Small Penis Sexual Experience Poll

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

1 hour ago, YOTH said:

Yeh, it's copy and paste, I'm way too lazy to be creative. Listen, if you don't want to measure, don't measure. It's not important to do it if you feel better guessing at your size. If it's possibly going to start a period of unrest from measuring then just fuck it off. It's not that important. 

I appreciate that, no it's no thing. I already know how terribly small I am. But like, the more I talk about it with this girl, the more I am convinced it won't matter to her. The last thing she said (in response to me saying how nervous I am and that I hate my dick) was "omg, we can do so many other things!" and "don't worry" so that was nice to hear lol. And I think it's big enough to fuck her, I truly do. Like I've seen my share of AMWF porn, those Asian guys make it work, so...

[YOTH]

I'm really happy that she's saying those things, you're a lucky guy. It's genuinely awesome that you're not going in blind and worried, that has to be a rarity for us smaller guys. I'd say the main problem with smaller guys (or me at least) starting relationships is the reveal so not having to deal with that is brilliant. I'm really pleased for you. Keep us posted

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

30 minutes ago, YOTH said:

I'm really happy that she's saying those things, you're a lucky guy. It's genuinely awesome that you're not going in blind and worried, that has to be a rarity for us smaller guys. I'd say the main problem with smaller guys (or me at least) starting relationships is the reveal so not having to deal with that is brilliant. I'm really pleased for you. Keep us posted

Man, you have no fucking idea lol. I am so relieved. There's going to be a reveal, sadly, but I know she'll handle it with utmost love/care. I'm curious how many "reveals" you have had and how they have went. And did you reveal erect or non erect? I need like all the information regarding this because like I said, sometime this week (soon as she gets drug tested lol)

[YOTH]

I don't know, too many times. Some were ok, some were horrific. I mostly avoided it and still have a handful of times I remember vividly. Some were ok, one even walked off if you can believe that. In the end I became very strict about the conditions of any reveal and it was always erect. You've got nothing to worry about, the reveal is a cake walk without the possible disappointment. A bit awkward maybe, but that's standard. Once there's no mystery you can just get on with enjoying eachother. 

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

20 minutes ago, YOTH said:

I don't know, too many times. Some were ok, some were horrific. I mostly avoided it and still have a handful of times I remember vividly. Some were ok, one even walked off if you can believe that. In the end I became very strict about the conditions of any reveal and it was always erect. You've got nothing to worry about, the reveal is a cake walk without the possible disappointment. A bit awkward maybe, but that's standard. Once there's no mystery you can just get on with enjoying eachother. 

Well if you ever want to go into them in more detail (perhaps on PM or something) let me know, I'm really curious about the one that walked off, I just...it's so crazy that shit happens I remember someone else telling a story like that on here except she said "What the fuck is that?" in addition to walking off.

Man, it's so nice though (her knowing already and accepting). I've never had this where I am looking forward to meeting a girl (where sex is a possibility, although here it is a near certainty). To anyone reading all of this besides YOTH, all of you small guys out there, take my advice: Put this issue out there as soon as it's possible (obviously you don't want to do it first date or first conversation). If the girl reacts poorly or is judgemental, then fuck her she's not worth your time anyways (this is if you are looking for more than just sex of course). If she reacts like my girlie did, then not only is she someone worth being with, then you don't have to worry that much about "the reveal".

[Powerhouse8000]

20 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Well, we didn't meet on Fetlife lol. We've been talking for weeks (thru text) and now talk on the phone. We're Facebook friends. We only have talked about sex that one night. She lives an hour away and I'm going to pick her up sometime this week. Trust me, I've had my fair share of ghosting and girls not coming through, I know the signs and this girl has treated me unlike any other girl I've met online (or even real life). I would be shocked to the point of quitting online dating forever if this didn't end in at least cuddling or what not, just saying. If you want to bet me money, I'm game. She's the one who has been pressing to hang out, not me. She's the one leaving me good morning texts and asking if I'm still awake at 2:45 in the morning. If she was fake or trying to make money, she would not be telling me the things she tells me (like things about her body and her weight) and she wouldn't have waited this long to get into talking about sex. She is for real. I'm not saying we are going to be in a serious relationship, or anything, but I know that we are both painfully insecure and lonely and that this night we have planned is going to be intense. Like I said, I know the signs and I wouldn't be sharing this shit with you guys if I thought this girl wasn't real or didn't have sincere feelings about me.

That's all fair and well, and best of luck to you, but none of that guarantees that anything will work out. I've been in your situation too many times before. Sure, it might work out for you, but do not be surprised at all if it all comes to nothing. Take it from me as someone with 5+ years' experience of online dating.

I've had all of that and more from women, many times in the past, and guess what? It still ends in fuck all. All I'm saying is don't set yourself up for disappointment.

[Victimorthecrime]

@PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero I agree w what everyone is saying BUT I just wanted to add that in my view this old saying holds true: it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.  

[YOTH]

I think the main difference here is the personality of PDX, his enthusiasm and genuine love for someone who accepts him is infectious and admirable. He's being honest and might have found the perfect girl for him. And although Powerhouse is right about being realistic, you either roll the dice or don't play the game. Hopefully it's the real thing, if it's not, so be it. But we have to keep going and keep plugging away. I think he's found the perfect solution myself and I think if I was ever to date in the future (due to unforeseen circumstances) I'd follow suit. I'd get it out in the open and go from there. At the end of the day, small cock or not, it's dating. There are no sure things in dating and plenty of goose eggs to be had. But the other side of that coin is that Miss Right is out there too. Gotta keep looking til we find her otherwise why wake up in the morning?

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

7 hours ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

That's all fair and well, and best of luck to you, but none of that guarantees that anything will work out. I've been in your situation too many times before. Sure, it might work out for you, but do not be surprised at all if it all comes to nothing. Take it from me as someone with 5+ years' experience of online dating.

I've had all of that and more from women, many times in the past, and guess what? It still ends in fuck all. All I'm saying is don't set yourself up for disappointment.

I've already set myself up, lol, bro I'm telling you I have experience with online dating too, no girl would put the amount of effort into this relationship if she wasn't real. I've woken up to good morning texts every morning the last five days. And every night her telling me to drive the hour and 7 minutes down to see her. I've talked to her on the phone for hours. Like, seriously? You don't believe that this is for real? Well in a few days after I recap our amazing night, maybe then you'll believe me.

3 hours ago, YOTH said:

I think the main difference here is the personality of PDX, his enthusiasm and genuine love for someone who accepts him is infectious and admirable. He's being honest and might have found the perfect girl for him. And although Powerhouse is right about being realistic, you either roll the dice or don't play the game. Hopefully it's the real thing, if it's not, so be it. But we have to keep going and keep plugging away. I think he's found the perfect solution myself and I think if I was ever to date in the future (due to unforeseen circumstances) I'd follow suit. I'd get it out in the open and go from there. At the end of the day, small cock or not, it's dating. There are no sure things in dating and plenty of goose eggs to be had. But the other side of that coin is that Miss Right is out there too. Gotta keep looking til we find her otherwise why wake up in the morning?

Thanks YOTH, man I'm glad you're on this forum, we need more people like you! Guys with SPS should be able to come here and see that having SPS doesn't mean you have to be alone your whole life. There should be more discussions going on that aren't just negative "woe-is-me" stories.

And to both of you guys, believe me, I know all about the dice game known as online dating. Normally, I would put my odds of being with a girl at so low it wouldn't even be worth THINKING about getting my hopes up. After the nearly 3 weeks of texting/Facebook messaging/telephone calls with this girl, I am so sure she is for real and that we are going to be together that I would give these odds to you guys. Let me know if you guys want to bet them, I promise I'm good for it:

Girl ghosts me starting tonight and I never hear from her again (oh my god no): 1000 to 1

Girl lets me pick her up but she rejects me based on my size: 500 to 1
Girl never lets me go pick her up like we've already planned: 100 to 1
 

[Powerhouse8000]

Well, it certainly sounds like you are on to something.

All I'm saying is that no matter how good things appear to be going, with someone you haven't met yet you have no idea how it is going to work out in real life.

That is all, nothing more to say, not going to argue my case any more.

EDIT: One more thing. If any girl or woman in the future ever decides to "ghost" me, I will send her a text saying "Ghosting? Ridiculous childish behaviour, grow up. If you don't like someone just say so" and then leave it at that.

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

Well I talked to her for 3 and a half hours last night on the phone. We decided that even if she doesn't get drug tested today, we're going to hang out so...like I said, it's happening! God, her voice is so fucking hot like...I'm so excited for tonight!

[YOTH]

Good luck, enjoy yourself. What's the whole drug tested thing?

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

9 minutes ago, YOTH said:

Good luck, enjoy yourself. What's the whole drug tested thing?

Thanks, YOTH. Remember, we were going to do Molly (pure MDMA) together which is suppose to make sex amazing. But like I told her, it's already going to be amazing for me lol and like, she's the only drug I need.

[YOTH]

Does she work somewhere that drug tests her every so often? And again, it might make sex amazing for her, but I guarantee that unless you have Viagra/Cialis you're gonna turtle up big time. Just a heads up. I know you don't struggle getting hard, but MDMA still has the same side effects as speed, coke etc. 

[BellaMeilan]

18 hours ago, Powerhouse8000 said:

All I'm saying is that no matter how good things appear to be going, with someone you haven't met yet you have no idea how it is going to work out in real life.

Thanks @Powerhouse8000 I’ve been telling @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero the same thing but all the best!

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

11 minutes ago, YOTH said:

Does she work somewhere that drug tests her every so often? And again, it might make sex amazing for her, but I guarantee that unless you have Viagra/Cialis you're gonna turtle up big time. Just a heads up. I know you don't struggle getting hard, but MDMA still has the same side effects as speed, coke etc. 

Don't worry about the turtling, I already do speed occasionally so I know what to expect in that area (and fortunately for me it isn't as bad as a lot of guys). It sucks, I know, but I'll explain it to her and tell her the speed is making it smaller lol, thanks a lot girl.

And she is just starting this new caregiving job (she had to move to her mom's so she quit her old job after they treated her like shit for so long and tried to get her to work illegal amounts of hours on Christmas Eve   It sucks too because she used to live only 27 minutes away from me but now she lives 1 hour and 7 minutes away from me But after last night's conversation (her voice made me so hard at one point, she's got the sweetest softest little voice that is just so great), We were like "who cares about doing the Molly, we can't fucking wait any longer."

Just to be held, comforted, accepted, cuddled with, like, that's all I fucking need. But then you throw sex things on top of that? Like oral sex (see I've always been more into blowjobs because there's no performance issues and you can just sit back and be blown away (pun intended lol) like oh my God, tonight is going to be so fucking nice.

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

Just now, BellaMeilan said:

Thanks @Powerhouse8000 I’ve been telling @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero the same thing but all the best!

Pshhh it's happening! Tonight!!

[BellaMeilan]

2 minutes ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Pshhh it's happening! Tonight!!

I’m happy for you but you know what I’ve told you @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero 😎😎

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

22 minutes ago, YOTH said:

unless you have Viagra/Cialis

Omg YOTH, if I took a Viagra or Cialis...like that would be the worst idea ever. I have no problem getting hard or staying hard. I got hard just listening to her voice at one point last night. If I took a Viagra or Cialis, I might be hard for longer than 4 hours or what not lol and go blind.

[BellaMeilan]

I think I am going to excuse myself from this one. LOL. 😎😎😂😂

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

1 minute ago, BellaMeilan said:

I’m happy for you but you know what I’ve told you @PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero 😎😎

Thank you Bella!! And yes, what you told me is going to be in the back of my head when the time comes (or when the time CUMS, hahaha) See, that's what is nice about blowjobs, the risk of STDs is basically nonexistent (especially for the guy) but I understand that the 0.01% chance of anything happening is a big enough chance for you.

[BellaMeilan]

4 minutes ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Thank you Bella!! And yes, what you told me is going to be in the back of my head when the time comes (or when the time CUMS, hahaha) See, that's what is nice about blowjobs, the risk of STDs is basically nonexistent (especially for the guy) but I understand that the 0.01% chance of anything happening is a big enough chance for you.

HAHAHA!!! I’m happy though I know you will keep me posted absent all the details. LOL!

[PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero]

Just now, BellaMeilan said:

HAHAHA!!! I’m happy though I know you will keep me posted absent all the details. LOL!

Yeah, and don't all you guys on the forum worry, I won't go into too many details. I mean, I do consider myself a bit of a writer but I'm not going to be on here talking about how many times she sucked me off (like I said, I got a quick trigger but many bullets) and (if I do put it in her tata, how all of that went. How her vagina felt and what not lol omg. I'm just going to come on here and say how lovely our evening was

[BellaMeilan]

@PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero OMG 😮 

[YOTH]

Fair enough, I didn't realise you took other stuff. Ok then, enjoy yourself, mate. You deserve it. But you gotta give us your details, brother. It's a slow week over here 😂😂😂