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Smallbeans last won the day on June 12

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  1. Smallbeans

    Pen Pal!

    I second what everyone else has said. I always find it helpful to speak to new people and get their opinions and advice on my problems The fact you want to solve your problems is a huge and great start.
  2. Smallbeans

    Your typical vent about penis size

    @rmp your not weak at all. You were strong enough to come on here and ask for help. That takes balls. I’ve found on the times I can’t last long in bed I focus more on my partners pleasure. Like longer foreplay and stuff like that. If you only see your gf every two weeks then that gives you plenty time to try things like edging which I think really helps
  3. Hey there @Twigit. Trust me when I say I have been in the exact same posistion feeling like you will never feel the same as you did before or get over it but it does get better. I’m on a cocktail on alcohol, depression and anxiety tablets every day. Your not going through this alone
  4. Smallbeans

    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    @Victimorthecrime well said mate. Very well said.
  5. @MrsA good. Sometimes just getting it off your chest makes you feel a bit better and I’m glad it has. If you feel like you should seek professional help then by all means but sometimes just having the conversation about the problem works it out. He sounds like the kind of guy who would do anything to help you and I’m sure he would appreciate you just being honest about the way you feel. I hope some of what I’ve said helps. I’m in no way an expert in anything. Just a guy trying to help
  6. @MrsA I hope even just writing down your problem helps even a little bit. You can’t help the way you feel and should not feel ashamed. My question is if he can make you orgasm then isn’t his penis good enough? Unless it’s orgasm without penetration. The fact he is willing to use toys and extenders shows how much he loves you and wants you to be happy I think. At the end of the day you should always choose what makes you happy. That’s my policy. It’s a lot easier said than done though.
  7. Hey @MrsA welcome to the forum. There are many people here who will happily help you. Me included. No matter what your problem is people here will help. I really hope you find a solution to your problem
  8. Smallbeans

    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    I’m from Great Britain(Scotland) and you couldn’t turn the channel without seeing something about this wedding I’m glad it’s over and wish all the best to the happy couple.
  9. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @Victimorthecrime that is true. Maybe I’m just used to seeing the negative in everything instead of looking for the positives. The same to you friend. All the best.
  10. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @LaLa hey there thank you for the information. I have been on the same medication(paroxetine) for around 1.5 years now so that could be it. I had never even thought of something like that happening. I have my regular check up coming up soon so I will ask my gp about and see if he can recommend a new med or maybe a higher dose. Thank you again.
  11. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @VictimorthecrimeThat is very true mate but some days it’s all I feel but I guess sitting moaning on a website to strangers won’t make much difference in the real world. Helps at the time though
  12. Smallbeans

    i feel so lost

    @alucasp you will never be lonely on this page friend. Loads of great people with great advice
  13. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @Victimorthecrime yes indeed. Just gotta try and find the good days/things and focus on them. Although they are getting harder to find these days.
  14. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @Victimorthecrime and at the end of the day isn’t life just one long pain in the ass
  15. Smallbeans

    Having a bit of a rough patch. Looking for help

    @Victimorthecrime I know what you mean about that. We had a little night out for the bank holiday last week there and some stuff was said it’s still causing problems today. I’ve got my fingers crossed for your future in this job mate.