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YOTH

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  1. YOTH

    Found this on the internet

    Do not be afraid to joke about this topic. You just cannot do without self-irony. If it has happened that your weight is not your strong point, then at least, be able to make the most of it. Of course, you should not perform stand-up comedy in front of all the guys you’ve just met and tell them how cruel nature can be, but you should learn to laugh and joke about being fat Respect what you have. How will someone love you if you don’t like yourself? Insecurity is much worse than being overweight. So, first of all, learn to behave naturally at the moment when everything comes to being overweight. Your problem is not exceptional. Many women are fat, but they happily live with it. Do you know why? They do not know that they're fat. For these girls, being fat is normal, and they are immensely proud of it. Moreover, their men are also satisfied with everything. They just do not perceive this as a problem, and men have a normal attitude to this state of affairs. Experiment. Many girls who are concerned about the being overweight, use different toys with their partners. There are also many sex positions for a fat woman, so just try to choose something for yourself. There is always a way out, the main thing is to start looking for it. Don’t fall for the tricks of fraudsters. When people are desperate, they are ready to do anything to cope with their problem, even to seek help from fraudsters. Various pills, which are supposedly capable of dropping dress sizes, and vacuum devices are deceptive. Do not dance to the tune of scammers and do not spend money on such nonsense. Solve problems that are in your head. Nowadays, medicine offers some options, which will decrease your weight; however, it is about some kind of surgery, so this procedure is quite painful, and you should think twice whether you're so fat that it interferes with normal living. Maybe, the problem is not in pounds, but in your head. Think about it. Fat has its advantages. If you have a fat body, you can still have an ace in the hole. Firstly, you may not have problems with sex since men will pretty much fuck anyone. Secondly, the guys note that it is much more convenient to engage in oral sex with a fat woman. So, everything is not as bad as you think. If someone tries to joke, tell them where to get off. If you are offended and blush because of it, you will never be able to accept yourself. A sense of humor, self-irony and the ability to tell someone where to go, how to get there and how long they should stay are the guarantees of a happy life. The size does not matter. Unless it bothers you. So take my wishy washy advice with a pinch of salt. But not too much salt, that's bad for you.
  2. YOTH

    Found this on the internet

    This is hell, obsolete. And I don't think anyone is too far gone, its not about wanting happiness, you just have to not want the pain. The rest falls into place.
  3. YOTH

    Having children.

    I can confirm from having 2 boys, it doesn't really work like that, but it's still a realistic concern and it was the first thing I checked on both of em. Anyone who's suffered from SPS wouldn't wish it on their worst enemy, let alone the people they love the most. And although I don't seem to have passed anything on, it's only natural to be concerned. My dad isn't small and he had me so I'd say that it's a gamble regardless of the father's size. The penis size fruit machine.
  4. There's an Asian guy on YouTube who does that. Or at least he has a small one and works out a lot. I think it might be one possible coping mechanism that is positive rather than negative. At least you're feeling fit and healthy. I hope you get back on the horse and go find a new girl who isn't so shallow. Don't let this become an issue if you can help it, women are only human and they say stupid shit, don't take this as a personal verification that you're small, plenty of women cheat like this with any size guy. I hope you come back stronger and more in tune with yourself. You saw what you needed to see to get out of a wasted relationship, that's a good thing. Sets you up well for the next.
  5. YOTH

    Adolescent horror stories

    @GoldenBoyX Please, no more 😂. I've lived through every last one or similar. It's pieces of shit painted different colours, your memory is way too good for more. Just kidding, do more if you want. I'd be very interested in the progression to present day.
  6. YOTH

    Adolescent horror stories

    You have a bear trap mind. I think if I had a memory like that I'd be insane. Great writing though, that was a lot. What's the story behind getting with your girlfriend? It'd be nice to have a counter balance.
  7. That's interesting as well. Your brother is the same size and doesn't suffer from SPS. Which kind of proves what I've long suspected. SPS needs a new name, because the condition isn't necessarily about size, it's about our mental health regarding our size. It should be called Fallic Psychosis or Fallicosis. If that was to become a recognised medical condition like anorexia and not just labeled body dysmorphia or "I've seen smaller" as the doctors call it at the moment, we might actually see treatment and Fallicosis specific therapy. Tom cried out for treatment on multiple occasions and was treated with the all too common "motion in the ocean, a kick up the arse and pushed out the door to make way for pensioners" therapy. People who suffer from this should be able to get referred to medical professionals who deal in penis related mental health specifically. It boggles my mind that no mental health professional has ever pursued this as a career.
  8. @lifelongvirgin I think you're right. And although some women say shit to be cruel, most women who do it are just ignorant and don't realise how much a comment like that seers into your brain. You never forget.
  9. Yeh, so I was right. They agreed to look, that's consent, who gives a shit? That's what I assumed you were doing. Not flashing in any way if they say ok.
  10. Note, that I did say in an earlier post "As long as you're asking if they want to see it before you show them and not just whipping it out impromtu." Which is pretty important. If there isn't consent or agreement from the person you're showing, then it's pretty fucked. I assumed that he's asking these friends beforehand and they're agreeing out of curiosity, morbid or otherwise. This is not acceptable if they're being unwittingly flashed at. We're in a #MeToo frenzy atm, don't get yourself in trouble. Again, I thought this was a mutual thing.
  11. YOTH

    Penis Size Measurments

    @lifelongvirgin I don't think it'll be a cure all, but it could be a step in the right direction. Maybe see how you feel after unburdening yourself, it may be just what you needed. Hopefully with it being a therapist rather just a doctor they won't give you the motion in the ocean speil, but if they do, walk out and find someone else. I still think you should put yourself first in this case tho, you're just as worthy of anyone else.
  12. @GoldenBoyX Been there and done that unfortunately. But what jojo is doing is different, he's doing the George Costanza Opposite. Showing your dick to anyone is terrifying, he's getting a rush from it. If that isn't hacking the system I don't know what is. If he can shed the guilt and the shame he could be on to a winner. I think this is what nudists call 'The shedding of the skin'. It's weird and difficult at first and then once you're used to being naked it's as natural as being a baby running around in the nip. I don't know, if it's harmful then that's one thing, but this is empowering shit in my eyes. Not for everyone, but still balsy.
  13. @jojojojo It's interesting that you're feeling compelled to do this. I know it must feel terrible afterwards, but is it possible that you're taking some power back, some control? By forcing people to see exactly how you look, you're removing any doubt and in turn this is getting you off? It might be the first time you've had any power over the people who would usually have it over you, and it's a turn on? I'd love to know what your logic is beforehand and whether or not it's changing how you see yourself. This seems like a somewhat unique approach, and if it wasn't for how guilty you're feeling I'd say it was great. As long as you're asking if they want to see it before you show them and not just whipping it out impromptu, I'd say it's worth looking at without the shame to see what you really want from doing it.
  14. @lifelongvirgin Fair enough. The offer still stands if you wanna chat over WhatsApp or something. But I hope you do speak to someone, I think you deserve somebody to listen to you, there nobody is more worthy than you are, we all deserve to have that option.
  15. YOTH

    Penis Size Measurments

    @lifelongvirgin Your mental well being is just as if not more important than some people who reach out for help. You wouldn't be wasting anyone's time.
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