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  1. Victimorthecrime

    Favorite Movie?

    I like horror especially the old Dracula, Frankenstein, Wolfman and other stuff from that era. Suspiria, Castle freak, Carnival of souls, Silence of the Lambs 1&2, Mr. Sardonicus, all the old Hammer films w Christopher Lee and Peter Cushing, also Vincent Price. Ever seen any of those?
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    Hi all

    What other music or other things do you like Dave? Do like hiking or reading or movies or going out to eat or going to the gym or hanging at home w friends or just what?
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    Hi all

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    Hi new there [TRIGGER WARNING: sexual abuse]

    Well since it's your first offense, you touched no one, you have learning disability, I suspect you will get probation and a fine. Let us know how it goes.
  5. Victimorthecrime

    Hi new there [TRIGGER WARNING: sexual abuse]

    Free advise here, do what you choose. If this is your first encounter w the legal system then its possible that a good defense attorney can get you a fair deal. Have you been told what your options are and what to expect?
  6. Victimorthecrime

    Hi new there [TRIGGER WARNING: sexual abuse]

    The 'bad group' is an on line group?
  7. Victimorthecrime

    Tom...a real person

    Thanks @YOTH now I know for sure who Tom was. Awful news, truly awful. God rest his soul and God bless you and your family in this difficult time.
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    Tom...a real person

    Many of us have spoken about what a nightmare the work environment can be. It really is a huge problem. I think I remember talking w lookingforfriend about it here. It might have been him that said he went for a beer after work and it was fun but the next day coworkers brought up things that were said that were meant as bar talk but threw it in his face and he was unsettled by it. If I got the wrong guy I am sorry, going from memory. Times like this make it so hard to know what to say. I don't want to just throw up my hands and say the world sucks but I don't want mouth empty platitudes. Hope everyone finds a way to be as well as possible given everything they are going through.
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    Tom...a real person

    Wow YOTH sorry to hear this. I remember him but it's been a while. Don't blame yourself one bit YOTH there is nothing anyone can do about these things, we have seen this. Hope all is well w you YOTH and everyone here.
  10. Victimorthecrime

    I dont know what's going on with me

    @Takutaki if you have health insurance call the customer service and ask for names of participating therapists. Ask if there is any coverage for telephonic sessions. My advice is to do something, try a new thing, anything, because you have nothing to lose. Good luck.
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    My so called life

    Thanks for the clarification jazz. I am 55 and I find I just don't have the time for what Hollywood is peddling these days. Once in a while I will catch something on the classic movie channel that will amuse me. Harold & Maude was a great movie if you are looking for something both comedic and uplifting. You've probably seen it.
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    My so called life

    Explain, Jazz, if you care to.
  13. Victimorthecrime

    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    Planning does not work for me. Making a detailed plan is a complete waste of time. This blog has taught me that. What works for me is setting aside some time where I can be freed up to do whatever it is that I am in the mood to do. Also mental & physical self-care so that I have the energy & inclination to act. That's as good as it gets for me.
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    The one about your penis defining you

    @TheDane - I don't disagree w what you are saying but I believe that most men have a weird agenda in life too. A lot of insecure cheap-shot artists out these lusting for any ego morsel they can scavenge. They know no bottom in this pursuit.
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    The one about your penis defining you

    @TheDane - few things: 1) Hate is never the answer 2) not all women feel the way you describe 3) those that do have a right to their preferences. I agree that it sucks but you got to keep things in perspective.