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  1. Embarrased in Front of My Wife

    For men it's psychological. For women it's mostly physical. They want that "filled up" feeling. For some that means 6x5, for some it means 9x7.
  2. Hmm good point. It is definitely a deliberate thing.
  3. Do you think hollywood casts slender young women with perfect skin and perky breasts to make a point? Or is your logic only applicabke to peni? Btw you're the man for using the word peni 😂
  4. @Klingsor the more you invest in that fantasy, the less happy you will be. It's like a guy who's 5'2 and uncoordinated dreaming of being in the NBA. Yeah, it would be cool but it's entirely unattainable. Focus on your reality and the things you actually can improve in your life. Btw i'm saying this to myself as much as to you.
  5. Embarrased in Front of My Wife

    It is a male fantasy, first and foremost. But there are women who enjoy it and even a few who specifically seek it out. I dated as a prospective cuckold for almost a year, met and actually dated 6 women and had a long term relationship with the 6th. Of those 6, 2 were specifically looking for a cuck and had experience, 2 were dominant women who were jnterested in trying it out, and 2 were just slutty and liked the idea of trying a new kink that involved sex with multiple men. I ended up with one of the latter. I also emailed and talked with probably two dozen other women who were interested in that lifestyle. So yeah, there are plenty of women who are into it, but it's driven by the men. They onky know they're into it because a man wanted them to try. The idea that huge cocks are the best is culturally driven. There are some women, though few, who really do want the biggest of the big, but for most women, average or a little bigger is what they consider ideal. As far as women becoming more vocal about size preference, i think that's mostly a result of it being more acceptable for women to talk about their preferences at all, particularly naughtier preferences. I think there is a bit of it that is a backlash against patriarchy, a kind of way to get the upper hand over men in some kind of way. But mostly it's a legitimate preference and component of their sexuality. Men in the past were shielded from this reality because women weren't allowed to be promiscuous, so they either weren't experienced enough to have preferences or were far too ashamed to talk about them.
  6. Also, Ken Jeong has an amazing life. Gave up being a doctor to be an actor. His wife is super hot (imho). And he's comfortable enough with himself to let the whole world laugh at his penis and laugh right along. Life goals like a m*********er.
  7. Yeah i just looked those up, and ben affleck's is hard to size up but it's definitely big. Maybe huge. Jason segel's looks high average, maybe a little better. Who cares tho, Ken Jeong is still the fuckin man!
  8. Great thread. Being 6" and feeling small can seem absurd to some of us in the < 4" category, but it also seems very common. Porn is the obvious suspect. @martyofuk do you or have you watched porn much in your life?
  9. Btw Ken Jeong is the man for having the balls to show the world his small soft dick and being totally cool about it. I admire his courage. I don't think any of us would be able to do that.
  10. The Bathmate Diaries

    @YOTH i've been using the bathmate for over 2 years now. Most of my gains came during the first 6 months, but in the last 6 months, i've noticed some improvement with how big i get in the tube and how long i stay pumped afterward. I had to keep tweaking my routine and schedule to find a new sweet spot that seems to work. I haven't measured in a while though. Enlarging the penis is a much trickier task than stretching the foreskin. Skin is like spandex. The tunica albuginea is more like canvas. But i do want to stretch my foreskin too. I hate the uncomfortable rubbing against my underwear when i'm fully soft and barely protruding.
  11. Good topic. I think it has more to do with titilating the audience than with reinforcing the big=good, small=bad system. It does reinforce it. But i don't see that as a reason why directors choose hung guys for nude scenes, or at least portray studly characters as hung. I think they do it for just the same reason they choose muscular men and beautiful women with big breasts. They are nice to look at. Eye candy sells.
  12. To measure or not to measure

    For a long time i was afraid to measure. Being reduced to a number can be dehumanizing. Particularly when it's your penis and the number is small. Then for a long time i measured obsessively, excited if it was a little bigger, paranoid if it was a little smaller. But in a way, i was coming to terms and facing my fears. Eventually i was comfortable enough to let my ex measure me, regularly. It was more liberating than humiliating, though it was definitely catering to my humiliation fetish. These days i rarely measure.
  13. Best options for dating/meeting women online?

    I was killing it on okcupid once upon a time. Craigslist too.
  14. The Bathmate Diaries

    It is fun. I love how much fatter it looks in the tube, even though i know it's an optical illusion. Still disheartening to see how much of the tube i don't fill, but i try to look at it as a challenge to keep progressing. But @YOTH you don't need two, unless you have a friend you wanna pump with lol
  15. Of course we don't have to be submissive. Our body type does not determine our sexuality any more than it determines our personality. Just because a person is built like an nba star doesn't mean they can't become an astronaut. That said, i am sexually submissive and my small dick size had a lot to do with making me that way. I have found more self acceptance and confidence from submission than from just about anything else. It may be surprising if you're not experienced with D/s sexuality, but there is power in being consensually submissive.