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I'm from Africa and trust me the same issue of penis size is still a problem here forget what you see in black porn. And the annoying part is the ridiculing here is worst. We black are the most sentimental people and will laugh at you at the slightest instance. Before we can now talk about asking a girl out for the first time, taking her home and when she agrees sex another problem.

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8 minutes ago, Victimorthecrime said:

It is a waste of time to worry about things we have zero control over but we all do it.  Not sure why.

This inspired me to google some "answers", I've found:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/what-mentally-strong-people-dont-do/201705/how-stop-worrying-about-things-you-cant-change

https://www.quora.com/Why-do-people-worry-so-much-about-things-that-they-can-or-cant-control

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From the first article:

Differentiate between ruminating and problem-solving.

AND 

Develop healthy affirmations.

I really like those 2 the best.  

So many people fail to differentiate between ruminating (or brooding) vs problem solving.

Affirmations work because language doesn't just describe it creates.  

 

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I'm curious what counts as small in africa. I've seen enough penises to know that every race has small ones and big ones, but that there is some truth to the racial stereotypes about size.

I once had a chance to visit burkina faso with a friend who's from there. He said girls there would love me (guess cuz i'm foreign and i'm cute enough), but i was scared how they'd react to my size. The trip never happened for unrelated reasons.

Where in Africa are you from @bless?

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15 hours ago, Lodz said:

I'm curious what counts as small in africa. I've seen enough penises to know that every race has small ones and big ones, but that there is some truth to the racial stereotypes about size.

I once had a chance to visit burkina faso with a friend who's from there. He said girls there would love me (guess cuz i'm foreign and i'm cute enough), but i was scared how they'd react to my size. The trip never happened for unrelated reasons.

Where in Africa are you from @bless?

I'm in Nigeria. Yeah black  girls will trip for you when you come to Africa, but if its Nigeria you have to be at 7.5 inches erect to make dem really crave you in bed else they would be just after your money alone. 

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On 7/15/2018 at 10:27 AM, 2726 said:

As a black man with a small (CLEARLY SHORT) penis I can relate. The ridicule amongst black people is no joke. And what's even sadder is how speechless it leaves me each and every time it happens. 

Sometimes when a guy laughs at me, I try to divert the attention by calling him gay for talking about my penis but deep down I'm hurt. For the girls don't flirt too much, stick with one girl who probably doesn't have enough experience on dick size. 

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