Helpless_loner Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 1 hour ago, Griz said: @Victimorthecrime yeah it is definitely above what’s really needed lol. But that would be the dream one for me lol I've been visiting jelqing forums for about a year now (some exercises that "grant you" not only length and girth to a certain extent but also harder erections if you do them with consistency . Or so they say.... ) and I can tell you that 7 inches of girth is the size that of a horse, not possible for a human being haha 1 hour ago, Victimorthecrime said: Good God Griz that would be much too large for most women. On the plus side (I imagine) is the size queens would be ready to rock-n-roll. Someone had a similar thread years ago and I remember saying I would like 6.5" x 5". Anyone that had a problem w that I would just laugh and move on. I am NBP 5" x 4.85". I had always heard 6" was average and felt I was an inch too small so that is why I honestly said I was below average when I came here. I never heard of bone press when I came here until a guy named Jessie explained it and then I googled it. Honestly I believe being rock hard and lasting a long time means more to the fuck-buddy girls than sheer size. That and having a good body and confident attitude that turns them on to begin with. I have always contended that here. Truthfully I worry about money and overall life enjoyment far more than anything sex related. At 5.5 x 4.2 at best in what I can call an exceptional day (never in front of a woman) I can safely say I'd give a lung or kidney to be like that..... Griz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 Remember @Helpless_loner 6.5 x 5 is my ideal/dream size, not my actual size. Hope I was clear in how I wrote it. If your 5.5 is NBP then you best me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helpless_loner Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 10 minutes ago, Victimorthecrime said: Remember @Helpless_loner 6.5 x 5 is my ideal/dream size, not my actual size. Hope I was clear in how I wrote it. If your 5.5 is NBP then you best me. Oh yeah I understood... Point is, that would be my dream size too. Nothing big, you know. I just want to be average and not being afraid of getting a girlfriend and let alone hook ups or affairs... Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 Oh ok thanks for the clarification @Helpless_loner Helpless_loner 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helpless_loner Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 4 minutes ago, Victimorthecrime said: Oh ok thanks for the clarification @Helpless_loner Oh those 5.5 are bone pressed =( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostBoy Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 7 hours ago, Helpless_loner said: Oh those 5.5 are bone pressed =( Even if it is bone pressed, you are at or above the statistical average. The 4.2 girth is slightly smaller than average but probably not by enough that it could be discerned from the average. Don't get me wrong, I'd love 6.5x5 as well but there's no doubt that is well above average in length and girth. BTW, I bought my wife a dildo with a 7" girth many years ago. That thing is huge! The length of it hurts her if i try to go all the way in (8") but the girth is okay if I take it slow to begin with. Griz 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Small Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 @lostboy1 In ur opinion, would 7" x 6" (l x g) non bp be the perfect overall size? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Griz Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 3 hours ago, lostboy1 said: Even if it is bone pressed, you are at or above the statistical average. The 4.2 girth is slightly smaller than average but probably not by enough that it could be discerned from the average. Don't get me wrong, I'd love 6.5x5 as well but there's no doubt that is well above average in length and girth. BTW, I bought my wife a dildo with a 7" girth many years ago. That thing is huge! The length of it hurts her if i try to go all the way in (8") but the girth is okay if I take it slow to begin with. My gf and I went to a sex show a couple years back and we bought this mystery bag. And in it among all the little things that were in it was this massive dildo. I want to say it’s 8” in length but I don’t know about the girth but the thing is huge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2thin2win Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 my flaccid is ~4"x4". It used to be a lot smaller. I was around 5.5" x 4.25" NBEL. I am now 6"x4.7". My goal is 6" x 5". A lot of girls used to make fun of my girth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2thin2win Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 On 11/14/2017 at 1:50 PM, Small said: On a serious note, I value girth more than length. I suppose I'd be happy with a 5.5 x 5.5. I don't have issues with my flaccid size though it is small too. Is there anything you guys like about your penises? I value girth as well much more than length. I don't think it matters if you're 4" or 6" in length to the girl. I noticed a quarter inch of girth very much matters to the girl; it's weird like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostBoy Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 6 hours ago, Small said: @lostboy1 In ur opinion, would 7" x 6" (l x g) non bp be the perfect overall size? Hi @Small, I would love to be that size! Is it perfect? Maybe to me but it may depend for the girl. I think 7" non bp would be a little long for my wife (based on the toys we've used) but I think she'd love 6" of girth though. 7x6 would also be aesthetically pleasing to me. My wife would probably prefer 6x6 but I don't think that would be as "pretty". 😎 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helpless_loner Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 3 hours ago, 2thin2win said: my flaccid is ~4"x4". It used to be a lot smaller. I was around 5.5" x 4.25" NBEL. I am now 6"x4.7". My goal is 6" x 5". A lot of girls used to make fun of my girth. What did you do, jelqing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2thin2win Posted January 22, 2018 Report Share Posted January 22, 2018 I did start jelqing (that didn't really help as much as the other stuff on those forums) on December 1st of 2017. As mentioned in other posts, I was very skeptical (still am for some reason), however, it became "my time" and was very peaceful and enjoying while doing it. I am a man of science so didn't think for the life of me anything would happen. I read post after post on those forums and many guys don't gain anything and they have been doing it for years, but many did. So i told myself, " well it can't hurt to give it my best shot for 6 months". Needless to say I was/am absolutely shocked at what happened. (i didn't buy anything as the forum says not to or spend any kind of money although i did donate yesterday as i owe them a lot as i'm way happier now and not stressed about my dick). I think whether you grow or not has to do with the way your dick is structured. If you go to those forums, look into PE theory. There's one that seems to make sense and it's about how the tunica is structured as some people have three layers, some have two and some have one. I'm thinking i might have lucked out and have only one (only 7% of people have that) therefore i am able to gain very quickly. As i was against it a few weeks ago, I would now say give it a try and see what happens. Don't go spending money on penis pumps or extenders (although extenders do have scientific proof of working) or anything. You hands and maybe a penis ring work best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostBoy Posted January 23, 2018 Report Share Posted January 23, 2018 3 hours ago, 2thin2win said: I did start jelqing (that didn't really help as much as the other stuff on those forums) on December 1st of 2017. I'm not sure I understand. Are you saying the jelqing didn't help as much as the other stuff? If that's the case, can you explain what "other stuff" you mean? Also, what forums are you referring to? Thx Lost Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2thin2win Posted January 23, 2018 Report Share Posted January 23, 2018 I don't want to advocate for any one particular forum as I haven't been on most of them. I personally am at PEgym and Thunders but am by no means telling you those are the best or even the one's to go to. On the site, or probably any of them out there, there's instruction manuals, videos and stuff about the different exercises (everything is free and no one will try and get you to buy anything except maybe a heating pad). My recommendation would be that if anyone is trying to sell you something, go to a different forum fast. I started with my own version of JP90, which the more experienced people will tell a new person to start with. I believe pretty much all the people have stated that their flaccid has improved significantly, however, it's seems kind of hit and miss whether or not erect gains are made. I would say from my perusal of the sites that most do gain something, some more than others. Hope that helps. As i told another member, at the very least you'll get a better flaccid and you'll also get hope that things will get better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Griz Posted January 23, 2018 Report Share Posted January 23, 2018 I’d love a better flaccid. I have always wanted a better bulge in my pants it seems. atxbat 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atxbat Posted February 10, 2018 Report Share Posted February 10, 2018 I actually haven't measured in about 15 or 20 years, but I'm about 4 inches. I would like to be around 7 or 8. Don't know about girth. LostBoy, YOTH and Griz 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
averagebutsmall Posted March 11, 2018 Report Share Posted March 11, 2018 I'm lucky with my length, I'm about 15.5 centimeters, which would be around 6.1 inches. On a good day, I can probably hit 6.2. But my girth is just 4.5-4.7 (a little bit thicker of the glans). There are of course good and bad sides to having a thin penis (thin penis = more likely for anal action). But I think having 5-5.2 inches in girth would be more ideal. And I wish I wasn't a grower. I'm like 3 inches flaccid and my penis is thin. It looks really small flaccid and that has always made me uncomfortable (always taken somewhat drastic measurements to hide it) because a lot of people still think small flaccid size = small penis even while erect. I wish I was at least around 5 inches in flaccid state. Griz and YOTH 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Griz Posted March 11, 2018 Report Share Posted March 11, 2018 9 hours ago, averagebutsmall said: I'm lucky with my length, I'm about 15.5 centimeters, which would be around 6.1 inches. On a good day, I can probably hit 6.2. But my girth is just 4.5-4.7 (a little bit thicker of the glans). There are of course good and bad sides to having a thin penis (thin penis = more likely for anal action). But I think having 5-5.2 inches in girth would be more ideal. And I wish I wasn't a grower. I'm like 3 inches flaccid and my penis is thin. It looks really small flaccid and that has always made me uncomfortable (always taken somewhat drastic measurements to hide it) because a lot of people still think small flaccid size = small penis even while erect. I wish I was at least around 5 inches in flaccid state. That’s a great length man. I don’t mind being a grower, but as I said before, I’d love a bigger flaccid state for a better bulge. 5 inches would be awesome to have in a flaccid state. But I’d still want to grow lol. I like the element of surprise lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOTH Posted March 12, 2018 Report Share Posted March 12, 2018 @averagebutsmall that's my deal in a nutshell. I coined the issue (or maybe I heard it elsewhere) perceived SPS rather than actual SPS. Not that it makes Any difference to our state of minds, but the whole bulge thing can be really frustrating, to the point of panic attacks and melt downs, especially during the summer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_anonymous_one Posted June 12, 2019 Report Share Posted June 12, 2019 i can't say i am too unhappy about my length. but my girth is quite bad. around 4.25 inches. i would like to be an inch girthier but as hasa been said, it ain't gonna happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helpless_loner Posted July 2, 2019 Report Share Posted July 2, 2019 I range between 5.5 to 5.8 inches of length in a very good day while bone pressing. But a rather sad girth of 4.3 to 4.4, again in a very good day. I wish I was 6.5 in length, 5.2 in girth and 4 inches flaccid. You know, nothing really big but enough just to not be afraid.... Ours is a life of being afraid of laughs and rejection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sethpian Posted July 2, 2019 Report Share Posted July 2, 2019 I am about 3.2" max bone pressed and slightly less than 1" diameter. I wish I m in normal size range like the average which they claimed to be 5.5" or even 5" I will be happy too because I m only a small frame 5'-3" tall person. P/s can I use metric measurements in future post. I noticed most people here still using imperial measurements. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perplex Posted July 15, 2019 Report Share Posted July 15, 2019 On 9/25/2017 at 3:39 AM, LostBoy said: It's definitely embarrassing to give these kind of details but I feel that I need to be open or else I won't be able to address it. Flaccid I am about 1.2" bone pressed and visually I can be anywhere from 0" to about 1" normally. Erect (bone pressed) I am about 3.6" but again that looks like 2.5" visually. Erect girth is about 3.7". My ideal size would be around 3" flaccid and 6" erect with about a 4.5" girth. I'm not wanting to be "huge" but high normal would be a wonderful change. I'm not sure why we are discussing this because in reality we have what God gave us and that's not going to change but if I had my ideal size then I tend to believe that I would not be on here discussing this topic. Uhh. Hey, have you found a solution? I have a similar size with you. Around 1.2 soft but i only have around 2.3-2.5 erect. So i wanted to know what i could do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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