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I was never embarrassed... well not totally true. My G/F who become my wife and a couple ended up doing strip poker. I was naked in no time and my G/F was so embarrassed as it was now known that our friends knew i had a tiny penis...she went bright red.... 

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11 minutes ago, neil said:

I was never embarrassed... well not totally true. My G/F who become my wife and a couple ended up doing strip poker. I was naked in no time and my G/F was so embarrassed as it was now known that our friends knew i had a tiny penis...she went bright red.... 

That sucks but I have to give you credit for having the balls to do strip poker. I could never be naked in front of people I know or associate with regularly.

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Thank you... I am an Exhibitionist so maybe that helped. however we went away and in a caravan with the same couple had another game... this time i got erect... I heard her say .. wowww it does get big lol

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On 9/29/2017 at 3:50 PM, YOTH said:

 I told her when we first met that because we're so insecure and struggled to love ourselves, if she loved my body I'd love hers.

Dude that is so fucking awesome. Perhaps that is why I am attracted to petite, smaller-breasted girls. I have always wondered if my natural attraction to petite girls was a product of my SPS. But I day dream constantly about finding a girl who is cute as hell but doesn't think she is and has body issues of her own (particularly something like small breasts). It would be so awesome to be able to use that line in my lifetime, I tell you what.

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On 10/14/2017 at 7:07 AM, Klingsor said:

Practically every guy posting here has a non-existent sex life and would sell their soul to feel comfortable and confident in their own fucking skin. 

Analogy:

"Hey kids with Cerebral Palsy, I'm a dude with no behavioral, motor, cognitive, or other unspecified neurological disorders. I'm here to tell you that quality of life is what you make it. Being able to feed, clothe, and shit yourself without help is not all it's cracked up to be. So many responsibilities! You have to deal with bills, a job, ex wives, step kids, angry girlfriends...drama, drama, drama. You guys have it so good! People take care of you 24/7, just think about that! Man I envy you guys...hey, sorry guys, but that hot nurse I met on the way in is giving me "the look", I gotta rush...*eye roll*...see what I mean about responsibility, normality never cuts you a break. You guys are so lucky!"

Hahahaha. Oh my God. That was funny. I mean, I don't agree with being quite so rude/sarcastic to anyone on these forums, but that was well said.

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On 10/17/2017 at 10:23 AM, lostboy1 said:

I agree with you. I think many times it is for the guy but I wonder why? Is it because we feel that we are satisfying our lover by providing something we can't give personally? 

I have never done this because I'm afraid it could spark longer term interest from my wife (but I have thought/fantasized about it often). I'm just not secure enough to do this even though I've fantasized many times. The reason that I would even consider it would be that I would enjoy seeing someone satisfy my wife without extra "accessories".

My true fantasy would be to watch her have multiple orgasms with just a cock. I don't know if it would even be possible for her but that's where my fantasies go.

 

Hey man have you tried like any of the different "deep penetration" positions that they reccomend for small dicks on the internet? I was told that even if you are 3 or 4 inches erect, there are ways to get a woman off vaginally. Have you tried a bunch of different things (with your dick)? Like, moving in circles. What was that fucking movie (one of the only movies to really address the issue) and the girl kept telling the guy to fuck her in circles? Have you tried the circles?

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On 10/17/2017 at 12:00 PM, Lodz said:

She has told me she would not be able to enjoy being with another man because of her worrying how it might hurt me. I know her well enough to see that this is the truth. It would mess her up.

Well you are one lucky man. I only hope that whoever I eventually end up with cared about me that much to not do anything just on the POTENTIAL it would hurt me.

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On 11/11/2017 at 11:41 AM, YOTH said:

I had a mate was a premature ejaculator, he was mentally screwed up too, he only had to be groped by a girl and he'd blow his load, not to mention once cumming on a particularly old bus with bad (or good depending on your views) vibrations.

Sigh...I'm afraid I might be one of those. (Although I would never be able to cum on a bus just from the vibrations LOL, that is a crazy story and I will be sure to remember that for when I have to say "yeah, well at least I don't cum from bus vibrations". Yeah, so, I am the type of guy that can go from 1 inch flaccid to 4 or so inches hard erect, ready to go in LITERALLY FIVE SECONDS. When I masturbate, I dont even go all the way and over the head (my head is way too sensitive). I masturbate with my dick between my middle and ring fingers up to the base of the head and down. Mind you, this is while watching porn that is "worthy" meaning super hot and arousing for me. If I had to masturbate without porn, that would be entirely different and I would have to go full on and even use lotion or what not. So, on the plus side, I know that if I am not super aroused, I can last a decent (aka, not embarressing) amount of time. The problem will be when I am excited (which will be every damn time at least for the first 50 fucks I bet), I will cum super duper fast (like I bet as soon as I get my dick into a mouth or vag). When I used to play around and play-wrestle with this girl as I was progressing through puberty, I was hard the entire time (never came in my pants, but we were just wrestling with clothes on, if we were naked, I would have). If I don't masturbate at least once or twice a week, I will start cumming in my sleep.

Basically, it is going to suck when I do first get a girl and we start fooling around. I'm going to have to tell her "look, my dick is super sensitive and I am super excited, I'm gonna cum like instantly, but just shrug it off because my recovery time is legendary" so that gets me to the one silver lining of my premie ejac problems: I can cum and within 30 seconds start getting hard again (probably half that time if a female is doing the pleasing). Let's just say a girl is going down on me and I hadn't came in 2-3 days (typically how long I go between masturbation), I believe (based on real life experience) I would cum in thirty seconds (that's right a 30 second blowjob). If the girl just kept going at it, I bet I the 2nd orgasm would come a minute after the 1st one. And if she kept going (which, my God, marry me now girlie is what I would be thinking at that point) probably two minutes after that. That's three in three and a half minutes! 

Does anyone have THAT big of a quick trigger? From soft to hard in literally five seconds???

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8 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Hey man have you tried like any of the different "deep penetration" positions that they reccomend for small dicks on the internet? I was told that even if you are 3 or 4 inches erect, there are ways to get a woman off vaginally. Have you tried a bunch of different things (with your dick)? Like, moving in circles. What was that fucking movie (one of the only movies to really address the issue) and the girl kept telling the guy to fuck her in circles? Have you tried the circles?

I have tried everything. I have been married a long time and we are both open to trying different things sexually so there is not much we have not tries with our bodies. I've done every position a guy of my size is capable of doing and yes, even circles.

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For whatever reason I watched a lot of porn yesterday for the first time in a long time and I took note that many of the girls taking big ones looked like it hurt. Several even said so. Others could be seen pushing the guy away w their hand, squirming away and rubbing their clit furiously in an effort to mitigate the sensation.  I really think the idea that 'the bigger the better' is misguided.  

 

 

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I posted this somewhere else:   It's embarrassing enough that my hard and throbbing dick is still smaller then any of my wife's ex-boyfriend totally flaccid cocks so yeah I try to hide my flaccid dick from her.  Of course she always notices this, and demands me to show it to her, and she'll say we both know it's tiny so just get on with it...there now that wasn't so bad was it, I mean yes the size is but having to show me isn't so bad....and she'll torment me deliciously for the next quarter hour.

On vacation my wife took me to a nude beach. She had packed this tiny little white speedo that she told me I could wear to the beach but she was going to make me take it off at some point. At the beach I was embarrassed enough being hard in my little speedo, especially since my wife set us down close to a group of young men. It wasn't long before the presence of my wife's naked body was making it difficult for them not to get hard and she actually told one of them not to worry he had a gorgeous hard cock. Next thing you know 8 naked boys are all around my wife and me chatting. This is when my wife told the group that I was embarrassed because I had a tiny penis and if I didn't take off my bathing suit would they hold me down and strip it off me for her?  With there ready agreement I reluctantly wiggled out of the speedo while staying seated.  I have to say it was very embarrassing, but also very exciting. The boys who had been flirting openly with my wife became even more confident and emboldened and soon my wife was laying with her head on this boy's thigh, every time she turned her head her lips would gently brush along his hard cock, she had several hands touching and caressing her body and both of her hands had been delicately placed on young hard cocks which she held onto firmly and would occasionally give a gentle stroke. But at mid-day the boys had to leave.  We were on the beach for hours my little dick hard and exposed the whole time, there were many who looked and tried to hide giggles, there were some men who saw me and approached my wife very confidently. At the end of the day she gave my hard little dick a grab and said look at that, hundreds of people now know you have a tiny little dick and the world didn't stop, and I want your tongue buried between my legs worse then ever!!!

As for the massive ex-boyfriends....yeah they were better, but it's just sex with them it's just physical. I can still please her and it's totally different, it's emotional and spiritual, at least that's what she said 

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14 hours ago, GoldenBoyX said:

A lot of these posts seem fake like the last one and I hate that cuz it does a disservice to this whole topic. I was going to write about my feelings being seen naked by my girlfriend but now it seems like a waste. Anyway yea I have similar feelings op.

Ignore that bullshit post.

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I definitely feel embarrassed in front of my wife. I don't cover up. I had a girl that was a friend who I talked with about things. I told her how embarrassing it was even with my wife. I told her I was barely 3 1/2 inches erect. That was a mistake. She told everyone we knew and it's followed me around for years. People I barely know laughing when I enter a restaurant or store. I only talk about with my therapist now. I know I can trust her. 

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On 9/8/2019 at 3:12 AM, Rolled up said:

I definitely feel embarrassed in front of my wife. I don't cover up. I had a girl that was a friend who I talked with about things. I told her how embarrassing it was even with my wife. I told her I was barely 3 1/2 inches erect. That was a mistake. She told everyone we knew and it's followed me around for years. People I barely know laughing when I enter a restaurant or store. I only talk about with my therapist now. I know I can trust her. 

That's not a friend 

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On 9/29/2017 at 10:26 AM, LostBoy said:

I was just curious how many guys out there are married and embarrassed to be naked in front of your wife? I have been married for many years and my wife sees me naked quite frequently but when I am flaccid I catch myself "covering up" or turning away to hide myself when she is around. I do it discretely so she doesn't notice but I do my best, when I'm at my smallest, not to be seen by her.

 

In my mind this sounds ridiculous because she has seen me naked many many times and she knows how big (or small) I am. I keep saying that she's seen me flaccid before so quit worrying about it but I can't see to keep from minimizing the view of the "total package" when she is around.

 

I was just curious if anyone else did the same thing.

At least one mental trap into which I have not fallen.  I was always comfortable naked in front of both my wives.

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