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    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    Planning. I'm not good at it. I would love to read any tips or insight members have about how they make and execute plans. Feel free to post links if you must but what I am much more interested in is what actually works for YOU. Anytime I see successful, happy people interviewed they extoll the virtues of a good plan but even my simplest plans turn to vapor when confronted by the real world. I would love to change this so please contribute if you can.
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    Planning. I'm not good at it.

    It's Sunday 4:30 pm here and we got the kind of snow I like: 1-2 inches. Just enough to be wintry and scenic but not a travel problem. I am having tea now. Early this morning I got to see an interesting sight right outside my door: a woodpecker! He had a red crown atop his head and was a decent size and was going at it. I filmed him w my iPhone but you can hear him more than see. Other than that a mostly relaxing weekend. Talked to some friends on the phone but did not go out except for errands. I am trying to stay away from crowds in order to avoid cold/flu type nonsense. I have a full week of work but at the end of it is a four day weekend so looking forward to that! The arthritis in my left knee and general aches and fatigue still trouble me but I can deal. It wouldn't be life if there wasn't some problem.
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    Good comedy for new year

    I can remember back in the early to mid 80s going to 2 different Monty Python film festivals w friends and what a fun time that was. After 4 or 5 Python films back to back your mind is in a strange place.
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    Back again, depressed. Essay forthcoming.

    How is that you were bulllied because I thought you are a big guy?
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    Decorations all taken down

    Halloween 🎃 💀 all year
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    Before Christmas

    Why did the walk make you nervous? Is it a bad area?
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    White Flag

    @Desolate Ronin oh for sure totally agree.
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    Happy 2019

    Happy New Year! 🎆🎈🎊
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    Let the countdown begin

    Getting close!
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    White Flag

    I agree w that. That lines up w what I have seen.
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    White Flag

    They are free to want whatever they want but this is exactly the kind of guy that these days pushes off marriage until well into his 30s or beyond in exchange for an extended period of killing it on Tinder. There is even a guy on here who talks about that and also about the troubles it brings.
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    Let the countdown begin

    You guys are exactly 5 hours ahead of me if your time is same as London. I cleverly went into my iPhone clock and added London. Tell me I haven't mastered technology lol 😂
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    Happy New Year

    Good for you @TheDane. Dude YOLO.
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    Last blog entry of 2018

    I have learned, the hard way, that for me, it only gets better if I make it better.
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    Acceptance and Craigslist is our hope( lol)

    That's one of those things that is so easy to say to someone else. Especially when you don't have to be there after the crash back down to earth. Society needs men to be strivers so that we generate tax revenue and stay preoccupied. This particular message of striving to sexually insecure men is designed to promote and sustain Goddess culture.
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    A poll or today

    I like prequels. I might like Gotham. Btw - I was a little heavy handed in my description of the American movie theatre experience. I had a couple of bad experiences many years ago but most of the time it's fine.
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    A poll or today

    Do you guys go to the theatre 🎭 to see films or mostly in the home environment? Movie 🎥 theaters are still popular in America but not nearly as much as they used to be. And not just because of home entertainment systems. Sadly people just don't know how to act in public any longer and rudeness (talking / language / aggressiveness) are commonplace.
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    A poll or today

    I just read the plot of A Quiet Place. It's sounds interesting & plenty creepy.
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    White Flag

    Ooops 😐 didn't mean to post it twice.
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    White Flag

    "Society", for lack of a better word, conditions us from early childhood to believe that life must follow a script, that there are "stages" that occur that are well defined and predictable. Those directing society will say "we are just ojectively describing things as they are". And some of these people are themselves conditioned and actually believe this. The best way to get someone to accept and believe something is to put forth the argument "that's just how it is". And if this is put forth by people who themselves believe it and if these people are popular and attractive and likable and the message is repeated and repeated and repeated endlessly then a irresistible hypnotic thought virus is released, brainwashing occurs and you have a nation of people convinced their beliefs correspond w some some fixed unshakable external reality that only a fool, an idiot, a drug user or a troublemaker would dare question. School is not education. School is indoctrination and brainwashing. Ask any guy that's just graduated high school "ok so what can you do?" and you will get a blank stare. Don't you think after 12 years of education he should be able to do something? If you probe further you will find that what he can do is memorize and repeat worthless horseshit. And what he plans to do is go through 4 more years of it only this time he pays, takes on debt, and develops a reliance on drugs and alcohol to silence that voice that's screaming "something's wrong!". I have watched and read hundreds of interviews w very wealthy men and what they want is not money, not profit, not power. What they want is certainty. Certainty is the tree bearing fruits of money and power. Ask yourself "how is this certainty achieved?" and you will see our current system. The truth is life is what it is, people are who they are and that is fine and it could never really be any other way. All the labels and stages and descriptions are just lies peddled by those w agendas or by people who are just mouthing their programming because they don't know anything else.
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    A poll or today

    I have seen none of them so I won't vote but I am pretty sure of that lot my preference would be Halloween. I have never heard of 'A quiet place' and 'Gotham' means NYC but not sure beyond that. What did you think of these movies?
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    A scary thought

    Oh I am sure the news media & many others will endlessly be fussing about 2020 because it has a nice ring to it.
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    Back again, depressed. Essay forthcoming.

    There are 3 things that inhibit erection: 1) blood flood, which can be impeded by clogged arteries or by high blood pressure or other vascular disease 2) nerve damage in the perineum that can be caused by bicycle riding and 3) Low testosterone. I'm not a doctor and I am not making any diagnosis. Just sharing the medical information I have read. There was a time when it was believed that stress or other psychological problems could trigger impotence but that has been debunked. Will you continue to pursue wimin on Tinder or are you taking a break?
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    Acceptance and Craigslist is our hope( lol)

    I did not know that. I think was on Craiglist one time and just looked at the homepage and got overwhelmed and left.
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    Acceptance and Craigslist is our hope( lol)

    Well said, very well said. And when you think about it, what's the alternative?
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