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  1. It might be worth going into anorexia forums and telling them to think about us. Or is that stupid idea?
  2. @FloridaDood898 There is no chill pill. All of the men who come here suffer from phallic psychosis. It should be treated the same as every other form of psychosis. You wouldn't tell an anorexic to "take a chill pill and eat" because you know that it wouldn't work, so do the doctors who have been studying anorexia for years. Our condition has been ignored by mainstream psychologists and might as well be a stubbed toe when speaking to GP's and doctors. Motion in the ocean is their favourite prescription. I beat this condition for the most part through mind training and obsessively watching my thoughts instead of obsessing over my insecurities, but it took me years. I'm also still overcoming it on a day to day basis. I'm assuming you are too because why are you in here to begin with? I've seen it eat men from the inside out and watched as they slowly lose their sanity and take their own and others lives. It's not only different to other conditions, it's extremely unique. The torture of men over size is widely considered acceptable in every crevice of life. Work, home, social media. You can't escape. This isn't something that will be undone with one cheerleading pep rally comment, it runs deeper than anything else in our culture as it's built into to our very evolution and survival. But we're not apes in the trees, we've evolved enough to recognise that this treatment of men is unacceptable. I know myself that it doesn't have to be this way, but that means nothing to people in the storm, this needs to be treated by specifically trained psychologists, not some shitty magazine agony aunt. It isn't even about acceptance, at its core it's about compassion. To not torture another human being for something completely out of their control. But the reality is that we continue to be treated like plague victims and that won't change any time soon. I have faith in Klingsor. No matter what he does in life, no matter what he chooses to do, where he chooses to work and live. I have faith in him. But he's gonna do and feel and think about things that I can't change, I have no control, I can only be there as a pal without the judgement. But I have my own reasons as well. I need people in my life who understand what I go through, someone I can talk to without them making a comment that makes me want to ground to swallow me up. I'm grateful for that. This place is a mausoleum for the thoughts, worries and tribulations of the first man who ever suffered from this condition. But he had nobody. We have eachother. Don't give up, don't suffer alone, reach out. People can reach out to me whenever they want. To me size is irrelevant, the physical form isn't what matters, it's the content I care about. The person behind the defences, the annoyed, tired, angry, vicious lunatic that this condition turned us towards. So we can get past it and find the normal people we really are behind the desperate posts and faceless rants. I'm not having a go Florida Dood. It's just not as straight forward as you think it is. And even if in truth it is that straight forward, the reversal of this thought system definitely isn't.
  3. She doesn't need a heads up, he's an average size. The only benefit to telling her that he had some size issues is for his own peace of mind. It's not like she's about to endure something terrible and has to be given time to prepare, (because the poor woman deserves that much at least, right? 🙄). I've never heard even one girl tell me "oh, by the way, my pussy stinks and tastes like battery acid" and yet I've had to endure that nightmare more than once, and I didn't come out and tell everyone either.
  4. Suicide isn't a rational solution in most circumstances, but it doesn't stop men doing it at an alarming rate. Depression, anxiety and general mental breakdowns can lead to suicide. SPS is no exception. If anything, it's a hotbed. A lot of us in here have lost someone to SPS related suicide, it's no different or less important than any other mental illness.
  5. You'll be alright, mate. Just treat the whole thing as if it's a no strings fling. If it progresses into something else, even better. If not, try again.
  6. It's a bizarre concept to even have to justify why you're single. But I can tell you from experience (unfortunately) that it doesn't matter if you're married with kids or single, people are just fucked in the head. If you show weakness, anyone weaker will pounce to make themselves feel stronger. You end up being a complete lie in work, half speculation, half absolute fabrication and you just have to navigate it. If I looked normal, you wouldn't know me from Adam. If I was my old self, you wouldn't want to know me from Adam. But when you're just trying to get your head down and you have anxiety/social issues, you ping the radar hard. Two choices, be a cunt or don't work. Not all work places are like that, but most are, even the ones that tout themselves as the opposite. In the words of Chopper Read "It's human bloody nature". Men are being villainised in society atm, so what would be considered sexual harassment if the roles were reversed isn't considered anything at all. And most guys are too proud to complain for fear of drawing more attention to themselves. I can't give any advice with workplace nightmares because I don't work. I can't imagine what it'd be like working daily without options, it'd be rough. But we have to stay strong for eachother and for ourselves. We matter, despite what we or others might think. All sounds wishy washy af, but it's true. If you're struggling, reach out. I'm speaking to a whole bunch of guys from here privately on WhatsApp, let me know of you wanna do that. No pressure, just someone to talk to in person who's going through the same shit and won't judge or ridicule. It's helped me a lot.
  7. I know I have no right to be upset, it's your path, not mine. But we're friends, Kling. There's hope for you, we're the same size for Christ's sake. Please don't give up. But if you do, I get it and I'm not pissed off. It's just more fucking bullshit. I can't sleep, I'm thinking about you, then Tom, then you again. It's not your fault I feel that way, but it hurts anyway. Tell me what I can do and I'll do it. Come here and live with us, I'll put you up in the spare room for as long as you need (genuine offer, couldn't be more serious). Start a new life in the UK. Change your focus to something, anything until the cloud has passed. After that, if you're still wanting out, I'll kill you myself lol. Message me, mate. Or at least message someone.
  8. Sometimes you have to leave behind life long friends to gain life long sanity. Not that it's easier anywhere else, eventually somebody would pick up on something and it'd all start again. But I did this exact thing with my old friends, it was them or me. I chose the latter.
  9. It's breaks my heart, man. Whatever you choose to do, just know, a whole community of people out there care about you 💙
  10. That makes me sad. Let us know if you're ok. I really hope you're ok
  11. Russell Brand is pretty small flaccid. One of the few confirmed small successful celebrities.
  12. Do not be afraid to joke about this topic. You just cannot do without self-irony. If it has happened that your weight is not your strong point, then at least, be able to make the most of it. Of course, you should not perform stand-up comedy in front of all the guys you’ve just met and tell them how cruel nature can be, but you should learn to laugh and joke about being fat Respect what you have. How will someone love you if you don’t like yourself? Insecurity is much worse than being overweight. So, first of all, learn to behave naturally at the moment when everything comes to being overweight. Your problem is not exceptional. Many women are fat, but they happily live with it. Do you know why? They do not know that they're fat. For these girls, being fat is normal, and they are immensely proud of it. Moreover, their men are also satisfied with everything. They just do not perceive this as a problem, and men have a normal attitude to this state of affairs. Experiment. Many girls who are concerned about the being overweight, use different toys with their partners. There are also many sex positions for a fat woman, so just try to choose something for yourself. There is always a way out, the main thing is to start looking for it. Don’t fall for the tricks of fraudsters. When people are desperate, they are ready to do anything to cope with their problem, even to seek help from fraudsters. Various pills, which are supposedly capable of dropping dress sizes, and vacuum devices are deceptive. Do not dance to the tune of scammers and do not spend money on such nonsense. Solve problems that are in your head. Nowadays, medicine offers some options, which will decrease your weight; however, it is about some kind of surgery, so this procedure is quite painful, and you should think twice whether you're so fat that it interferes with normal living. Maybe, the problem is not in pounds, but in your head. Think about it. Fat has its advantages. If you have a fat body, you can still have an ace in the hole. Firstly, you may not have problems with sex since men will pretty much fuck anyone. Secondly, the guys note that it is much more convenient to engage in oral sex with a fat woman. So, everything is not as bad as you think. If someone tries to joke, tell them where to get off. If you are offended and blush because of it, you will never be able to accept yourself. A sense of humor, self-irony and the ability to tell someone where to go, how to get there and how long they should stay are the guarantees of a happy life. The size does not matter. Unless it bothers you. So take my wishy washy advice with a pinch of salt. But not too much salt, that's bad for you.
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