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  1. try having a brother who is twice the size of you and all his girlfriends always telling me about it....that's what I got to grow up with. I obviously got the asian side and him the white side. Life just suck like that sometimes. but at the end of the day, my wife is a lot prettier than his, I make almost a $100k more than him and he always tells me he wishes he was more like me. Guys....grass is not always greener on the other side.
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    Yet another rant against women

    My wife is gorgeous and 10 yrs. younger than me. We have three beautiful kids and been married 13 yrs and together 16. I don't think my wife cares at all about my size, unfortunately I do. She does not feel the need to put on pounds of makeup and high heels wherever she goes. The ones that do are the ones you need to steer clear from. And btw, those that need to prove themselves are usually the ugly ones that need makeup in order to get guys attention.
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    Here is my story.

    Fallen, I'm a little older than you and have been around the block a few times. I'm not going to lie and tell you that every encounter you have with a woman is going to be an awesome one but who knows, they may very well be. I will tell you that height trumps penis size all day long for most women. Do yourself a favor and do an internet search at what women look for in a man and you will not find one study that will place a dick preference over height. Woman just don't care about dick size as much as we guys do and they tend to place dick size very low on chart. Height and muscles is everything and if you have both, you have no worries. If you're dick is below 4", then maybe you might want to consult a doctor to see what could be done because my advice above will be misguided. If you are over 4", then get the fuck out there and start dating already and I will guarantee you the first girl you have sex with will be coming back for more. trust me on this one. The average is 5", so if you're 4", then you're not far off from average.
  4. I heard it's tougher being a small penis gay man. They say men judge harsher than women....
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    Yet another rant against women

    This is from my experience with women only so here goes my theory to your question. women want their peers to envy them. A big penis, at least in western culture, is a status symbol and enviable (this is due primarily through the media) by others, so women believe if their man has a big penis, then they will be envied by their friends. a lot of women don't care so much about being envied by others, while other women live their lives to be. The trick is to find one in the former group. I've been with both types and married one in the former group. a little advice: find one that doesn't know she's beautiful or certainly doesn't act like it and you'll be happy with her.
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    Anyone had any bathmate/jelqing results?

    i gained about .5" girth and .5" length. most all of it was at the seven week mark. it's slowed down a lot now. i got the BM and think it hinders the progress so i stopped using it. i'll go until the end of 2018 and hopefully reach 5" girth which is my goal, then i'll just do maintenance. this last .25" inch girth gain is gonna be tough.
  7. 2thin2win

    Bionic Dong

    @helpless - I didn't think jelqing would work; probably the biggest skeptic ever. I read through the forums, PEGym and Thunders, and a lot of people were gaining and I couldn't imagine why so many would lie just to lie. It didn't make sense so i tried it. I've been doing it since about Jan 1 of this year. I was at 4.25" girth and now i'm approaching 4.7" girth, so in that respect I believe it's working. I almost fit regular condoms now as before they were really loose and now just a couple of wrinkles. My bathmate came in last Monday. From what I can tell so far is that it's a great novelty and feels good but it won't work for permanent gains and it may actually hinder gains. As with all pumps it blows up your dick but in the wrong way. (fluid build up). In my journey, fluid build-up hinders my gains. Jelqing and other manual PE exercises have a different effect when you're done. Also, from my experience, PE exercises did not give me a better erection but caused a little ED that cures after a couple days of not doing exercises. Extenders are scientifically proven to work and almost everyone gains length but you have to wear them for like 4-6 hours a day for six months. I would say try the jelqing and other exercises. Give it a fair shot for six months...can't hurt. I'm giving it a fair shot to end of 2018. If i can get to 5.0" girth, i'm happy. As far as time constraints, I'm a CFO of a big company, sit on two boards, have three crazy kids, wife, school, and still find time...it's kinda of enjoyable me time.
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    I am happy 85 percent of the time

    I didn't read lopotos post before posting mine. I read it now and it makes a lot of sense. in fact, it's spot on correct. good job lopotos and thanks for your contribution.
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    I am happy 85 percent of the time

    @Sea182018 yeah, after we do it she usually goes to the bathroom and one time my thing felt large so i measured it even though it was half soft by the time I did. and it was 5.2". I don't think it's healthy to be that though so i do it on special occasions only. As far as natural supplements, L-arginine works well for me, so much that i stopped taking cialis. I'm slowly starting to think that we are both wrong and our wives don't need to or want to be "filled up" or get something we can't give; i think they just want us and how we are. Last night i tried to put this bigger dildo in her and she didn't want it, she pushed it out and she grabbed me and put me in. in fact in the last 6 months or so, she's been having orgasms without anything but me. I am slowly starting to creep up to 4.7" so maybe that's it, or something else. Shit, another .25" and i'll be normal....yeah. But normal is more for myself, not necessarily for my wife if that makes any sense.
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    I am happy 85 percent of the time

    @sea - i am the exact same size as you and married and feel the same way about my wife. What kind of got me down and confirmed my thoughts was that about a month ago I had sex with my wife at 5.2" girth and she had an orgasm within a couple of minutes, granted it was after i gave her a valentines day full body massage and she was already way in the mood. It was different than her normal clitoral orgasms, seemed a lot stronger. I don't know if she has ever had one from just sex before that night, at least with me. So now I only have sex with her with about 4.8" girth and she likes it but it takes longer than 5.2". we went on a cruise the last four days and a couple times in the AM, i went in at my natural 4.5" girth and it seemed like she barely felt me. I get frustrated sometimes to think that if i was normal, things would be better for her. I, like you workout daily so at least I can give her a decent visual. You know the thing is, is that many of my friends' wives do not like to have sex with their husbands. Many of my friends complain about that all the time. I can't imagine ALL of them are small so it has to be something else that makes them tick. I think i'm lucky in that regard as my wife always willingly has sex with me and will initiate if it goes past maybe 5 or 6 days. Also, you mentioned you jelqed and it didn't work. I could swear that it worked for me on week 7, but nothing after that. How long did you do it for?
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    Girl of My Dreams

    @unsung your post hit home. this was my experience, back in the day and may not necessarily be yours: I remember dating a not so bright girl back when I was in my early 20's. I mean i've dated several not so bright girls but one stood out and was unbearable. She just didn't grasp the simplest concepts in life and did not understand anything about the real world; it was amazing how this girl even got along in life. As time passed (only dated for 3 months), I really didn't look forward to seeing her at all cause it meant I had to listen to her talk and everything she said was just weird. It became dreadful to see the girl after the newness wore off. Needless to say we broke up; I pulled a douche move back then, but I was young at the time. In time, you'll see that a girl's acceptance of your size will NOT be a reason to hold on to her. It may be a very tiny part of the equation, but in no way will you be in a long term relationship with someone that you can't talk to, or hold a decent conversation with. To me, holding a decent conversation trumps most anything else a girl has to offer. I talk to my wife every night for about an hour after we get the kids down. I couldn't imagine doing that with someone I didn't want to listen to; it would be constant dread. But again that's me, maybe not you. The age thing won't matter with the new girl. My wife just turned 19 when I met her and I was 28 so I don't believe age is really a factor (Although i'm starting to wrinkle and she still looks like a teenager; i don't like that too much. i attached our pic from last year so you see what i mean and where you will be heading with this 18 yr old). However, some of the things the new girl said that you posted are red flags to me. My wife would never have said those things that you mentioned in your post; she just doesn't talk like that. This girl sounds like all the other girls who made fun of me. The Asian part has nothing to do with it. These Asians now days are nothing like my mom (she was born in China) and old style Asians.. In this new age, a lot of them are wild, rebellious and promiscuous....even more so than white woman. I'm seeing my asian girl neighbor grow up and she hides her black boyfriend down the street and meets him to go out; her parents are divorcing over it. My advice for what it's worth: don't let size interfere with anything you do in life. You already know that it doesn't matter as you are experiencing that right now. If a girl throws shade on you cause of it, you are way better off to not have her in your life. Go date and have fun. There will be lots more girls in your life before you settle down.
  12. @Griz omg..i bought a girth enhance as well. it looked perfect but there were issues. first, it's very tough to maintain an erection with the added weight. Mine was silicone and......PINK so that didn't help. When it did go on it kept getting smooshed down so it was difficult to penetrate with it. Wife also said it felt weird. I recently bought this vibrating penis ring and it has been magical. Wife loves it and so do I. i bought the SVAKOM one on Amazon cause i thought it had the best reviews and best of all...everyone complained it was too tight so i knew it would at least fit me. We use that baby all the time. She gets on top of me and does her thing, problem is she only lasts about a minute with it before she cums and i can't finish that fast. I do highly recommend one of those. First time wife actually has been initiating sex a lot.
  13. I don't want to advocate for any one particular forum as I haven't been on most of them. I personally am at PEgym and Thunders but am by no means telling you those are the best or even the one's to go to. On the site, or probably any of them out there, there's instruction manuals, videos and stuff about the different exercises (everything is free and no one will try and get you to buy anything except maybe a heating pad). My recommendation would be that if anyone is trying to sell you something, go to a different forum fast. I started with my own version of JP90, which the more experienced people will tell a new person to start with. I believe pretty much all the people have stated that their flaccid has improved significantly, however, it's seems kind of hit and miss whether or not erect gains are made. I would say from my perusal of the sites that most do gain something, some more than others. Hope that helps. As i told another member, at the very least you'll get a better flaccid and you'll also get hope that things will get better.
  14. I did start jelqing (that didn't really help as much as the other stuff on those forums) on December 1st of 2017. As mentioned in other posts, I was very skeptical (still am for some reason), however, it became "my time" and was very peaceful and enjoying while doing it. I am a man of science so didn't think for the life of me anything would happen. I read post after post on those forums and many guys don't gain anything and they have been doing it for years, but many did. So i told myself, " well it can't hurt to give it my best shot for 6 months". Needless to say I was/am absolutely shocked at what happened. (i didn't buy anything as the forum says not to or spend any kind of money although i did donate yesterday as i owe them a lot as i'm way happier now and not stressed about my dick). I think whether you grow or not has to do with the way your dick is structured. If you go to those forums, look into PE theory. There's one that seems to make sense and it's about how the tunica is structured as some people have three layers, some have two and some have one. I'm thinking i might have lucked out and have only one (only 7% of people have that) therefore i am able to gain very quickly. As i was against it a few weeks ago, I would now say give it a try and see what happens. Don't go spending money on penis pumps or extenders (although extenders do have scientific proof of working) or anything. You hands and maybe a penis ring work best.
  15. I value girth as well much more than length. I don't think it matters if you're 4" or 6" in length to the girl. I noticed a quarter inch of girth very much matters to the girl; it's weird like that.