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Victimorthecrime last won the day on February 17

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  1. @lostboy1 - looks like he was with the Russians too.
  2. Girl of My Dreams

    @cqbrenner - it's a dilemma. If your linguistic skills are such that you could get a read on the new girl's size preferences through conversation that would be ideal.
  3. Girl of My Dreams

    @cqbrenner oh ok. Sounds like you really like the new girl. I suppose you could roll the dice so long as you are mindful of the risk. There have been guys here 6" and think they are so small so depending on just what your actual size is, it may be less risky than you think. Let us know what you decide and how it turns out.
  4. Girl of My Dreams

    Just because she is talking to you does not mean she wants to be your girlfriend. And even if she does then there is the size issue. I would stick w the first gal but that's easy for me to say. Good luck 🍀

    Have you seen a psychiatrist? Medication helps some people. In my humble opinion counseling alone rarely helps someone w the depth of trouble you describe. Both together can. Best wishes and good luck to you. Call your health insurance company for doctor names near you.
  6. Sorry to hear about the rough patch @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero. Any idea why? Do you both want the same things? I always sucked at relationships.
  7. feature request: android app

    Hi ba! I access it just via the regular search engine on my iPhone. Personally I am not a big APP guy but check your APP store or probably someone else here will know. Hope all is well.
  8. @lostboy1 he swats flys w a hammer 🔨 but I don't think he's a troll. Remember we have a lot of folks here whose 1st language isn't English. Hows everything w you? Anything new and exciting?
  9. Your tone is a little harsh but I agree w the essential message here. Railing against things that can't be changed is utter futility. Yet we all do it to some extent so perhaps the point is to not overdue it. There is no reservoir of pity awaiting the man that does so.
  10. My Mother Is A Deceptive Hypocrite

    I would get away from her for a decent amount of time. Then when you finally see her again if she acts up - walk out. She'll get the message.
  11. @Apollo24 that was quite a post. I enjoyed reading it. Sometimes it's good, cathartic, to get our thoughts down on paper. I am in the USA just to let you know. I certainly grew up around people with "a narrow perspective on life" also. After reading your piece I am curious what country you are in. I am guessing Indonesia but there are a lot of possibilities. From the way you describe yourself I am shocked you would have difficulty finding a girlfriend or a wife but I understand that it's a big world out there and a lot of different situations that one could find oneself in. My advice to you would be to get out of there and come to the West. Get a fresh start, leave the past behind. I realize it's either said than done. If you done want to completely leave your country then maybe move to another part of it. But regardless of what you do or don't do in the future you have accomplished a lot and have every right to be proud and feel good about that.
  12. My so called life

    Hope you feel better Small, and soon. I'm finding I am better off not thinking about my life but just doing what little I can and let it be.
  13. My so called life

    A little inspiration for you. You guys' idol Brian Boitano 😝🤣
  14. Planning. I'm not good at it.

    Exactly! Although I sometimes get too high when things are good and then act a fool. I like your post. Very relatable. I am not trying to eliminate my emotion, just curb it so that it works for and not against me. I managed to get some long overdue banking paperwork out the door this morning so maybe it's working. I hate filling out forms.
  15. Planning. I'm not good at it.

    My downfall in life has been emotions overwhelming me, seizing control of me and catapulting me in whatever direction they desire. That is why I am making a strong effort to use logic as my primary decision tool. I can do it, I just have to prioritize it and pursue it ruthlessly. So far so good.