But it's just 'a laugh' if it's a man. 
    My actual opinion of comedy is that everything can and must be joked about. No point enjoying the show or a movie until a joke feels personal then complaining, just let it pass. And I don't have an issue with penis size jokes, comedy is either for everyone and everything or it dies. But what I don't like is this bullshit where its ok here, but over here it's offensive and degrading. Don't we deserve the same safeguards when we're out and about? It's inappropriate to allow kids inside and then make penis size jokes anyway, it could be seriously damaging, especially if they're teenagers who already have the seeds of an issue. 
    Stand up is one thing, but in a family show where only men are singled out for a joke about their dick size is fucked up, and it's only getting worse. Can't make a gay joke, can't make a joke about race, can't mention a woman's bits, but men on a whole and their dicks, that's fair game. Well fuck that. It's either all ok or none of it is. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in Wife needing advice   
    Anything you say will just be another reinforcement that he's small. The problem is within himself, his own body. There is nothing you can say that will change the way he feels. If you dig deep into these threads you will realize that many of us have issues using public toilets, touching ourselves, or even looking at ourselves in the mirror. Some, including myself, even suffer from a phantom limb type sensation that makes us sensibly feel small when we're just walking around, like more should "be there" but isn't. I can barely stand to touch my dick. Many of us also have pathological anxiety regarding our "bulge" in public. 
    I can tell you that when I was in a relationship with girls, it made me feel worse. Opening up about this issue with them just made me even more miserable because it felt like she was being forced to convince herself that I was worth the effort. So even when she was trying to be nice and helpful it just made me feel worse. 
    Example: when we would have sex (if you can call it that), I could not bear to look at my dick near her body because it looked so pathetically small. If I did, I immediately went soft and couldn't perform. The thought that goes through his head is this, "God, I look so pathetic. There's no way she's enjoying this. There are probably 20 guys within a one block radius that would make 2 or 3 of my dick." And so at that point it's self-defeating. And of course the girl immediately gets pissed and furious because she thinks it's all about her...she's ugly, guy isn't turned on, etc. But then if he is honest and opens up about it, she researches sex with guys with small dicks and then tries to contort herself into all these crazy, ridiculous positions to accommodate him, at which point the same thought goes through the guy's mind: "If I were normal/bigger, she wouldn't have to do this. She could lay there normally and I could please her like normal men." So anything you do to try to help will only highlight the fact that he's small. 
    It's kind of like when someone who's handicapped gets annoyed when people with good intentions go out of their way to be helpful or considerate in a way they would not normally do for anyone else and end up being patronizing; all it does is make the handicapped person feel inferior, disabled, and small. Anyone who is disadvantaged in some way will understand this.
    There is literally nothing you can do to help him; it is entirely dependent on his own coping strategy and mental health. If he is as obsessive, insecure about it as I am and many others who have visited this forum, there is nothing you can do. It won't matter if he gives you a dozen genuine orgasms in one session, he will still obsess over whether a bigger one could do the job better, quicker, easier. Nor does this do anything for the insecurity that is inherent to simply possessing a small dick, which refers back to what my previous posts were trying to convey and is entirely separate from your relationship with him. These feelings would subsist even if you were were never a part of his life. This is why I suggested separation; if you think your situation is different then by all means do what you think is right. 
    As a side note, I've always thought the movie "Raging Bull" was really a veiled allegory for the life of a small dicked man. LaMotta is a champion boxer, something that would be respected by other men, yet he is driven insane by jealousy and insecurity regarding his wife. It's a very "real" representation of how the insecurity is all-consuming and the inability of many men to admit they are insecure or lacking confidence in their sexual abilities. There is even one point where his wife screams at him that his brother "has a bigger cock than you" after they've had a fight. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in Wife needing advice   
    @Sheepish
    This article will explain how SPS operates: 
    https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/penis-size-does-matter-in-the-locker-room-at-least-9202855.html
    Are you going to suggest that all these professional athletes are "gay"? The overwhelming majority of men would rather swallow bleach than ever admit this to anyone, but men crotch check and look at one another's equipment. A man's identity is wholly vested in his penis. It becomes the primary dominance trait in establishing a pecking order. Bigger is better. It is the symbol of male potency and vitality. 
    Women struggle to understand this because they fail to understand that this problem centers around other males. I personally know at least 2 members of this forum who have had sexually successful relationships with women - the women were satisfied, content, in love - yet who still are eaten alive by this insecurity. Other posts made by transient members also reflect this reality. How can this be if it is not a problem among MEN? 
    It also must be remembered that the majority of porn is generally claimed to be produced for men. If this is indeed true, then why is there so much "big cock"..."massive cock"...."huge cock" type tags, if this isn't something that men find arousing on some level? Are all of these men gay? 
    Even everyday language reflects the common perception of a man's penis as his "tool" or his "equipment". It's no different than two boys on the playground seeing who has the bigger toy. It seems nearly impossible to make women understand this. Men are competitive by nature. Only MGTOW cultists and other kumbaya nutjobs deny it. Homosexual relationships are defined on this principle...dick size is the only currency in the gay hookup world because it's basically the symbol of male potency which most gay men feel they lack in some way. 
    Just because your husband sent some pics online doesn't mean he's gay and wants to be in a relationship with another man. You have to realize that he feels insecure, ineffectual, and trouble identifying as a man. Because everything in our culture is phallo-centric. Everything. The pressure on men to conform to this ideal is overwhelming. 
    Speaking from experience, if this episode is going to remain on your mind, if you're constantly going to be asking yourself if he's gay/not gay, the two of you should consider splitting up. He will never get rid of this insecurity, and I have yet to find a woman who understands this problem deep enough to be able to live with it for extended periods of time. 
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    Klingsor reacted to Small in My so called life   
    Merry Christmas my dear friend. 
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    Klingsor got a reaction from TheDane in Ladies man with small cock   
    Pointless.
     
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    Klingsor got a reaction from YOTH in Ladies man with small cock   
    Pointless.
     
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    Klingsor reacted to Nimmo in Ladies man with small cock   
    Fuck you then KlingBro. You're not exempt from basic human courtesy just because you've got problems and you've made a lot of posts.
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