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  1. No way. I wouldn’t give up 5 IQ points for a big dick. I wouldn’t trade who I am as a human being for a bigger dick. I wouldn’t want to be even a slightly worse father for a big dick. No way. I wouldn’t give up my wife for a big dick, my job for a big dick, etc. I wouldn’t even give up something like my love of music for a big dick.
  2. I doubt I’d think you were too negative. I have many interests and things I love to do that have nothing to do with penis size. That helps a lot. Ive worked hard on realizing my good qualities as a human being, like my sense of humor, my intelligence, my compassion, my honesty, etc. None of those have anything to do with penis size. I’ve internalized my own sense of value as a human being and as a man. I’ve only had sex with good women, women who actually like themselves and are respectful people. Also, I’ve only had sex with women who love to laugh and also have a va
  3. I spent time learning to prioritize what matters most about me. I am smart, funny, kind, non-judgmental, and curious and I also have a 4 1/2 inch penis. I’ve had three long term sexual relationships with wonderful women who can and have attracted all different types of men. And, I had a great time in bed with two of them and am on a wonderful sexual journey with the third who is my wife. I believe I am entitled to have a full and enjoyable sex life. So far, so good and still going strong at 54 years old.
  4. I have a 4.5 inch erect penis and am about the same thickness. I’ve handled my small penis pretty well. I’ve had a lot of great sex and I am very confident in most situations. I don’t want to offend or make others feel any worse on this site. I do believe 4 1/2 inches is a small penis, yet I seem to be comfortable with my size in most ways. Is this site a good place for me? I’ve posted over the last year or so some positive messages. I sometimes feel though that maybe I aggravate others. That is NOT my intent. I just want to share how I’ve come to be comfortable with who I am
  5. When people mock Trump about his “size”, they are doing so because he is a mean spirited person who equates his success with size. He uses terms like huge, biggest, etc. The attacks on Trump are because he is a terrible human being and these attacks bother him. I don’t think it’s a general attack on men with small penises.
  6. I have a strange relationship with “objectivity”. The exact measurement of an object is objective. Calling that same object small or large is a value judgement. I am about 4.5 inches long erect and have had 6 sexual partners, three of them long term. I’ve done almost everything in bed with a woman and have had a great time. I don’t doubt that the women have also. I am smart, funny, considerate, experimental, and in decent shape. The women I’ve slept with want a more complete person that just a dick. Some women might be different. Trust the fun you’ve had in the past. Yo
  7. I’m about 4 1/2 long while erect. I’ve had three long term female betters who were good looking, kind, and fun in bed. I believe that insecure women who tend to overcompensate really stress big penises. I’ve had a riot in bed over the years. i will say that I’ve always cared much more about other facets of me than my penis. So, my size can bother me a little but I’ve had more sex with a greater variety than most of the men I know,
  8. I’ve spent a lot my time since I’ve been an adult thinking about how humans are so self aware and how that is both a blessing and a curse. Sometimes, both men and women, extend the self-awareness to a type of hyper consciousness about some physical attribute, to the exclusion of so much of the human experience where they torture themselves mentally. Having a small penis for a man can be one of those physical attributes. Being short as a man is another. You think about women who suffer from bulimia and anoxeria and you wonder how we torture ourselves so much. Don’t get me wrong, socie
  9. Under 1 1/2 inches when I’m a little cold. Sometimes, I can’t find my penis when I’m really cold or for other reasons.
  10. I’m under 5 inches and feel adequate. I’m at 4.75 inches. I’m also pretty small flaccid, around 3 inches at my best and under 2 inches with shrinkage. I go to nudist lifestyle resorts. I’ve learned to walk confidently in front of men and women. I know that I have a lot going for me. I’ve had a varied and satisfying sex life with three beautiful women over the years. I prioritize parts of me other than my penis.
  11. I refuse to believe that my penis matters anywhere Near as much as my intelligence, my kindness, my sense of humor, etc.
  12. I’m under 5 inches and confident in myself. There is so much more to me than my penis.
  13. I understand. I read posts and sometimes contribute. I am comfortable and confident in myself. Yet, reading posts on this site will sometimes help me focus again on what’s important to me. I will not let my penis size define me. Also, I want to sometimes provide my thoughts to others to help someone who might be suffering. The reality is that any self image issues related to having a small penis is not a mental health issue accepted and discussed in society. We are kind of on our own. So, we should try to support each other when we can.
  14. I’m definitely smaller and have been able to satisfy various women in different ways. First, I always work on who I am as a person. I think about ethics and morality. I’ve gone to counseling. I’ve expanded my interests, I take care of myself physically. Then, I work on and take satisfaction from my relationships including with my partner, my children, my friends, my co-workers, my clients, etc. I focus on being a full human being. My penis just isn’t that important, all things considered. Yet, I love sex. I want to enjoy myself. And, I want my partner to enjoy herself. I
  15. In our patriarchal society, women have been denied their sexuality for so long. Women who want and like sex are sluts. Women who want multiple sexual partners are considered whores. We are in a transition period where women can own their sexuality. Some of that will manifest in superficial sexual episodes and commentary. Women want to prove they enjoy sex and no one should judge them for it. One side effect of this otherwise positive change are crass comments about the size of men’s penises. It’s almost like a payback and an attempt to grab their own sexuality. Now,
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