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  1. I know exactly what you mean! My mother had love for me but I think she was very insecure and worried that success would take me away from her so she undermined to an extent.
  2. @uptight outasight that is incredible. I’m not sure what drives such behavior. My parents were quite the opposite. Any ambition I had they always gave a low key vibe of “why bother / it’s foolish” w/o actually saying that.
  3. Wow it sounds like your parents really liked to meddle and to make matters worse in a rather ham handed way.
  4. Biology is destiny. I’ve said it for years. I think it’s attributed to Freud. I probably should have mine checked but will probably procrastinate it until it no longer matters. Story of my life. But I’ll let you know if I do. Thanks for the info.
  5. I’ve never had mine checked. Did you go to a regular PCP or a specialist?
  6. I still feel the same way, in fact even more strongly. Males commit suicide at a far greater rate then females and if that’s not data I am not sure what is. Chris Rock said men are loved for what the can do; women are loved for who they are. But whatever, I really don’t even give a shit, just chatting.
  7. Wow I posted that just over 7 years ago. I’ll say more later when I am home.
  8. That’s a shame. Parents should, support, encourage, advise children but not push them to be something they are not. Success at anything is always structured as win-win not win-lose.
  9. I know what you mean. I went through a similar experience where I was at once almost sacred and yet a complete failure at anything & everything practical. I’ve seen it w other guys too. I guess birds of a feather...
  10. I can see how the juxtaposition of those two qualities would be disconcerting. The perfect & the failure. What is your relationship like w your parents today or if they have passed what was it like in your adult years?
  11. Yes but they probably would have eventually if I didn’t.
  12. I get it. She has standards. They’re just low.
  13. I tend to agree w you for myself but some guys find it illuminating so as I always say whatever works. I think most people are capable of more when they really commit.
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