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  1. Thanks so much! And yes it does ever since I spoke about it here I do feel better. And yes he tries and actually makes orgasm, something I couldn’t do with my ex partners even the ones that were 8. So you are right on that.
  2. @Lodz agreed! And thank you so much again. Thanks for replaying.
  3. @LaLa thanks so much. And yes totally agree with you. All positive from here... Thanks I will check those up.
  4. @Lodz omg I have no idea. How do I even edit to to add the tittle? I will figure it out. By all means my goal is not to make anyone feel bad about it in fact is a pretty sensible topic as it for me. Besides the mix emotions you did made me laugh with the don’t get pregnant lol.. we had been trying actually but it hasn’t happened yet. In God’s time. Thanks so much I will follow your advice. I could relate to what you said. Truly do. My goal is not lo leave him for it but to work it out with myself and stop feeling like I need it that way to be fullfilled. Sometimes I will say to myself that it will be impossible to find it all in one man but I know being 100% honest that it’s a way to make me feel better about it. What did you man in your last sentence?
  5. @therebetruth thanks for your honest opinion and for understanding....just curious... what made you feel that I don’t think it’s worht it? I am trying so hard to believe it’s.
  6. So I just posted this into the new forum section but I feel that it should be here... So I’m 31 years old and recently got married. I had been happily married for 7 months now and apart from financial struggles and my issue we are really happy with each other. My problem is that I keep thinking about how unhappy I’m about his penies’ size. I mean I knew it and really thought I could deal with it and adjust like I have, but I keep having dreams about exes or just wishing it was what I really like. He is great in bed, a very pleasant lover and in fact the second man that I can actually orgasm with. I feel ashamed to even feel this way because he is been a blessing to me. He is aware to some sort that he wasn’t my type and that I prefer a larger size but he was willing to show me he was enough and indeed he has but I still feel that I missed what I used to like. He even bought toys and things to try to please me. He tried an extender but I felt uncomfortable because I felt as if I was having sex with someone else. Just to give you a little more info. I was exposed to porn at an very early age so that set the bar kind of high for me, and since i started experimenting with sex I always prefer thick and 7-8 inches, 6 was tops for me in terms of how low i was willing to go. At some point when I wasn’t this mature it was a total deal breaker for me. I’m a big and thick girl and having a man with a big size was just like common sense to me. But once things got serious I decided to choose happiness and love over looks and size. That’s how I convinced myself. I felt guilty letting him go just for his size. In fact I did broke up with him about 3 times for the same issue but we will go back and try again and things would get easier. My husbands hides inside of him completely when Is not erected, which freaks me out, and with an erection is 3 - 4 tops in good days. It’s not thick but not thin either is fine. What would be your advise? Should I seek profesional help? Thanks for your time.
  7. Thanks so much to you both. So I’m 31 years old and recently got married. I had been happily married for 7 months now and apart from financial struggles and my issue we are really happy with each other. My problem is that I keep thinking about how unhappy I’m about his penies’ size. I mean I knew it and really thought I could deal with it and adjust like I have, but I keep having dreams about exes or just wishing it was what I really like. He is great in bed, a very pleasant lover and in fact the second man that I can actually orgasm with. I feel ashamed to even feel this way because he is been a blessing to me. He is aware to some sort that he wasn’t my type and that I prefer a larger size but he was willing to show me he was enough and indeed he has but I still feel that I missed what I used to like. He even bought toys and things to try to please me. He tried an extender but I felt uncomfortable because I felt as if I was having sex with someone else. Just to give you a little more info. I was exposed to porn at an very early age so that set the bar kind of high for me, and since i started experimenting with sex I always prefer thick and 7-8 inches, 6 was tops for me in terms of how low i was willing to go. At some point when I wasn’t this mature it was a total deal breaker for me. I’m a big and thick girl and having a man with a big size was just like common sense to me. But once things got serious I decided to choose happiness and love over looks and size. That’s how I convinced myself. I felt guilty letting him go just for his size. In fact I did broke up with him about 3 times for the same issue but we will go back and try again and things would get easier. My husbands hides inside of him completely when Is not erected, which freaks me out, and with an erection is 3 - 4 tops in good days. It’s not thick but not thin either is fine. What would be your advise? Should I seek profesional help? Thanks for your time.
  8. New to the forum... was googling some self help article about a situation that keeps bothering me and thank God I found this. Is one of those things that you can’t simply talk about with anyone. I truly feel this will help. Thanks!
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