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I've been an MSC member for 3 years, and here is how I sum up a small penis. We, as a people, are seen as sub-human. Now, the sooner we accept that the better. It seems to me, that so many small penis men are exhausting a great deal of mental resources to fight this fact. Accept it, take the L, and live your life within these means.

 

Conversation, or internal dialogue should be in regards to how to live this way, and the emotions that come with that. It's limiting, it's debilitating, humiliating. However, most people are trying to convince themselves & each other that they are on an equal keel with other men, when they simply are not. Stop lying to yourselves.

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Fuck the even keel. They're all miserable too or they wouldn't make everyone else feel like shit. The day a big dick stops cancer hollowing out your arsehole I'll be impressed. 

The guy without legs can't run, the old cunt with dementia can't think straight, the kid with down syndrome gets looked at like a sideshow freak. And I'm a neurotic bulge obsessive with anger issues who occasionally feels peaceful enough to love myself.

The truth is, we're not sub-human, we're the epitome of a typical human. Flawed, deformed and depressed. They don't hate us because of our dicks, they hate us because our dicks remind them that nature is a harsh cunt with no empathy, and if a small dick is handed out on the regular then what the fuck is in store for them? 

Laugh and point, I'm a skinny mirror. You look good compared to me, but what does that mean? (A little Seinfeld reference for what ails ya!)

WHAT A LOVELY DAY!!! ?

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Great real post.......It's absolutely positively true.  I have absolutely confirmed this by working for over two decades in the same place and almost without exception all the really great female coworker friends I have had who were into sex talk have shared with me disappointments of hooking up with men with small dicks.  I have had coworkers tell me that a small dick was the deal breaker in a relationship that was otherwise good......Now others will say "Fuck These Shallow Fucking Women" they aren't the norm.  Bullshit.  They are the norm.  It's not that there aren't women out there who don't see a small cock as a deal breaker, I have come to the conclusion that many otherwise kind and normal women find our types as unacceptable. 

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21 minutes ago, TimmyStan1967 said:

Now others will say "Fuck These Shallow Fucking Women" they aren't the norm.  Bullshit.  They are the norm. 

You damn straight. I work with a lot of spiritual women, nuns and trusted spiritual advisors and they do it too. But if you pulled their card theyd divert the attention away from themselves by taking about letting go of anger and focusing on acceptance. But they're all at it. Nothing stings quite like a renowned spiritual speaker talking about a small penis like it's the only thing left on the table once you become 'spiritually advanced'. Treat everyone and everything with eternal compassion, but small cocks are hilarious, let's not throw the baby dicks out with the bathwater. It took everything in the forgiveness tank not to retaliate to that, but it pissed me off for a few days. I dunno, man. As humans in general, I think we're all well and truly fucked in the head. 

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I think the best way forward for a small penis man is to take a step back, and set realistic goals, as opposed to positive-the-shit out of his thinking in order to attempt the normal life. So, if you're single - instead of spending years on confidence counselling & thousands on a new wardrobe only to realise you've pissed it down the drain the moment it's go time for your little friend, you might want to present yourself other options. Can I live the single life, and if so, how do I deal with this? Should I hire prostitutes, and will that fulfill me? Or should I have sex as much as I need to, causal or with a SO - and make the situation about me getting mine while she's going over grocery lists in her head?

It's unfair for a small penis man to take on the burden of fitting a fairly or generously endowed man. We're in different leagues. I recall @TinyBlackDick for example, say he's getting used to eating alone. What's wrong with that? He doesn't need some know it all shrink to shove a load of positive affirmation garbage down his throat & fuck up his chill. 

 

I was going to write a more technical piece on this for my 3rd year anniversary, but things got busy. It's all the same though. All I'm trying to say, is that it's healthier to live within your means, than to trivialize your weaknesses and exaggerate your strengths. A little darker, but healthier. As for the darkness - it comes with the territory, man. If you see a 5 foot leper jumping for joy and living it large, sedate the bastard and section him.

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13 hours ago, YOTH said:

"Fuck the even keel. They're all miserable too or they wouldn't make everyone else feel like shit. The day a big dick stops cancer hollowing out your arsehole I'll be impressed..."

Bring me one person that doesn't use morality as their fundamental approach to reconcile penis size, and I'll show you 10 big dicks that cure cancer. And morality is a whore to necessity & blind to reason.

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6 hours ago, Small said:

Bring me one person that doesn't use morality as their fundamental approach to reconcile...

Morality is always used to justify the worst injustices. You can be sure that if the species was reduced to just two individuals, one would find something to hate and slaughter the other over and think they were morally justified in doing so. It's for good reason that it's been said "hell is other people". 

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Of all tyrannies, a tyranny sincerely exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It would be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.

- C.S. Lewis

 

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8 hours ago, Small said:

Bring me one person that doesn't use morality as their fundamental approach to reconcile penis size, and I'll show you 10 big dicks that cure cancer. And morality is a whore to necessity & blind to reason.

1 hour ago, Klingcorn said:

Morality is always used to justify the worst injustices.

morality is a purely subjective thing of which no one is exempt.

- Resolute

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8 hours ago, Resolute said:

morality is a purely subjective thing of which no one is exempt.

- Resolute

Neither is the sensation of an orgasm. That's why a big ol' Dick is so praiseworthy, even to women who claim to be compassionate. Oh what ecstasy! Nothing can compete with the friction of love. In porngraphy the dirty talk often involves words like, "punish me, punish me" or "make it hurt" because they've been a "bad" girl. Now that's some "hard talk" if I've ever heard it. 

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@Small what do you think is the best option for sexually frustrated, involuntarily celibate men? You mentioned prostitutes and the like earlier, but what if you can't afford or find any except crackheads? Would you recommend porn? And what if you're like me and can't really compensate with anything else, if, as I've often claimed, the sex game is just that - a social status and dominance establishing technique like those seen in chimpanzees or hyenas? What if you can't compensate for that loss by being extremely successful financially, incredibly brilliant, or physically intimidating to get respect? Basically what I'm saying is that it's a question of possessing power of some kind, but if you're like me you will have none or next to none. What is the option then? I would suggest being a hermit and never interacting with society which would be my very first choice but it unfortunately requires a significant degree of financial and (these days) political independence few people could ever possibly obtain. 

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@Klingcorn

I don't have an answer, but here is a thought that has helped me. Perhaps it will help you. If a man is unable to give form to a woman, it might be helpful for him instead to take form. Without losing oneself to the peculiar concept of love and instead keeping his essence in tact - the anger, hate, & darkness. I do think it's possible to allow god to become the potter whilst assuming the role of the pot. I think our problems are more deep rooted than sex as a feeling - and more so in the act of giving and taking form. I won't go into the other stuff. It's been said so many times, and I'm in the same boat as you. 

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It's true that we can't change or control how others view or feel about us. I could personally accept that others felt a certain way about me, but in accepting that, it wouldn't then necessarily mean I agreed with their position and would then live by it.

Is there ever a part of you that wants to say, #&$# what some people in society think, society doesn't make me me?
For me personally, no human could ever be sub-human because of a body part.

Just offering a different perspective. It's possible I can't ever completely understand, as much as I want to. I want all of you to feel peace and do what works best for you. 

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I think we've finally exasperated Beth.

For me I think my whole personality and perspective on life boils down to one thing: I've never once felt in control of my life or the events around me, but rather always and constantly at the mercy of other people and things. For a self identified man, this is a horrible feeling, maybe the worst feeling in the world. I'm unsuccessful professionally, I'm ugly, I'm broke, I'm not talented, and I'm not physically imposing. What this basically means is that I'm unable to exert my will to any effective degree in any way, I have no power to shape my own life or the influences around me, mainly society's influence, including the power to escape it. My most delicious dream is being able to cave a guy's jaw in when they mouth off, but I'll never be able to do that unless it's a 10 year old because I'm a physical worm. So I get no respect, like Rodney Dangerfield, but for real.

I suppose the more one approaches my limit as a man, the more of a "Klingsor" personality they will have. I mean look how I spend my time - my social escapades consist of cat fighting with people I've never actually met on an online forum for men with insecurity issues related to a small penis. My only crime has been to openly state this which has put many past members off I think. That's why I made the poll because I wanted to see if I and others needed to post elsewhere or confine our comments to other platforms away from this forum. I've been called toxic many times, but the way I see it, I'm just channeling the toxicity of the world.

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No, not exasperated... I was trying to help empower you to fight for yourselves, but I understand life is not always so simple and there aren't always easy answers.

Klingsor, Klingcorn, Pax...All are a part of you. You still have the power to be you, I think, and to know that it's okay to be you. No expectations, no comparisons...just be... One day maybe you can feel that? I hope so. I do hear you. I'm sorry for this struggle. :(

@Small, thank you for the smile. :lol:

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13 hours ago, Klingcorn said:

My most delicious dream is being able to cave a guy's jaw in when they mouth off, but I'll never be able to do that unless it's a 10 year old because I'm a physical worm (...)

 I mean look how I spend my time - my social escapades consist of cat fighting with people I've never actually met on an online forum for men with insecurity issues related to a small penis.

Same here. I'm a weakling. I bet you if I cracked the average guy full force on the jaw I'd sprain my wrist and he'd barely flinch. I mostly come here to socialise, and that's worse. I'm not interesting enough for Facebook, not popular enough for Twitter end I'm way too ugly for Instagram. I mean, I don't even take breaks from the msc anymore. I feel embarrassed about it. 

I was watching a film called the Revenant. It was set during the war between the Indigenous Americans and the invading Europeans. Anyway, in a small unit of Europeans was a white man (DiCaprio) with a half Indian son. The group harboured a great deal of hostility towards his son & dismissed any input he offered to the group. At one point he said something like "Father, I am right! But they won't listen!" Frustrated, his dad pulled him to a side and responded "Son! They're not listening to your words. They're looking at the colour of your face!" 

Anyway, speaking for myself, anything I say in real life will always be received in the context of my physical, economic, and social standing. My words are indistinguished from my form. I am defeated before I even open my mouth. That's why I typically retreat to the online world to socialise. And even then, I very much am at odds with people in general.

 

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