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    Renni.cl got a reaction from LaLa in I am the problem   
    Hi everyone. It has been a while since I last did one of these. I am writing this because I am having somr problem in my life in general, and today my parents went to my school to talk about it and then they had a long talk with me. Long story short, I am the problem in my life. It is not new, I havw known it for a while. I guess what makes me sad is that I am not accepted because of my personality or my mental dissorders. I dont know what I should do. My parents wont take me to any more therapies and what does one do with problems? One ends them, but how am I going to get rid of the problem if I am the problem? I guess I am back to where i once was, accepting that I have to make myself small in order to not cause any more problems.
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    Renni.cl got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in I am the problem   
    Hi everyone. It has been a while since I last did one of these. I am writing this because I am having somr problem in my life in general, and today my parents went to my school to talk about it and then they had a long talk with me. Long story short, I am the problem in my life. It is not new, I havw known it for a while. I guess what makes me sad is that I am not accepted because of my personality or my mental dissorders. I dont know what I should do. My parents wont take me to any more therapies and what does one do with problems? One ends them, but how am I going to get rid of the problem if I am the problem? I guess I am back to where i once was, accepting that I have to make myself small in order to not cause any more problems.
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    Renni.cl got a reaction from Klingsor in Back   
    Hey guys, I hope you are al ok.
    Right now I am in summer vacations and I’ve been feeling a lot better since I haven’t gone to school and being on that toxic environment. On the next school year we will be assigned to a new group which will be my group for the next 3 years, today I was told who my classmates are going to be and it is not good, they separated me from my best friend and on my group there are all the girls who used to be my friends and hate me. I am scared I am not going to have anyone on the next year and I don’t want to fall again, I really don’t. I told my parents I wanted to change schools and they said no. Today my anxiety is back and I am feeling really down. It’s like life wants me to suffer or something. I don’t know if I will be able to take it. I really don’t feel like going back to that school, it really makes my mental state worse. 
    I hope you had a great week :)
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    Renni.cl got a reaction from YOTH in Unhappy with my weight, again.   
    Hi, I have tried everything but I can’t lose weight. Today I got measured again and now I am 61.5kg I gained 1.5 kilos! I cant believe I am getting fat again. But if it helps you cutting all then milk and cheese and bread from your diet helped my cousin.
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    Renni.cl reacted to IrmaJean in My Depression   
    Reni, is there a trusted adult in your life who you can talk and share with? Are your parents supportive? You are coping with a lot and it's okay to reach out for help.
    Your description of your feelings is heartfelt. I'm sorry you are going through this struggle. Does it help to express yourself like this, perhaps through journaling or poetry? Painting? Art? Do you have any opportunities in school through clubs or other school activities to connect with others? I agree that friendships can be healing.
    I hope you are safe today, Reni. Write and share here anytime. Take care of you.
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    Renni.cl reacted to LaLa in I hate eating   
    Hi again, Reni,
    I've just heard this interview and I was thinking about you a lot - I highly recommend listening to it to you:
    http://meaningoflife.tv/videos/39728
    You may learn about healthy, useful approach to eating as well as some unhealthy-ones (different from your, but perhaps still interesting and useful to know). They also mention a podcast that might be useful for you.
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    Renni.cl reacted to LaLa in I hate eating   
    Hi, Renni, welcome!
    Have you searched for forums specialised for eating issues? You're welcome here, so don't interpret this as a rejection, but I suppose that you might get a better feedback in an on-line community of people who have / are recovering from an eating disorder. This one seems to be the best to me (but feel free to explore more and choose yourself!): http://webiteback.com/forum/index.php ( http://webiteback.com/blog/ ) You may also try here: https://support.beateatingdisorders.org.uk and https://forums.psychcentral.com/eating-disorders/
    I don't think, based on what you wrote, that you have an eating disorder, but I'm afraid your problems and thinking and behavioural patterns might easily and quickly lead to anorexia (or a similar disorder).
    Even before searching for a specialized forum: Have you tried to educate yourself about healthy eating? There are too many diets and I don't recommend you trying a diet (it can be often dangerous, mainly to children and adolescents!). But you can find also serious professionals who explain how, when and how much to eat to remain healthy and not to gain weight. (I would recommend one book in particular, but it's in a language ("east-european") you wouldn't understand, so... But if you wanted, I might try search for some info in English on the web...) When you learn and understand many things about your body (the physiology of digestion, some biochemistry, all the fascinating info about gut microbiota, ...), you may change how you view meals. When you know what and why your body needs, then you may look at eating as at something good for you - in case you eat "well" / healthily, of course. I imagine that being 16, you may feel incapable to influence what you eat because it's your mom who buys and cooks, but if you explained your problems (that you have now) and your solutions (-eating better) as well as the reasons why (-what is good for your body and why), she might make some efforts to change. What do you think?
    Anyway; good luck and... kudos for reaching out and starting here to search for a solution to your problems! It's important to "do something" now, before it develops into a much bigger problem!
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