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Small Penis Sexual Experiences  

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  1. 1. How many sexual partners have you had in life?

    • None
      3
    • 1-3
      10
    • 4-7
      1
    • 8+
      8
  2. 2. Have any sexual partners mentioned your small size (before you mentioned it)?

    • No, If it was discussed I started the conversation.
      12
    • Yes, it was brought up by them but not in a mean way.
      6
    • Yes, and they were hateful or humiliated me on purpose
      4
  3. 3. What is your non boned pressed size (erect)?

    • <3" length and <4" girth
      7
    • <4" length and <4.5" girth
      5
    • <4" length and <5" girth
      2
    • <5" length and <4.5" girth
      1
    • <5" length and <5" girth
      3
    • >5" length or girth
      4


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Here's another poll. Yes, I'm bored because it's quiet on here.

We talk about being afraid of being made fun of and our number of partners frequently but I thought I would put it in a poll with a reference to our sizes as well.

Enjoy.

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2 hours ago, Small said:

I estimated my bp length because I don't usually use it. 

Okay, so maybe this is a good place to list all of our stats (for those willing to share)...

 

Never mind. I changed my mind. I started a new thread on this topic.

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I still have yet to measure. But I was looking at it today and starting to worry I might not even be 4 inch bone pressed. Honestly, I just need to find a ruler lol. But like I mentioned on the other post, I don't know if all of this measuring is a good thing for this community. If society is ever going to get into the mindset of size not mattering, we need to first stop thinking these numbers are important.

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9 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

I don't know if all of this measuring is a good thing for this community. If society is ever going to get into the mindset of size not mattering, we need to first stop thinking these numbers are important.

As I mentioned, this is a personal choice. I agree that obsessively measuring is not good and I'm guilty of it. It may not be good for you to discuss your size compared to others in the community but it may help others to know they're really not alone in their size.

In the end, size does matter to many and I don't think that we will get to a point where a 3" dong is as appreciated as a 7" but hopefully we can educate people and get to a point where it's at least not mocked by the world.

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4 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

In the end, size does matter to many and I don't think that we will get to a point where a 3" dong is as appreciated as a 7"

If we got our hands on a time machine and went back to ancient Greece, we could get to that point. lol. And that's the funny thing about all of the size stuff is that it was the complete opposite way back in history. When I tell people that it blows their minds. They almost can't believe it was that way but then they think about all of the statues/paintings (Adam has quite the micropenis but whatever, he got to touch God) and they tell me "you're right."

 

4 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

but hopefully we can educate people and get to a point where it's at least not mocked by the world.

That's why I'm so glad this forum exists and I'm glad for everyone who is active on here. If I could redo my 20s, I would have moved to L.A. and tried to become a microdick porn star. Like, I love AMWF porn (which for those who don't know means Asian men, White female) because Asian guys are so good at fucking and they prove that you can get a girl off with an undersized dick. And for those guys who are skeptical and think the girls are faking it, I can link you some videos of girls squirting while fucking an Asian guy (and I'm pretty sure that only happens if the girl is coming, correct?) and I can link you videos where the girl, like, if she's faking it she should win best actress kind of thing. Kind of a random me talking about this, but I feel like that's one way is to show people that small dicks can get the job done and it's something that has been fascinating me (small dick porn) as of lately.

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Hi @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero,

I'm not into small penis porn because this almost seems like small penis humiliation and I'm not a huge fan of that either. Also, porn is like any other movie, they can get very creative in acting and special effects and from my understanding most porn stars never reach orgasm while filming.

I do completely agree with you that long ago a large penis was not the definition of masculinity that it has become today. We have to consider, though, that in the Greek times most marriages were out of convenience or were for monetary purposes (love was an afterthought). In addition to this, a "woman's needs" was not really taken into consideration. This did not change until women gained additional equality and liberation and that has been very recently (1950's and 1960's). I think we are now in a different world as women have choices and can "test the goods" before choosing a mate which is much different than history.

In addition to this, it probably was not well known, by women, what an average, small, and large penis even meant. If all they had seen was a 4" penis then in their mind that would be"normal" and the same would hold true if the only penis they had seen was 7". Now, with the internet and the proliferation of porn, you can get all of the information you want. This information is used to set expectations and to understand options.

While there will likely be a subset of females who either don't care about size or even prefer smaller guys, I think the majority of women now have some level of preference due to information availability.

All else being equal regarding price, if all you've been exposed to is a sirloin, (and you like steak) then you will probably love eating it but if you were exposed to filet mignon, bone in ribeye, or a prime rib then chances are you would never go back to sirloin. It's all about what you know about.

Now I'm hungry 😋 

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10 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

I'm not into small penis porn because this almost seems like small penis humiliation and I'm not a huge fan of that either.

That's so not true. In fact, almost all of the amateur small dick porn I see is not SPH and the AMWF porn, none of it is because it is professionally done for the Japanese market (so they aren't going to humiliate themselves obviously). yes, there is SPH porn out there but it usually comes with the tag SPH or it says in the title "girl laughs at ______". It always pisses me off when I do find a good small dick porn video and everything is going well and then the girl starts insulting the guy. But thats why most of what I watch is AMWF or amateur stuff (or even midamateur stuff like chickpass or home video porn both semi-professional channels that most of the guys are small or average)
 

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On 12/23/2017 at 7:44 PM, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

If we got our hands on a time machine and went back to ancient Greece, we could get to that point. lol. And that's the funny thing about all of the size stuff is that it was the complete opposite way back in history. When I tell people that it blows their minds. They almost can't believe it was that way but then they think about all of the statues/paintings (Adam has quite the micropenis but whatever, he got to touch God) and they tell me "you're right."

 

That's why I'm so glad this forum exists and I'm glad for everyone who is active on here. If I could redo my 20s, I would have moved to L.A. and tried to become a microdick porn star. Like, I love AMWF porn (which for those who don't know means Asian men, White female) because Asian guys are so good at fucking and they prove that you can get a girl off with an undersized dick. And for those guys who are skeptical and think the girls are faking it, I can link you some videos of girls squirting while fucking an Asian guy (and I'm pretty sure that only happens if the girl is coming, correct?) and I can link you videos where the girl, like, if she's faking it she should win best actress kind of thing. Kind of a random me talking about this, but I feel like that's one way is to show people that small dicks can get the job done and it's something that has been fascinating me (small dick porn) as of lately.

I have seen some AM/WF porn before, not a huge amount but some. Certainly in Japanese porn they pixellate out the genitalia which is really stupid and defeats the purpose of it being pornography, but hey, I don't make their laws. And some white (American) women have appeared in Japanese porn.

Feel free to DM the links to me so I can check it out.

I think there was a porn actor called Keni Styles as well if I remember rightly a few years ago and he was basically the only mainstream Asian male porn actor.

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3 hours ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

I think there was a porn actor called Keni Styles as well if I remember rightly a few years ago and he was basically the only mainstream Asian male porn actor.

Fuuuck that guy, he's huge, bigger than most white guys. I'm into the smaller Asian guys. And fortunately you can find a decent amount of uncensored AMWF pr0n but there is wayyy more censored that's for sure. Someone needs to invent an application that takes the pixelation away lol.

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16 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Fuuuck that guy, he's huge, bigger than most white guys. I'm into the smaller Asian guys. And fortunately you can find a decent amount of uncensored AMWF pr0n but there is wayyy more censored that's for sure. Someone needs to invent an application that takes the pixelation away lol.

It's weird how heterosexual men seem to care more about the guy that's in a porno than the girl that's in it? The guy is just there to do the fucking isn't he? Lol

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I don't buy into the whole "Asians are tiny" stuff. I'm half asian but took more of my father's (white) genes and my brother took more of the asian side. Well,  his dick is enormous and mine...not so much. Also, I've had a few asian friends with super large dicks. I think it's more of what part of Asia you come from. 

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On 12/28/2017 at 10:39 AM, Powerhouse8000 said:

It's weird how heterosexual men seem to care more about the guy that's in a porno than the girl that's in it? The guy is just there to do the fucking isn't he? Lol

It's interesting you mention this because I remember having a conversation with an old buddy of mine who only watches lesbian porn and he was always like "Eww, why do you watch porn with dicks in it." and I told him that for me, I have to put myself in the place of the male (as a fantasy kind of thing). When I was first watching porn back in my teens, the size didn't matter to me and I just watched whatever but now as I've gotten older I can't even watch porn with above average (in real life) sized dicks and I prefer super small dicks. But what's pretty depressing is when I PornHub search "small dick", like 90% of them are bigger than mine I feel :( I don't know, part of me wants to film a POV blowjob scene or something so I can see how it compares (and almost all small dick porn is POV blowjob).

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I don't even watch that much porn these days. I look at pictures on Twitter and other sites, and view short clips, but rarely go on Pornhub type sites or download full length videos.

I think it's hard to view any male in porn as representing yourself, because none of them will look exactly like you.

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On 1/2/2018 at 10:09 AM, Powerhouse8000 said:

I don't even watch that much porn these days. I look at pictures on Twitter and other sites, and view short clips, but rarely go on Pornhub type sites or download full length videos.

Well that's awesome, man. I don't watch that much, I reckon in a week I watch maybe 2-3 hours just for getting off. I don't watch for entertainment. But like, I was at that buddy's birthday party last night and before a few of our other friends showed up it was just me and two of my besties (from the past, it was great to see them and reconnect) and I straight up asked them "so when you guys masturbate, you use porn right?" and they both said yes. I think a good majority of my male friends, I would say 90% maybe even 100% use video porn to masturbate so you are definitely a diamond in the rough or what not when it comes to masturbation.

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3 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Well that's awesome, man. I don't watch that much, I reckon in a week I watch maybe 2-3 hours just for getting off. I don't watch for entertainment. But like, I was at that buddy's birthday party last night and before a few of our other friends showed up it was just me and two of my besties (from the past, it was great to see them and reconnect) and I straight up asked them "so when you guys masturbate, you use porn right?" and they both said yes. I think a good majority of my male friends, I would say 90% maybe even 100% use video porn to masturbate so you are definitely a diamond in the rough or what not when it comes to masturbation.

As I say, I do look at pictures. I get most of my pics from Twitter as I have an account on there for porn.

But no, I don't watch a lot of actual porn videos other than short clips on Twitter, and I hardly ever go on tube sites. I used to watch a lot more porn videos than I do now. I do have some porn videos downloaded that I watch occasionally but they are the same old ones, ones that I've enjoyed for years. There are certain porn actresses (like Paige Turnah, Angela White and Sophie Dee - look up their videos on any tube site if you haven't already) that I would consider to be the best of all time and I don't see any new girls coming out that are hotter than them. I like the ones that are the curvy side of average and probably prefer women in their late 20s and early 30s over teens and early 20s - why this is I do not know but I guess I'm just more attracted to women that are of a similar age to myself and that applies to real life dating as well.

Did I ever mention that I have posted semi-nude pics of myself on Twitter and Fetlife in order to get attention from women? I've received quite a lot of compliments actually, all of which I have screenshotted - as well as a fair few negative comments.

Oh yeah and another thing. Loads of women watch porn, especially the tube sites. My ex girlfriend had the Pornhub app on her phone. Other women I've been involved with have told me they masturbate almost every night.

And one last thing. Be thankful you actually even have friends. I have my workmates, my family and their wider social circle, people I know from pubs and bars, people on Facebook and Whatsapp that often live far away and I may not have seen for years, but I don't have a lot of friends outside of that.

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1 hour ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

I like the ones that are the curvy side of average and probably prefer women in their late 20s and early 30s over teens and early 20s - why this is I do not know but I guess I'm just more attracted to women that are of a similar age to myself and that applies to real life dating as well.

Yeah I could totally see that because it's like girls you could realistically get in real life or what not. I feel you and I think it's very similar to me not wanting to see porn videos with above average sized dicks.
 

1 hour ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

And one last thing. Be thankful you actually even have friends. I have my workmates, my family and their wider social circle, people I know from pubs and bars, people on Facebook and Whatsapp that often live far away and I may not have seen for years, but I don't have a lot of friends outside of that.

Well I used to have a lot more friends but most of them have drifted away and I was just telling my buddy whose birthday party it was how as we get older, all of us have only drifted away further and further and how we can (and should) try to fight that with awesome little gatherings like we had last night. But I am sure you will make new friends (and I'm hoping the same is true with me and a girlfriend, I've worked out for three days in a row and I'm starting to feel (and look) way better), you are a friendly guy! And you know how much those girlies on Tinder/Fetlife want you! :) 

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17 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Yeah I could totally see that because it's like girls you could realistically get in real life or what not. I feel you and I think it's very similar to me not wanting to see porn videos with above average sized dicks.
 

Well I used to have a lot more friends but most of them have drifted away and I was just telling my buddy whose birthday party it was how as we get older, all of us have only drifted away further and further and how we can (and should) try to fight that with awesome little gatherings like we had last night. But I am sure you will make new friends (and I'm hoping the same is true with me and a girlfriend, I've worked out for three days in a row and I'm starting to feel (and look) way better), you are a friendly guy! And you know how much those girlies on Tinder/Fetlife want you! :) 

Haha, well did you actually check out the videos of those porn stars that I suggested? They are just a little bit above what I'd be likely to get in real life. Well above, actually. I think we are always attracted to those who are a little bit out of our league, but not so much wildly so.

That being said, I think I could do better, especially if I lost some weight. I do definitely have the template for looking good but I am just carrying a little too much body fat. I am tall, relatively good looking, with broad shoulders and a relatively muscular build. If I eat well and go to the gym I should manage to look pretty good, but it's very hard for me to do this consistently.

How are you sure that I'll make friends when you don't even really know me?

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54 minutes ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

I think we are always attracted to those who are a little bit out of our league, but not so much wildly so.

YES. That is so true. All of the girls I have been talking to from that dating site are just a tiny, little, eensie, bit out of my league but they don't know that (shh! don't tell them!) That's why I have been working out so much the last few days, I'm trying to get into their league!!

 

55 minutes ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

That being said, I think I could do better, especially if I lost some weight. I do definitely have the template for looking good but I am just carrying a little too much body fat. I am tall, relatively good looking, with broad shoulders and a relatively muscular build. If I eat well and go to the gym I should manage to look pretty good, but it's very hard for me to do this consistently.

How are you sure that I'll make friends when you don't even really know me?

First of all, you sound almost identical to me physically (although you're likely taller, I'm only 5' 11"). I mean, shit, I just uploaded a bunch of pictures to FetLife (lol) so here I'll try to find some that show my build/looks best:

How do I know you'll make friends? Well, it's true that I don't know you but I'm just going off of the way you communicate on here. I have a feeling you are a pretty friendly person who people would feel comfortable talking to. Am I wrong to think that?
 

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I am very different from you looks wise going on those pictures.

Although you are wearing somewhat baggy clothing I can still say with confidence that I am taller and definitely more muscular with broader shoulders than you, but I am also probably fatter as well, although I am working on trying to lose some weight! I am a really big guy in every way whereas you look about average.

My face doesn't look at all like yours particularly, and you definitely look younger than me - although I'm 31, someone guessed my age as 40 recently which is slightly worrying! How old did you say you were, 28?

I also have short hair unlike yours and I have no facial hair either because I shave every other day.

You remind me looks wise a little bit like Gene Ween from the band Ween (if you haven't heard of them I don't blame you) in his younger days (he looks a lot older in recent pictures).

About the making friends thing or whatever, yeah I am a pretty easy guy to talk to and people generally appreciate my sense of humour and suchlike. But honestly sometimes I just don't have that much opportunity to socialise, I have a busy life and so on.

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3 hours ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

My face doesn't look at all like yours particularly, and you definitely look younger than me - although I'm 31, someone guessed my age as 40 recently which is slightly worrying! How old did you say you were, 28?

Yeah I'm 28 and one half years on the 28th of this month. Yeah, I would be a little bummed if someone guessed my age as 9 years older too. Normally when I've played the guessing game in the past, they almost always hit 3-4 years younger but nothing better than that.

3 hours ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

But honestly sometimes I just don't have that much opportunity to socialise, I have a busy life and so on.

Hmm, well make some time! :) You said you live in Scotland, right?

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Hey, @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero I notice (because I'm neurotic) that you look ok bulge wise. I wondered if that was ever an issue for you, as it's one of my personal grievances and my No1 SPS trigger (hate that word, but it's accurate here). Have you always been ok with your physical appearance when dressed? 

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I don't really know what you mean by "ok bulge wise", if you mean I don't have one then yeah that's for damn sure lol. I've never had a problem with my "bulge", I guess I can better explain that as I've never wanted to stuff a sock or anything underneath my boxers to try to look bigger. Maybe it's because I don't check other guys bulges, I don't know. When I'm swimming, I don't even think about it (although I wear trunks and not a speedo). So I guess that would mean yes, I have been okay with my physical appearence when dressed. Really, the biggest two non-penis physical issues for me is the weight and the slowly receding hairline (especially since I have such a big forehead).

Maybe I'm mistaken but I have always thought that unless you were hung like a moose, one wouldn't really have a bulge. Maybe I was wrong.

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