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Lana73

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    Lana73 reacted to Athena in I'm terrified for my life   
    Feferi, I'm so sorry you're feeling so down.  Also sorry it took a while for you to get a reply.  There are a few things that I'd like to say in response to your post:
    First of all, everybody does NOT hate you.  There do seem to be an awful lot of bigots in the U.S. but that does NOT mean there are not a lot of unbiased people out there.  I'm guessing you're in high school since you are still with your parents.  Since they don't seem to be offering much kindness or support, you're going to have to look elsewhere for it...The gay community?...Your current friends?...Family of your current friends?  You get the picture.  I've seen incredibly mentally healthy adults who had horrible, horrible parents.  They surrounded themselves with mentally healthy and supportive people.  You do not need to give up just because Trump got elected.  Who knows...he may actually make it easier for Americans to get jobs.  We just don't know.  The vote was anti-establishment, not anti-gay, not anti-female.  Check out Martin Seligman's youtube talks as I believe he may put you in a better headspace to help yourself.
    Take care of yourself and don't give up. 
     
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    Lana73 got a reaction from LaLa in Panick Attacks   
    Hi Movesin,
    I too suffer from anxiety and I can totally relate to some of the things you are going through. I am sorry you don't have any support at home. This must be difficult. What helps me when anxiety strikes me, is to take one step back and to prioritize things in my life. You said that you need to make many decisions now. Start with one that you feel is the most important one, the one that will affect your life the most and work towards resolving it. One decision at the time. I hope this helps a bit. 
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    Lana73 got a reaction from LaLa in I'm terrified for my life   
    Hi Feferi,
    i am disappointed as well in the outcome of the elections. You are probably scared because of some of the comment he had made in the past. Please don't give up we are in this together. Always love who you are and never lose sight of your beliefs! We are here for you! 
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    Lana73 got a reaction from Victimorthecrime in Being grateful   
    Greatful that I still have my health that allows me to enjoy little things
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    Lana73 got a reaction from Andromeda in Being grateful   
    Greatful that I still have my health that allows me to enjoy little things
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    Lana73 got a reaction from dvnJ22 in Weekend entertainment   
    Thinking about starting my day tomorrow like this cat

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    Lana73 got a reaction from cindyhelen in What is this?   
    I go through something like this few times a year. Get excited about making big changes and then I lose my motivation. What works for me is choosing one goal and then trying to follow through with it. Maybe you can try it? Just concentrate on one thing- does not have to be anything big.
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    Lana73 got a reaction from ken Ian in Nice and/or funny videos on YT   
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    Lana73 reacted to IrmaJean in Nice and/or funny videos on YT   
    Very sweet.

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    Lana73 reacted to SweetSue in memories   
    You are not a whinger Endless, you are just saying how you feel and what things are like for you at the moment. The downs are always difficult to cope with, and never come with a nice and easy 'exit located here' sign. I dont know what helps you to cope with the downs, but I know with me, I just take each moment as it arrives, and try to just breathe through it - no matter how long the down times last for.
    Time has taught me that the bad times eventually subside,(not that I ever remember that fact when Im low - but thats just me), I just hope that your 'ups' come soon.
    Is there anyway that you can recieve help towards the cost of your meds?
    Take care.
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    Lana73 got a reaction from dvnJ22 in Having a breakdown. Long post.   
    No it does not!! These are just fantasies. You did not actually physically harm anybody so you are not masochist.
    Sorry you are having a hard time. Sounds like maybe you are having obsessive thoughts, something I am very familiar with.
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    Lana73 got a reaction from LaLa in Weekend entertainment   
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    Lana73 reacted to Luna- in Cuteness Overload   
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    Lana73 reacted to IrmaJean in Can you guess vaginal tightness by superficial inspection   
    Do you ever want to meet someone, talk, enjoy their company?
    What does a woman's body part size have to do with your struggles? Maybe it helps to focus on you.
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    Lana73 reacted to Luna- in Weekend entertainment   
    It's friday again!

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    Lana73 reacted to Luna- in Weekend entertainment   
    Oh, those are awesome, ken!

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    Lana73 reacted to Luna- in Weekend entertainment   
    Haha, Lala.

    (The top seems to have been cut off, but you get the idea...)
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    Lana73 reacted to finding my way in Transference Vs. Feelings in the Here and Now   
    I believe there are gifts hidden in situations like this, because others have shown me that there are (mainly in therapy).
    You are discovering you in this process.
    How are you feeling controlled today? What is out of your power?
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    Lana73 reacted to Luna- in Cuteness Overload   
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