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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from Toosmallforcomfort in Performance anxiety   
    Wow. Hopefully there are some rivers or lakes for people to enjoy ‘cause they ain’t driving to the beach anytime soon. Or maybe water parks are a big deal I dunnno.  
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Toosmallforcomfort in Recommended readings   
    There will be many, many books, documentaries, articles written about COVID, including the huge baby boom that will be upon the World starting in several months.  
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from Toosmallforcomfort in Recommended readings   
    Someone should write a book “Love in the time of COVID”.  
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Catmom in Performance anxiety   
    I don't think this forum has many posters these days.   I used to be a moderator of it over 10 years ago so I got an email regarding your topic, which requires approval.  I have definitely approved it because you have a legitimate emotional difficulty that is worthy of attention.   I hope I am not the only responder to your post but if I am I hope you don't take it personally.  
    Nowadays, I participate in many very active support communities on reddit.com .  There are probably several forums for you to seek guidance but one subreddit you can try is at r/smallpenisproblems .
    As a woman, I can tell you honestly that most women couldn't care less what size your flaccid penis is and that the teasing you got is very similar to the awful teasing that most people experience in their lives.  All we can do is try to overcome the foolishness.  It seems that common and immature human nature is to attack others to try to elevate one's own ego,
    Good luck and best wishes from Omaha, Nebraska, the geographic center of the U.S.
     
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from LaLa in New age bionic plaque   
    Same here my friend. I recall you like to keep to a regular schedule so this disruption must be stressful.  Hang in there and try to make the best of it. That’s what I am doing.  
     
    Being really super lazy this weekend is how I am coping lol. Drinking beer 🍺 and listening to music.  My local county has great live open mic FB page where some terrific musicians sing and into the night. They all have Venmo tip jar & I have given a little from time to time.  
     
    Be curious to hear what other folks are doing to cope w quarantine and the stress of not knowing where this is all headed if anyone cares to share. 
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Daveuk in 2nd language   
    It is said to learn a new language is to gain a another soul. I have been for the last two weeks teaching myself a 2nd language ( Tagalog ) with help of a app I downloaded
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Daveuk in New age bionic plaque   
    Am coping UK is still in lockdown
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Daveuk in New age bionic plaque   
    Yes got back on I been trying to get a password reset since last week and no messenger sent back 
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to LaLa in Quotes you like   
    Sam Harris: "Mindfulness is about recognizing that you need not be a hostage to your thoughts. In the default state of mind, it’s as though you’ve been kidnapped by the most boring person on earth and forced to listen to a maniac talk at you all day long. Literally, the conversation starts the moment you wake up and doesn’t end until you fall helplessly asleep at night. Mindfulness offers an alternative to this, but it takes some training to acquire this skill. If you can recognize a thought as a thought, if you can step back and just notice thoughts as mere appearances in consciousness, then you’re free."
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from geronimo in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    I tried once to give up the apostrophe but I just couldn’t.  
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to LaLa in New age bionic plaque   
    For those considering going back to restaurants etc.  
     
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to TheDane in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    stop the presses!!! are there gay orgies and meth in India? (asked the 1st world person)
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to Klingsor in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    Never say anything to a girlfriend that makes you appear vulnerable or weak. Small dicks are perceived as a lack of dominance - a lack of TESTOSTERONE - hence weak. Appearing weak is an indulgence only women are permitted.
    As a man with a small dick you have two options: totally retreat from the world (which most guys aren’t in a position to do) or work every single day on making yourself physically intimidating. Men only respect dominance so if you lack it in your dick you have to compensate with the intimidation factor. It won’t make the SPS go away or help much with women, but it will limit the amount of disrespect you have to put up with from classmates, friends, coworkers, etc. which will definitely help with your confidence level and give you a simulacrum of the “big dick energy”.
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from Klingsor in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    That is the worst idea I have ever heard in my life 🤣😂.  
    But seriously, don’t get too deep, too heavily on a girl too early. Remember she’s a friend not a therapist. You don’t want to scare her away. I know because I made that mistake too many times when I was younger.  
     
    Glad you are doing ok. 
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from pinkocean in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    @pinkocean your welcome. And thanks for having a sense of humor. Good luck in your studies.  
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to pinkocean in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    hahaha, I don't know, I was just thinking. Thank you being honest 😛
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to pinkocean in Hey, New Member need someone to hear me   
    I m doing okay honestly. I visited the forum again today because I felt like talking to someone about my day. 
    I m just going to lay it down here.Thanks. 
    I went out on a date-walk with a girl today. I had a nice time with her but I lied about things or actually hid a certain things while talking to her. I feel very guilty of that. She's been really nice and sweet to me. Most importantly, she's been honest. I don't want to lie to her,  I wish I could open up more freely. I wish I could just tell her I have this problem. I m not looking for any sexual advantages from her but there is just a certain angst in my chest. 
    I thought of showing her this forum. Do you guys this a good idea ? How would she react ? Is it just too much to share with a person you know only for a little while ? What if she stops talking ? 
    I don't have anything serious for this girl but I don't want to lie anymore. I don't want my self esteem to be build on lies. 
    Like always, thanks for hearing me out. 
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to geronimo in "Hegemonic and Subordinated Masculinities..."   
    Lockdown is hard work, millions of people with anxieties. Some things easing a little here, people going back to work and able to drive further for walking.
    Some reports that people do not want to go out yet though.
    Who'd have thought 2020 would have this kind of start? (Wish the planners had.)
    Laughed at my favourite comedian Romesh's show yesterday, even funny through video link.
    Sorry you guys are having a tough time  💛
     
     
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from geronimo in "Hegemonic and Subordinated Masculinities..."   
    I’ve been in a shitty mood, depressive mood all weekend. Quarantine is triggering some latent agoraphobia. Seriously. I have barely stepped out the door, and that is only to pace a little after sundown.  
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to IrmaJean in "Hegemonic and Subordinated Masculinities..."   
    These are trying times for sure.😞
    I'm hoping we have turned a corner with the virus (at least for now), but I can't say that I feel sure about that either.
    Vic, are you in a space where you can go outside and safely walk? Maybe the fresh air might help a bit?
    Klingsor, is there any activity you enjoy that you find grounding?
    I hope everyone feels better soon.
     
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to uptight outasight in Girls/ladies I need your opinions/views on this subject   
    Ok, but there are many reasons a woman might cheat on a man besides penis size.
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from LaLa in New age bionic plaque   
    10-4 to that.  Pretty much how I spent my day. Worry about my job security in this downturn, worry about this house & all that it needs, worry about my health as I get older, worry about everything I see other people do that I miss out on. 
     
    Dave? Dave’s not here🤪
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from LaLa in New age bionic plaque   
    @Klingsor on a more serious note please seek help if you think for a second you might need it. Not sure what your health insurance situation is but providers both in and out of network are offering therapy and prescriptions via Skype, Zoom or just phone call.  Many offer sliding scale because their business has been hit.  This is one of the few things I actually know about because it is part of what I do for a living.  Just do a search. Where there is a will there is a way. 
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    Victimorthecrime reacted to IrmaJean in New age bionic plaque   
    Hello all. How is everyone holding up? I hope everyone is as good as they can be under these circumstances. I think of everyone.
    We are holding up as okay as possible. Still healthy, thankfully. We are fortunate enough to still have work, but at the same time, it's a little frightening to be working with the public as much as we are. The virus, though down in the state in general, has remained steady in my area, unfortunately. A local young policeman just died due to this, very sad. I honestly don't think this thing is going away anytime soon. I think we may need to adjust to a new normal. We see this often in life on a personal level, but the scope of this is nothing I have seen before during my lifetime. The ironic part for me, as a person who has struggled with anxiety for much of my lifetime, is I feel strong and ready to face this, as best as I can. I think maybe now that I'm an old timer and have lived through the things I have feared most (namely losing loved ones), I'm less anxious. Control what you can and do your best to adjust to the rest. My biggest fear is bringing this home to one of the girls, but we are being as careful as we possibly can.
    Sending everyone strength, care, and love.
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    Victimorthecrime got a reaction from IrmaJean in New age bionic plaque   
    @Klingsor on a more serious note please seek help if you think for a second you might need it. Not sure what your health insurance situation is but providers both in and out of network are offering therapy and prescriptions via Skype, Zoom or just phone call.  Many offer sliding scale because their business has been hit.  This is one of the few things I actually know about because it is part of what I do for a living.  Just do a search. Where there is a will there is a way. 
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