Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 (edited) Need to talk. I am a sex offender tho I have not actually touched any minors I have done something ( shared photos ) and now feeling bit unsure of my self. I have signed the register. And not sure what will happen next. Still waiting crown court date. ? Hope its okay to put this here Edited August 14, 2018 by LaLa added trigger warning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaLa Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 (edited) Hello, Daveuk, welcome! I moved your post to another forum and added the warning to give the people who'd prefer to avoid this topic the possibility to do so. I know the term "sexual abuse" is not the best to express the topic, but I hope it could "keep away" the victims of an abuse who could struggle with reading this. You said you're "feeling bit unsure of yourself". What exactly do you mean? And how do you perceive what you've done, now? I think it's always a very good idea to "talk", so I hope you'll find here a place to share your thoughts and feelings and to gain new insights. Edited August 14, 2018 by LaLa typos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 No problem. Well I have shared photos that I shouldn't of done and am just keeping thinking that basically that am.feeling like next time am.in court I be sent to prison just feeling a bit like how did up in this darkness :s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazz Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 Hi Daveuk. Did you want to talk more about why you think you ended up in this situation or more about concerns about the consequences? LaLa 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 Both I think is better. I sort got myself isolated and got mixed up in a bad group. I read that might have my fb disabled but also read that the supreme court over ruled so am.not sure on that one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 3 minutes ago, Daveuk said: I sort got myself isolated and got mixed up in a bad group The 'bad group' is an on line group? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 With bad people yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 Free advise here, do what you choose. If this is your first encounter w the legal system then its possible that a good defense attorney can get you a fair deal. Have you been told what your options are and what to expect? LaLa 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 I got a lawyer from the public defenders services. I have already signed the register and been told my account will monitored am just now waiting to go to crown court for sentencing My lawyer did say in magistrates that I had severe learning disability what ever that means ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victimorthecrime Posted August 14, 2018 Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 Well since it's your first offense, you touched no one, you have learning disability, I suspect you will get probation and a fine. Let us know how it goes. LaLa 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 14, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2018 Will do and will let know when I know Victimorthecrime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 16, 2018 I have just have some unanswered Questions I don't know the answers to. Maybe someone can answer them ? Q1. Now am.on the register will it mean I will no longer be allowed in town. This is where I go to my local drop in centre and my bank for my money ? Q2. If it should go in the papers should I be what's the word uneasy about leaving my flat ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaLa Posted August 16, 2018 Report Share Posted August 16, 2018 It seems the conditions depend on the state you're living in. I've found this, for instance: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_offender_registries_in_the_United_States#Exclusion_zones http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/jurisprudence/2014/08/sex_offender_registry_laws_by_state_mapped.html Does it answer your questions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 16, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 16, 2018 Thanks anyway. But am not in Us or a state am in UK England Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaLa Posted August 16, 2018 Report Share Posted August 16, 2018 Oh, sorry (I was assuming just based on statistics), I see. But I'm sure you can google similar info for the UK. (I don't have time to do it now...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daveuk Posted August 17, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 17, 2018 No problem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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