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  1. New Here, but Longtime Struggler

    @itsSmaller I can tell you that anyone is welcome here. The people here have welcomed me in here and I’m a good size. I struggle with thinking I’m small and inadequate. Even though I know I’m good enough. If that makes any sense.
  2. Girl of My Dreams

    So, when I was married, my buddy and I used to go for wing Wednesday every week. We had been going for a while and then he mentioned that a friend of his was coming with us, which I said fine, it ended up being a really good looking girl. And because I had a wife, I didn’t care and just talked to her normally. We got along great. We talked mostly instant of her and then buddy. The next day at work, he said that she had told him that if I didn’t have a wife that she would totally go on a date with me. She loved how normal I was. I tell that story because could it have been that subconsciously you knew you have a great girl with you right now, so therefore you could actually be yourself around her? I had never been good with chicks that I had liked before, but because I wasn’t thinking about trying to impress her, I didn’t care.
  3. I’m usually fairly decent at staying hard after I’ve finished, and i didn’t notice with the ring on, but I have only had it on twice and wasn’t looking for that. Probably will notice now though lol. It hasn’t helped in the performance part for me, I’ve still finished within mins. First time, we hadn’t had sex in a very long time so I wasn’t too surprised. But last time I lasted a decent amount of time.
  4. Self deprecating fantasies

    I have the same sort of thing when I drink @YOTH, except I do stupid scenarios where I pretend like I sent a pic of myself to a chick and apologize and try and peak their interest. Then when I’m hungover and they have responded it’s a little cat and mouse game basically to see if I can get them to agree to me sending the pic and then get them to comment on my size.
  5. We have now used a couple of the cock rings a couple times this last week. Both times we put it on when I was already hard(you’re supposed to put it on when it’s soft or semi hard apparently), she could feel a difference the first time from one of my veins. The second one is a little more thicker of a ring, and she instead felt a difference and said I was definitely more hard and when she put me in her mouth, said I felt bigger. So next time we use it, I want to ask her to take a measurement of me before and during the time I have the cock ring on. See if there is any actual difference!
  6. Well, was at the show last night. I was more comfortable this time around. A bit. But I also had a few drinks to get me more comfortable. It seemed more toned down then last time. But also every sex kind of vender that was there basically sells the same thing. We actually ended up booking a chiropractor appointment while we were there lol. Got a mini spine test done and my neck alone is all fucked up. Anyways, we ended up getting a mystery bag, which is staples together so you don’t know what you get until you buy it and open it. As we did the last time we went. There was like 3 vibrators in it, a sex game, some margarita glass with a penis shaped thing in the middle of it. And a bunch of lube. As we went along we checked out a seminar by Dr. Jess(smoke show) about pleasuring a guy. After that we continued walking around and there were people being tied up, swinging on swings, performances from groups on the main stage. As the night went on, I had a couple more drinks, I didn’t mention about the girth enhancer again, but a cock ring sorta caught my attention. So, we ended up buying a couple of those for me. We will give those a turn in the near future. I read up on it a little bit this morning and it should help me perform longer, and actually perhaps get a fuller erection. So I might even gain a little size from it. Which would be interesting. I want to open it up and try it and measure lol, but I don’t want to open it without the gf. Maybe actually, we could do a comparison without the cock ring and then with! See if there is a difference. So yeah, just a brief statement from last night. Anyone care to ask questions, I’ll answer!
  7. I felt something when I had mine on, mine was supposed to add like another 1.5-2 inches in girth. But as I said, the gf didn’t like it at all. It was soft and just felt way too fake for her. Maybe I’ll find something better tomorrow
  8. That’s awesome @2thin2win!! I’ll have to look at what they have. @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero I’ll explain later as to an extender, but it’s basixally what it sounds like. But I’ll also let you all know how I feel and what goes on there
  9. Appreciate it lostboy! Yeah, I had more expectations for this girth enhancer but we used it once and never used it again. She said it felt weird.
  10. With my gf. We went a couple years ago(When we had been dating for about 5 months) and it’s difficult usually for me to talk sexual, and I barely said anything when we were in there. I bought a girth enhancer there, but I didn’t want to say anything cause I didn’t want people to see me buying it cause I thought they would all judge me for buying it. I’m sort of getting the same feelings again now that we will be going again. I’m going cause she wants to go, and I want to mention about getting another, better extender, but I don’t know if I should say anything to her cause she might be annoyed I’m bringing up the size issue again
  11. Dude, I get ya. I used to be on a board, which used to have a thread that had users to get together and chat about things. I enjoyed chatting with guys that pleased my Fantasy. Which was basically a guy playing a girl character of my choosing, to a scenario of my choosing. It happens sir
  12. I’d love a better flaccid. I have always wanted a better bulge in my pants it seems.
  13. @YOTH For sure, sometimes I forget that as well that my dad grew up in a different time. While my dad can be good with learning about technology, he’s no good with people. He’s gotten better, but he’s still very awkward with social interactions. He also didn’t have a sex talk with his dad, his dad was also very tight lipped and didn’t talk much he said. I’ve atarted being more open although this isn’t something I commonly talk about. Although I’ve told a few friends in the aftermath of my divorce years ago. But they would start to get annoyed with me talking about it. Much like it was said in another thread that because it’s been so pent up for so long, you just start to spill and talk and ask questions.
  14. @YOTH yeah, my dad at the time(he’s now retired) was a doctor. But his side of the family they are awful at talking about sex and stuff openly. And that has carried on with my family. We never had the sex talk or anything. Just a note that said we had books on sex and stuff in the house that we should read up on. But when I left the vehicle my guess is that he too just wanted to end the conversation before it even began too lol. My dad is/can be just awkward with people. Even his own kids.
  15. My gf and I went to a sex show a couple years back and we bought this mystery bag. And in it among all the little things that were in it was this massive dildo. I want to say it’s 8” in length but I don’t know about the girth but the thing is huge