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Hello All,

I don't think that this has been done before, in a single thread, but I thought that I would start a place for us to share our size (if you are willing). This is a way to see that we all have imperfections as well as to "come out" about what we truly causes our pains. It's not a place to shame or hurt each other (no matter how large or small) but it's a place to record, in a single thread, our dimensions.

Hopefully everyone will get something out of this but my goals are:

  1. to recognize that I'm not alone in having a small penis
  2. to gain a better understanding of whether we are a majority of small guys or whether we are a majority of guys who are not necessarily small but just unhappy with our size
  3. to liberate myself by "putting it out there". No longer keeping my secret but instead sharing it openly

Here's mine. Share yours if you would like.

Bone Pressed Stretched Length (measured when flaccid) = 7.39cm (2.91in) - This is how most of the studies by doctors or scientists measure.

Bone Pressed Erect Length = 8.62cm (3.39in) - Supposedly the accessible penis when penetrating. I guess what it's supposed to "feel' like to a partner.

Non-Bone Pressed Erect Length (what my size looks like) = 6.57cm (2.59in)

Bone Pressed Flaccid Length = 3.13cm(1.23in)

Non-Bone Pressed Flaccid Length (what my size looks like)= 1.34cm (0.53in)

Flaccid Girth (mid-shaft measurement) = 6.97cm (2.74in)

Erect Girth (mid-shaft measurement) = 9.54cm (3.75in)

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I've got the girth measurements wrong in the past because I was measuring at the base. My size is:

Length: 4.25 inches [Erect, non bp]

Girth: 5.25 inches [Erect, mid shaft]

(Note: I have rounded to nearest 1/4 inch segments)

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9 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Is it just me or am I truly alone in thinking that all of this measuring is not only not good for the well being of the person measuring but also not good for the well being of this community?

You are not required to participate or even read this post if you do not feel that it's good for you. I understand some people may feel this way.

Our sizes are mentioned throughout a bunch of different posts so I just thought that it would be a good idea to consolidate. For me, personally, it's facing the problem head on. Not being afraid to discuss the elephant in the room. Laying it all on the line.

I get asked by multiple people if I am small or just think that I'm small. I think you even asked me this question. So people can now judge for themselves.

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4 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

I get asked by multiple people if I am small or just think that I'm small. I think you even asked me this question. So people can now judge for themselves.

Well, sir, that is a good point. One I can't even really argue with. I guess my thinking is that we are all on this forum aren't we? That either means we are small or think we're small, and really, it doesn't even matter what your size is, if you are struggling with the idea that you are too small and not good enough, then you belong here. We don't need to know the exact details. (That's just my thinking though)

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7 minutes ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

That either means we are small or think we're small, and really, it doesn't even matter what your size is, if you are struggling with the idea that you are too small and not good enough, then you belong here.

I agree with the fact that regardless if you struggle with SPS, you belong here but I know, personally, if I was 5.5 in and struggling with relationships due to size concerns then see that a 3.5" guy is capable of maintaining a relationship it might give me hope.

Or, if I was a small guy (like I am) it may be nice to see that I'm not an anomaly and that there are other guys out here I can relate with regarding size.

Depending on your size, there may be different ways to cope that are best.

Again, if you don't feel comfortable sharing, that's perfectly fine and I understand. For me, though, it feels liberating to get out from under the rock. I've hid long enough and I've grown tired of it. I am now metaphorically exposed and I feel like a weight has been lifted.

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6 minutes ago, Sickandtired said:

5.2 non bone pressed 5.7 bone pressed, 4.8 girth, less than 2 inches flaccid. I measure in standing with erect penis parallel if I measure in lying I'm less than 5 non bone pressed, still insecure as fuck.

I think we all have our insecurities for various reasons. In my humble opinion you have a great size but I know it's all about how you personally feel about it. Thanks for sharing!

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@lostboy1

Though I'm unhappy with my length, if someone gave me the ability to add extra size I would do so to the girth around the base of my penis. For me, how it looks matters more than it's pleasure providing ability (to a partner) I don't want to spam this thread incase people want to publish their sizes. But yeah.

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7 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

Again, if you don't feel comfortable sharing, that's perfectly fine and I understand.

Oh it's not that. I mean, I would guestimate 3.8 to 4.2 bone pressed honestly. I don't even know how you guys measure girth but I can tell you that it's fucking skinny so...

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1 hour ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Oh it's not that. I mean, I would guestimate 3.8 to 4.2 bone pressed honestly. I don't even know how you guys measure girth but I can tell you that it's fucking skinny so...

That's interesting. My initial presumption on you was that you'd be more in the average range & perhaps slightly above. 

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lol fuck no. God, I wish. I'm curious why you thought that? What made me come off as a bigger guy? No, I mean my flaccid is fucking pathetic (one inch if I'm lucky I bet) and sometimes when I get really nervous it almost seems like NEGATIVE length. tucks in or turtles or what not. I am just fortunate I'm a grower but sometimes I wish I was a shower instead.

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On ‎12‎/‎23‎/‎2017 at 9:15 PM, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Oh it's not that. I mean, I would guestimate 3.8 to 4.2 bone pressed honestly. I don't even know how you guys measure girth but I can tell you that it's fucking skinny so...

I don't know why but it shocks me that you've never measured. I guess it's because I do it obsessively.

I just figured all guys had measured once in their lives anyway.

And girth is measured erect, mid-shaft. You can use a string and then put it on a ruler or you can use a cloth taylors measuring tape.

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I measured once when I was like 16 or 17. I remember trying to convince myself I was 5 inches bone pressed and maybe I am 5 inches bone pressed but I doubt it. I need to find a ruler lol. I mean I've told all of you guys my thoughts on measuring. I don't know why people do it because it is just reaffirming what you already know and stressing you out and bumming you out.

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@PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero

Well you come across as a physical person (into sports etc) so i wondered if a respectable endowment had contributed. But its difficult to place you with all these hypothetical sizes you're providing. Until you find that ruler & publish a set of numbers I'm treating yours as completely unknown. 

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28 minutes ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

I don't know why people do it because it is just reaffirming what you already know

Is it reaffirming what you already know? If you think you are small and you measure and find out you are 5.5" bone pressed (and some studies say 5.1" is average) then would this not make you feel a little better? I think it would make me feel better but I know every person is different. Even if you measure and realize that you're only 5" bone pressed this still means that you are likely larger than half the male population! If I was in the 50th percentile then I would feel pretty good. A "glass half full" kinda thing.

Now, if you're on the far left of the bell curve then measuring may not help at all but for me, personally, it helped me confirm what I thought to be true but wasn't sure. It also helped me realize that my size concerns were real and not just in my head. Now this doesn't solve my problem because there is no solution other than learning to live with it, but by measuring I have now ruled out any doubt that I am very small and now I can move forward excepting that this is a fact.

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Don't you almost wish you had never measured then? I mean, at least then you might think you were average or what not. See this is why I am against measuring. Yeah, you're right, I could measure and find out I'm 5 inches bone pressed but I could also measure and find out I'm 3. Alright, that's it, I'm gonna go find a ruler right now.

4 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

Even if you measure and realize that you're only 5" bone pressed this still means that you are likely larger than half the male population!

I honestly believe that I am in the 0.1% percentile. I know that until I measure you guys can't believe that but I just feel like I have to be the smallest person in my city (and that's a city of 161,000 apparently, damn, I just looked that up I knew Vancouver was above 100,000 but damn.) Anyways, finding a ruler now.

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@PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero

 

It's not that we don't believe you. It's that you yourself don't know for sure. If you're against measuring then don't measure it, I'm just saying it might be unfair to subsequently throw hypothetical numbers out there because it's a bit too much guesswork for everyone.

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8 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

If I was in the 50th percentile then I would feel pretty good.

That's logical but minds aren't always logical. You might end up thinking "Fuck! Half the guys are bigger than me. Just another half inch and I would be above average and wouldn't have to worry so much".  

Us worry people are worry people. We always gonna find something to worry about.  

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8 hours ago, Victimorthecrime said:

That's logical but minds aren't always logical. You might end up thinking "Fuck! Half the guys are bigger than me. Just another half inch and I would be above average and wouldn't have to worry so much".  

Yeah, I know this is true because there are 5.5" guys on here that have SPS. Some people may feel better if they realize that they are not actually small. I personally would be extremely happy with a 5-5.5" cock.

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12 hours ago, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Don't you almost wish you had never measured then? I mean, at least then you might think you were average or what not.

No I don't. It would have drove me crazy to have never known if it was all in my head or real.

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3 hours ago, lostboy1 said:

No I don't. It would have drove me crazy to have never known if it was all in my head or real.

Adding to my comment, yes, I measured and realized that I drew the short straw (figuratively and literally) but I could have measured and realized that I was average or above and all my worries and concerns were for nothing. I know this doesn't really solve SPS for some people but I would think some would feel better knowing, for a fact, that they are average.

The reality is that I'm on the far left of the bell curve and now that I know this I can learn to deal with it. I am very small and knowing this, for a fact, helps me to cope.

Would it be better to think you have cancer or to know, for a fact, whether you have it or not? To me, I would rather know for a fact that to just assume.

 

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On ‎12‎/‎24‎/‎2017 at 8:08 PM, PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero said:

Anyways, finding a ruler now.

@PDXsUnHungAndUnsungHero, just curious if you ever found that ruler. Not that I'm pressuring you but I have the impression that you are larger than you think but that you don't want to face that reality. It's almost like avoidance of the truth so you can self loath.

If you measure and realize that you are in the 1 SD from the average range would this make you happy? Or, regardless of the measurement, would you still be unhappy with your body? There isn't a correct answer, I'm just curious.

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3 minutes ago, lostboy1 said:

just curious if you ever found that ruler.

Not yet lol. I'm actually going downstairs to grab a bite to eat (I would have been down there already but I've been talking like non-stop to this new girlie who lives in my town and is a flight attendant/fast food worker (crazy huh?). And no, she doesn't know about any of this, but she seems really nice so when the time comes I'm sure she will be accepting.)
 

4 minutes ago, lostboy1 said:

but I have the impression that you are larger than you think

Bro, I guarantee you that I will be around 4 inches bone pressed, maybe not even that. I know I'm small. Out of all the porn I've ever seen I can count the guys that I have seen with smaller ones on my hands. (Which is pretty sad to specifically search for "small dick" porn and 95% of the guys are bigger than yours).

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