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  1. InLuvWspsMAN

    Self worth/confidence with a small penis

    FYI - Most women don't orgasm through penetration. Or orgasm at all. Hands can do what no penis can do alone. Get some skills. Oral in the mix is great too. Toys are excellent source for multiple stimulation. Vagina is like a flute. You have to learn to play it. Use many fingers and movements at the same time in many different areas (clit, g-spot and anal). Vagina is much more complicated than a penis. No one really talks about that. Maybe that's the information you should be exchanging or focusing on. Penis alone is not enough regardless of the size for most girls. Technically we can orgasm from three different areas. THREE. Clit, G-spot and anal (A-spot). It's a buffet. Choose your main course. Master it. It's funny that most women stil have trouble reaching their orgasm. Something is missing here. Think about it. Lack of information? Penis in general is fun and funny topic from an early age in boys' lives, for men and women our sex acts like an antenna that responds to the environment around us. The whole size thing is simply not everything. I am sorry about all the bad jokes people throw other thinking they are funny and the massive amount of confusing pornography. Someone needs to stop that. Completely insensible and unfair to men and women. Those things only magnify unnecessary discomfort for everyone. Throw it out the window. If you want some links on legitimate educational sexual info techniques lmk (hard to find too - sadly)
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Yes, thanks, that's nice.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Thanks for sharing. And this is helpful to hear as well. I am not the only one that experiences this with him. He can be blind, probably cos he is already working hard to conceal himself and doesn’t feel like he owes anything to the world. In my message to him, where I laid the cards down recently, I did mention this. I said that he is hurting everyone around him and is flonting his pain around and spreads it when he can it seems. It’s not ok. I know his good side and that’s how he should be addressing to me. I mean I went on and I put it in a perspective for him. I am sure he hit the wall with it. He needs to know he is being seen and is in the spot light right now. Anyway he ended up inviting me to dinner to talk. Which we had. Still simmering on it. Anyway. I need time too.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    I only have done it recently. Just been mentioning it on a few places on here. Regardless. SPS may not be the only problem here, which we have concluded. He is bi (we both are), but maybe he simply may be more gay than he’d like to admit. Who knows.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Yes I think I was.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Yes, you are right. The issue is deeper than me. I can’t fix anyone really. I can only offer safety and care. I was blinded by many other things connected and parallel in our lives that made me go this far. I really didn’t know what I was getting into. However I did know he was slippery from the beginning. Confusing. And I got trapped. I do t like games. I am too old for that at the end of the day.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    I think we are at the end here, really.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    I like this. Thanks.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Trust would be step 1. In this case it's taking a while to get there. I do know that. However, I did serve my case on "trust" the other day. I spelled it out. Basically I said: You need to open your eyes and see the ocean between the waves we've had over time and trust me.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Yes, it's f'd up a little. Or a lot. I enjoy being single too.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Not offensive at all. Currently I do. I do also have a very confident background. However you have a good perspective. I really don't think it's sex for him when he would come around. He seems to be scared of it. He ghosts cos he is embarrassed and to find an excuse to avoid emotional attachments.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    Maybe that's his way to push and keep people away to really avoid this. Acceptance is not easy, I am sure some of you already know that.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    I am glad my situation was able to help put things in a perspective for you. I am glad your man was able to be honest. I don't think this guy is. It's pretty deep issue for him is what I gather. That was the scary part, to find out how deep this thing goes. It does become abusive at some point. But there is two sides to the coin. He thinks it easier to perhaps let it go than deal with it. And then it's up to me to decide what I want to do. I just laid down some serious cards for him and addressed the point "indirectly" about discarding his past experiences with women and to trust me. Anyway...it was a hard core note I must say and a brave one from me. He responded and invited me to dinner to talk. Some things were said and some things were not yet said, but I think the big deal here is that he made the effort and showed up as I said to him to use me as a source to communicate, or find a way to communicate with me. Who knows. It's slow. But also this is a problem he has lived his whole life with...what do we know about that? I can only imagine, but I am pretty good at grasping things. If this is tough for him as a man, then how could a woman handle it ? Maybe that's one of the questions to think about...I am sure this depends on the depth of the problem.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    There are a lot of men out there that can't get it up guys. That's a problem.
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    Hello...I am in love with a man that has SPS

    What would please you? Do you know?
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